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By *oomar1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stalybridge

Just been passed at a clinic to be a sperm donor

Apparently really high sperm count

Anyone been a donor or recipient or even any out there with a success story of having a child this way

As I'm still undecided to go through with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't done it yet, but I am interested to sign up as a sperm doner

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By *supermenCouple (MM)
over a year ago

North London

There will be kids on street looking like you and you will always be wondering... How the fuck it happened

No thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm donating my eggs

I have no need for them

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"i'm donating my eggs

I have no need for them"

I'll have some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had IVF , not with donor sperm though. I knew a few ladies that had children from donor sperm though . Aren't the rules different now though and any resulting children have the right to know your identity so they can contact you? I'm guessing you have counselling etc prior to donation to check you're ok with that ? Donor eggs and sperm is always needed so hats off to those that donate.

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By *supermenCouple (MM)
over a year ago

North London

The amount of sperm I waste I could be making £40k / year if I donated

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By *aughtyButExtraNice69Woman
over a year ago

Rotherham

My auntie was born without any eggs an my mum always said if she needed the eggs then my mum would give them too her,,,, years later when my auntie met my uncle an they wanted children my mum gave my auntie her eggs. My two cousins was born premature an mum said that was the only time she has looked at them as been part of her, now 14 years later she just sees them as her 2 rarther stroppy nieces hehe!

So ive always said if its a family member that cant have a baby then il donate my eggs

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By *avebi48Man
over a year ago

Lordswood

think they also call a halt once you've "fathered" a small number of offspring. Someone at work used to but they stopped for this reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'm donating my eggs

I have no need for them"
is it Easter already?

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

New Cross

Be aware that in the future any children that arise from sperm donation will be able to track you down.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I have an awesome child so as far as Im concerned I have Grade A spunk

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By *oomar1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stalybridge


"I've had IVF , not with donor sperm though. I knew a few ladies that had children from donor sperm though . Aren't the rules different now though and any resulting children have the right to know your identity so they can contact you? I'm guessing you have counselling etc prior to donation to check you're ok with that ? Donor eggs and sperm is always needed so hats off to those that donate. "

Yeah when they are 18 they can

But also would be a small majority surely who would actually tell there kids I'm imagining

Unless if it's a same sex partnership

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'm donating my eggs

I have no need for them

I'll have some."

pmsl!!!!

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

New Cross


"The amount of sperm I waste I could be making £40k / year if I donated "

But would the sperm bank want your donations?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had IVF , not with donor sperm though. I knew a few ladies that had children from donor sperm though . Aren't the rules different now though and any resulting children have the right to know your identity so they can contact you? I'm guessing you have counselling etc prior to donation to check you're ok with that ? Donor eggs and sperm is always needed so hats off to those that donate.

Yeah when they are 18 they can

But also would be a small majority surely who would actually tell there kids I'm imagining

Unless if it's a same sex partnership

"

I would imagine some will and some won't. Thats the nature of the beast. It's similar with IVF , some parents tell their children and some don't. I've always been very open with mine. Anything you're unsure of speak to the clinic , they will have the knowledge.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

I know a couple that had a baby through donor sperm and have never told the child as it was the only way the father could cope. He only wanted to think of the child as his not the product of someone's help. He's theirs no one else's. Luckily he's grown up looking like the mums side of the family but has picked up the fathers temperaments over the years.

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By *oomar1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stalybridge


"I know a couple that had a baby through donor sperm and have never told the child as it was the only way the father could cope. He only wanted to think of the child as his not the product of someone's help. He's theirs no one else's. Luckily he's grown up looking like the mums side of the family but has picked up the fathers temperaments over the years. "

That's how I imagine it

A couple and a kid all happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it not abit strange to go through life not knowing how many children you have or any idea what they're like ?

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By *oomar1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stalybridge


"Is it not abit strange to go through life not knowing how many children you have or any idea what they're like ?"

You can find out if your sperm has been used and how many kids have been born etc

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Is it not abit strange to go through life not knowing how many children you have or any idea what they're like ?"

yes would agree with it being a bit strange to not know but would add for some that will be the norm and also to add not caring a jot..

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got this outlook: If you are single and don't want kids, why not share your goodness and get it used in a meaningfull way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got this outlook: If you are single and don't want kids, why not share your goodness and get it used in a meaningfull way "

I always like your posts Shag as they're positive !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got this outlook: If you are single and don't want kids, why not share your goodness and get it used in a meaningfull way

I always like your posts Shag as they're positive ! "
Thanks and yes. I am very positive myself and like ur posts as well

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By *riendlyGirlWoman
over a year ago

lancashire


"Yeah when they are 18 they can

But also would be a small majority surely who would actually tell there kids I'm imagining

Unless if it's a same sex partnership

"

About 2 yr ago I was at the hospital and donor sperm was something we were looking to do. We had to have counselling specific to donor and the rules were very clear. We would be expected and legally obliged to raise the child as a child of donor sperm. We were told we would not be permitted to keep this from the child.

One of the reasons we turned it down.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Well if you go ahead with it, I think it's a lovely gesture to help those who may not be able to have kids naturally and need some help...or those that want a baby but not in a relationship etc...fair play to you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried to donate some at my local Bank, but the cashier declined my offer

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By *eneRoissyMan
over a year ago

Nailsworth


"I tried to donate some at my local Bank, but the cashier declined my offer"

My ex had a similar incident, I'd asked her to drop off my donation but she tripped up on the way and swallowed the lot

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Something that I hate is that men get paid to donate and all they do is wank in a pot.

We have to have surgery and get nothing. Us women seem to always get the raw deal.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"Yeah when they are 18 they can

But also would be a small majority surely who would actually tell there kids I'm imagining

Unless if it's a same sex partnership

About 2 yr ago I was at the hospital and donor sperm was something we were looking to do. We had to have counselling specific to donor and the rules were very clear. We would be expected and legally obliged to raise the child as a child of donor sperm. We were told we would not be permitted to keep this from the child.

One of the reasons we turned it down. "

Snap when I went through IVF 15 years ago I was told the same as we went through the counselling for using donor sperm. Luckily we didn't need it in the end as we were trialled for ICSI so could use husbands sperm despite an exceptionally low count

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"i'm donating my eggs

I have no need for them"

Always wanted to do this. I'd be a surrogate for the right couple too. Not for free tho.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

was watching only fools and horses and uncle albert had been to france

all the men had bald heads and white beards twas funny

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By *oomar1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stalybridge


"Something that I hate is that men get paid to donate and all they do is wank in a pot.

We have to have surgery and get nothing. Us women seem to always get the raw deal. "

Just get travel expenses

Think women get 750

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