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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's been almost a year since I met someone from here and even though I really want to get back into meeting, I feel nervous, even to meet someone I've met regularly in the past.

No previous bad experiences and no negative feedback.

I'm wondering whether I've lost a lot of my confidence or if it's just because it's been so long.

Any thoughts?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Don't worry it will be just like riding a bike x

(not literally)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I thinkk everyone till gets nervous. I know i do. Try not to put pressure yourself and try and enjoy the night for what it is.

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

Take control. Most people get a wee bit nervous.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Start with a nice social meet or maybe two it will give you time to relax, get to know the person...nerves can be good you know

All the best x

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts


"Start with a nice social meet or maybe two it will give you time to relax, get to know the person...nerves can be good you know

All the best x"

^^^^ wise words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say nerves are normal. Why not choose a person you have met before and make it the one you would feel most at ease with. Plan it as just a social even if that makes it easier ? Just let the night flow and see what happens ?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"It's been almost a year since I met someone from here and even though I really want to get back into meeting, I feel nervous, even to meet someone I've met regularly in the past.

No previous bad experiences and no negative feedback.

I'm wondering whether I've lost a lot of my confidence or if it's just because it's been so long.

Any thoughts?

"

Try and find a patient guy who is happy to do a few social meets first so you feel relaxed and at ease. Maybe go to a local club with a friend to meet people too.

Hope it works out for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to blow those cobwebs away. Once you get chatting to someone sexy again you'll be fine

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

As my learned friend pointed out, try a social and then rebuild your confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be nervous, just be your usual pretty, sultry self and everything will be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adrenaline is good. It wouldn't be fun without that excitement and anticipation! Suck up those nerves, and use that nervous energy to your advantage! It'll be awesome!

I hope you have an amazing time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need to blow those cobwebs away. Once you get chatting to someone sexy again you'll be fine "

I think cobwebs is definitely the right terminology!

Thanks for all the advice folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get nervous before a meet but I agree with the above have a social, get chatting build up the anticipation and then you will be raring to go x

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"It's been almost a year since I met someone from here and even though I really want to get back into meeting, I feel nervous, even to meet someone I've met regularly in the past.

No previous bad experiences and no negative feedback.

I'm wondering whether I've lost a lot of my confidence or if it's just because it's been so long.

Any thoughts?

"

I have been meeting for years. The best part of the meet is the nerves/anticipation to the meet. That's one way to know it'll be a good one!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's been almost a year since I met someone from here and even though I really want to get back into meeting, I feel nervous, even to meet someone I've met regularly in the past.

No previous bad experiences and no negative feedback.

I'm wondering whether I've lost a lot of my confidence or if it's just because it's been so long.

Any thoughts?

I have been meeting for years. The best part of the meet is the nerves/anticipation to the meet. That's one way to know it'll be a good one! "

I meant more that I'm hesitant to meet even if I'm excited by someone. I've been on here for 4 years and never had that problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try a no pressure meet for a coffee with someone first. I say someone I really mean me lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe try a no pressure meet for a coffee with someone first. I say someone I really mean me lol xx"

Haha I know you do, Dave :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe try a no pressure meet for a coffee with someone first. I say someone I really mean me lol xx

Haha I know you do, Dave :p"

What could possibly go wrong, other than tucking your skirt into your knickers lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I get nervous all the time, I get nervous because I wonder if they will like me, will I like him etc..I need to get out there and start meeting more I'm my own worst enemy at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get nervous all the time, I get nervous because I wonder if they will like me, will I like him etc..I need to get out there and start meeting more I'm my own worst enemy at times "

They should like you cheeky chops, your a top person, I'd come to Coventry for a meet with you xxx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I get nervous all the time, I get nervous because I wonder if they will like me, will I like him etc..I need to get out there and start meeting more I'm my own worst enemy at times

They should like you cheeky chops, your a top person, I'd come to Coventry for a meet with you xxx"

Come to Coventry and see if you can find me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get nervous all the time, I get nervous because I wonder if they will like me, will I like him etc..I need to get out there and start meeting more I'm my own worst enemy at times

They should like you cheeky chops, your a top person, I'd come to Coventry for a meet with you xxx

Come to Coventry and see if you can find me "

Maybe I should bring L'Amour we can make it a 3 way boost everyone's confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been back here a few months now and I haven't had a meet am thinking of going to the no3 social Thursday which am nervous about even though I have been many times in the past just get back into it slow and steady

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