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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham

How good are you at making eye contact?

i was dancing last night and i had a dance with a guy who made the most intense eye contact. It made me feel a bit uncomfortable but when i feel like this i tend to look down so it looked like i was looking at his crotch

Another dance was with the instructor of the class who kept telling me off for looking down as i danced, again i felt uncomfortable and looked around the room instead of at him.

i need more confidence i think

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I like eye contact and always look at people in the eye while talking etc....however when I'm uneasy around someone or my spirit does not take to them I often can't look at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like eye contact...let's just say it's very important to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who it is in most cases I'm fine if i fancy them i tend not to be so good in case i make it obvious i fancy them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much unwavering eye contact stresses me out a bit. There's a guy I work with like that, and it instantly makes me feel uncomfortable.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"How good are you at making eye contact?

i was dancing last night and i had a dance with a guy who made the most intense eye contact. It made me feel a bit uncomfortable but when i feel like this i tend to look down so it looked like i was looking at his crotch

Another dance was with the instructor of the class who kept telling me off for looking down as i danced, again i felt uncomfortable and looked around the room instead of at him.

i need more confidence i think"

I dance a lot with a guy who does that and I cannot look back any more, but you can look around their neck/shoulder level and that works fine.

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By *rymeplsMan
over a year ago

manchester


"How good are you at making eye contact?

i was dancing last night and i had a dance with a guy who made the most intense eye contact. It made me feel a bit uncomfortable but when i feel like this i tend to look down so it looked like i was looking at his crotch wear shades

Another dance was with the instructor of the class who kept telling me off for looking down as i danced, again i felt uncomfortable and looked around the room instead of at him.

i need more confidence i think"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was out with an old flame recently (all above board) and she text me a few days later and said she loved the way I look into her eyes. I didn't even realise I was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just stare at the boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too much unwavering eye contact stresses me out a bit. There's a guy I work with like that, and it instantly makes me feel uncomfortable."

I think inappropriate eye contact can be very discomforting. Eye contact develops with intimacy. Too much at the wrong time or if the desired level of connection is not mutual can be invasive.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

In certain environments (pub, work) I am fine making eye contact. In other scenarios (shopping etc) I rarely make eye contact. And during sex I keep my eyes shut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be really crap at eyecontact. Over the years I've got much better. Saying that, if it's with someone I like, I fall to pieces..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In certain environments (pub, work) I am fine making eye contact. In other scenarios (shopping etc) I rarely make eye contact. And during sex I keep my eyes shut "

We stuck our tongue out and pull funny when woman close their eyes during sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think making eye contact is important. I use it to flirt

I use it to assert my self

And I use it to reassure.

It all depends on the situation when you should use it and your body's actions and other facial expressions at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think making eye contact is important. I use it to flirt

I use it to assert my self

And I use it to reassure.

It all depends on the situation when you should use it and your body's actions and other facial expressions at the same time "

Shel does have lovely eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to have eye contact and if the person Im conversing with is unable to look back at me it makes me feel uncomfortable.. I want that eye contact when speaking to people

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I have to have eye contact and if the person Im conversing with is unable to look back at me it makes me feel uncomfortable.. I want that eye contact when speaking to people "

i look at people when i talk to them but the was unwavering, direct eye contact

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

I always make eye contact when first meeting somebody. Then at later points I'll do it again with a cheeky smile to. You have to pick the right moments though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think making eye contact is important. I use it to flirt

I use it to assert my self

And I use it to reassure.

It all depends on the situation when you should use it and your body's actions and other facial expressions at the same time

Shel does have lovely eyes. "

Thank you - got to say mrs Polk has a lovely arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How good are you at making eye contact?

"

Very, especially if it's the cum shot yo!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Always make eye contact.. And the depth of that depends what I'm doing at the time! Can accept some people are naturally shy when they talk to you, but persistant eye dodgers are plain shifty to me! i am very perseptive .. ( mrs)

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"I think making eye contact is important. I use it to flirt

I use it to assert my self

And I use it to reassure.

It all depends on the situation when you should use it and your body's actions and other facial expressions at the same time "
agree... I have a very expressive face n tend to show what i'm thinking... Which can be awkward at times lol

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"I like eye contact and always look at people in the eye while talking etc....however when I'm uneasy around someone or my spirit does not take to them I often can't look at them "

What has your vodka and diet got to do with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always try to make eye contact - in my job i look at peoples faces all day as i chat to them usually to judge the reactions and behaviour - if they start yawning i figure im yakking on too much or their meds have kicked in

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I do ceroc and dance man and lady. I always try keep eye contact but if I really dislike looking at the person I look lots at the instructor instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear shades so that you can't see me looking.

Also, have you ever thought that the person "looking" at you might be very short sighted and probably can only see your silhouette

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I wear shades so that you can't see me looking.

Also, have you ever thought that the person "looking" at you might be very short sighted and probably can only see your silhouette "

hope not cos its dark when we dance lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never sure how much eye contact is too much when meeting socially. eye contact is taken as a sign of honesty in business, so I'm used to keeping eye contact through long drawn out meetings, and I do love to gaze into her eyes as we kiss and when she cums, but try not to stare at her like a psycho all the time. The eyes are the doorways to the soul after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always make eye contact with people but more often or not I lock eyes with a woman I find attractive and I think to myself

"Smile this time E Jay you idiot" and then I end up putting on my game face and she looks away because I end up looking like I'm moody or uninterested.

I am a pleb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always make eye contact with people but more often or not I lock eyes with a woman I find attractive and I think to myself

"Smile this time E Jay you idiot" and then I end up putting on my game face and she looks away because I end up looking like I'm moody or uninterested.

I am a pleb "

not if she read this thread - she would say - oh is that the face you were chatting on about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always make eye contact with people but more often or not I lock eyes with a woman I find attractive and I think to myself

"Smile this time E Jay you idiot" and then I end up putting on my game face and she looks away because I end up looking like I'm moody or uninterested.

I am a pleb

not if she read this thread - she would say - oh is that the face you were chatting on about "

Then she would run for the hills and be like "the fuck was that"

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Never sure how much eye contact is too much when meeting socially. eye contact is taken as a sign of honesty in business, so I'm used to keeping eye contact through long drawn out meetings, and I do love to gaze into her eyes as we kiss and when she cums, but try not to stare at her like a psycho all the time. The eyes are the doorways to the soul after all "
2 seconds too much and ya doomed! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always make eye contact with people but more often or not I lock eyes with a woman I find attractive and I think to myself

"Smile this time E Jay you idiot" and then I end up putting on my game face and she looks away because I end up looking like I'm moody or uninterested.

I am a pleb

not if she read this thread - she would say - oh is that the face you were chatting on about

Then she would run for the hills and be like "the fuck was that""

have to try a different look

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Eye contact is like personal body space: if you are comfortable with the person you allow more of it.

Look up and focus on a point just away from the eyes.

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By *avebi48Man
over a year ago

Lordswood

try looking at back at the eyebrows instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"try looking at back at the eyebrows instead "

that would make me laugh- have you ever done that ? they are quite comical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"try looking at back at the eyebrows instead "

Never do it if its a monobrow they mesmerise you and you can't look away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gateway to the soul. Sometimes I will share my soul, other times I won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eye contact to me is important. Especially when anyone calls my false eye a fake. I take it out and pass it to them and ask them to re-assess matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't trust people that cant look me in the eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love eye contact! Particularly when taking him deep in my mouth and look up at him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm massiv on eye contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spelling doesn't matter much hahaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always amazed how people send pics sporting their sunglasses. Duh! Does zilch for me. Obviously those are not on the same wave length as me. Eyes will always be the windows of one's soul.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am terrible. I'll make eye contact with anyone except a guy i find attractive when I'm out and about. I always look away as soon as they look at me.

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