FabSwingers.com forum: meeting women

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi all I havnt been on too long , and has always been in r/ships been out single now for bout 6 months so wanted to try something new im bit nervous about meeting couples as I said I usually do 1 to 1 , ive spoke to few women had chatted well I gave my mob then went quiet , I have cock pics which ive learned don't impress women so I done so face pics ok im no mr Clooney or pitt , but have good personality yet still havnt met , its a sex site but I still like to have normal chats , so ladies any advice will be appreciated thanks all

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By *arkinberksMan
over a year ago

Ascot

Dude, a profile pic of your todger is not exactly subtle, especially if you have already established that such images aren't the best opening gambit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never give your mobile number out unless solicited or you have one just for swinging. That's just daft.

Go to socials or clubs. You'll get more interaction there than just bashing out emails on here, as that is pretty fruitless as you've discovered. It's not a sex site, it's a swinger site and they are different things. If you've seen too many of those "Just message and ask to fuck" adverts and think that's what this is, then you're on a hiding to nothing.

Or alternatively go for a night out, you've more chance of pulling in a nightclub or pub than on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well your first mistake is to confuse this site with a sex site. Swinging is soooo much more than sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

put a nice well groomed pic up of your face. us women like to see faces too. nothing worse then a face pic which is unkept. always keep it trimmed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

see I thought giving my mob is a sign of being genuine , and all I ask for is the same , I see now now could have bee nieve , would you recommend a club or are they mainly for couples , I don't want to look lost

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By *om DawnCouple
over a year ago

Medway

Your body hair has to go as do your cock pics - women hate them until they are horny - Dawn only wants to see a slim well dressed clean looking man in full length plus close face picture. - yeah there's a few single women on here looking for sex but swinging is mainly for couples meeting couples. However occasionally we like a single guy to join us to fulfil our fantasies. It takes time and a certain guy to do that. Most women on here as part of a couple are very much in love with their partners and are used to be treated in the right way - they don't react well to aggressive or crude behaviour ( unless it's part of the fantasy) - take a more long term view and be polite and respectful at all times - plus try and get to a few clubs and meet face to face we prefer that or we use recommendations from our swinging friends if we need a single m x

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"Your body hair has to go as do your cock pics - women hate them until they are horny - Dawn only wants to see a slim well dressed clean looking man in full length plus close face picture. - yeah there's a few single women on here looking for sex but swinging is mainly for couples meeting couples. However occasionally we like a single guy to join us to fulfil our fantasies. It takes time and a certain guy to do that. Most women on here as part of a couple are very much in love with their partners and are used to be treated in the right way - they don't react well to aggressive or crude behaviour ( unless it's part of the fantasy) - take a more long term view and be polite and respectful at all times - plus try and get to a few clubs and meet face to face we prefer that or we use recommendations from our swinging friends if we need a single m x "

I'd agree with some parts of this - lose the cock pics, long term view and staying respectful.

Swinging being about couple swapping less so - maybe I should just get me coat now as I am a single fem and don't have anyone to swap...

P.s. I'm not on here looking for sex - if thats all I wanted, I could go out on town and pull - I prefer to play with couples, or selected singles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ive never considered getting rid off body hair , always gone with the view nature intended it to be there , ill consider a trim

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By *om DawnCouple
over a year ago

Medway

Neatly trim as a minimum - plus the name conjures up a monster - I'd change that too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

lol oh well im fucked on ere then

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