FabSwingers.com forum: That look....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My fella says I have a certain look, he says I look 'sexual' and that people want to fuck me as soon as they meet me. Now I'm not soft and I know this is one of his tricks to get into my knickers but what do you think. Are their people who have this kind of look?

He says it has nothing to do with looks or age, there are beautiful people you just couldn't imagine ever having sex, yet other people who have nothing particularly special about them yet you find them irresistible and want to ravish.

So does he have a point or is he just talking shit like usual?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think he has a point!

Sometimes it's just a glint in the eye, or a cheeky little smile, or a little look.

Quite often I can see a lady and think 'yep, she's a naughty one!'.

Sex appeal can be determined by the littlest things, sometimes you can get a lady with model looks but without that special something they can almost be sexless.

Other ladies may be less conventionally attractive (or not, as the case may be) but have something about them - their swagger, their body language... it's almost impossible to put your finger on exactly what it is but they have something that makes them overtly sexual - and it sounds like your guy is saying that's what you have

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You have almost describe exactly what he says.

Sometimes I see someone and am stunned at how beautiful they are and when I point her out to him he says that they are nice but don't have that 'thing' going on. Used to think he said that to be kind to me but maybe he was telling the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have almost describe exactly what he says.

He's definitely telling the truth.

Must be some sort of sexual signals that only men can pick up.

I'm sure the same is true the other way around (women getting signals from men)? Maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely ! I completely agree with him xx

Alabama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's weird to say it but I know what attracts me to a girl 'that way'. I love rosey cheeks and a youthful appearance, achieved by a fuller face (not fat or flabby). I have a friend that had such sexual presence it was hard to look elsewhere but then sadly she started to lose weight on the face and her magic went

. From what I've seen of your pictures your face is the perfect example of what I just described you have very nice cheekbones and your lips look so good to play with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some men have "that look" too....it isn't just limited to women. And definitely is nothing to do with how good looking they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, it's out there - some people just have that 'thing' - a look, style, smile, body language, confidence, knowledge, power etc that just makes another person want them ASAP!

Not largely related to looks or 'typical' attraction triggers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some men have "that look" too....it isn't just limited to women. And definitely is nothing to do with how good looking they are."

and for me most of it is to do with the eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will put the look that fiona gives me as our profile pic .... That always turns me on x

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I've had a couple of guys say this to me too. Maybe I'm overtly sexual because of my extroverted nature I don't know. I'm just holding out for a man who thinks I'm beautiful as well as sexy now!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I think I have the opposite look.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

not so much nowdays but if I wanted a bloke he knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some men have "that look" too....it isn't just limited to women. And definitely is nothing to do with how good looking they are.

and for me most of it is to do with the eyes"

absolutely this ^^

and it's all about the eyes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always thought this about celebrities. Like nicole sherzinger. Shes very attractive, but for me has no sex appeal at all. Same with cheryl cole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your other half is spot on. And I think it is different things to different people. Though I can't always pinpoint it.

Sparkle in the eye? A naughty smile, a look?

Heck, apparently I've had that effect on people on occasion. My response to that has almost been incredulity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some men have "that look" too....it isn't just limited to women. And definitely is nothing to do with how good looking they are.

and for me most of it is to do with the eyes

absolutely this ^^

and it's all about the eyes...."

Johns eyes mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, it's out there - some people just have that 'thing' - a look, style, smile, body language, confidence, knowledge, power etc that just makes another person want them ASAP!

Not largely related to looks or 'typical' attraction triggers "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy once said to me I only need to look at him and it drives him crazy.

That look?

One of the nicest compliments I have ever had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think he has a point!

Sometimes it's just a glint in the eye, or a cheeky little smile, or a little look.

Quite often I can see a lady and think 'yep, she's a naughty one!'.

Sex appeal can be determined by the littlest things, sometimes you can get a lady with model looks but without that special something they can almost be sexless.

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By *layfull pairingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Definately all in the eyes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to agree with your husband. As a man, sometimes you just KNOW when a woman has that certain something that makes them especially sexy. That certain look. And yes, you have the look!

Matt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always thought this about celebrities. Like nicole sherzinger. Shes very attractive, but for me has no sex appeal at all. Same with cheryl cole. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, it's out there - some people just have that 'thing' - a look, style, smile, body language, confidence, knowledge, power etc that just makes another person want them ASAP!

Not largely related to looks or 'typical' attraction triggers "

This as well

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I used to get told its a look that tells them you are undressing them with your eyes by that point I usually am lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your face has always appealed to me Mrs Nortyair, there's something very strong and confident about the way you look, though your eyes are covered I look at those pics and can only imagine you're wearing a 'bring it on' expression in them.

Add to this those full and sensuous lips, and yes I reckon you've certainly got that magnetic fuckability

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

"some men have "that look" too....it isn't just limited to women. And definitely is nothing to do with how good looking they are.

and for me most of it is to do with the eyes"

If they are blue even better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nicole Scherzinger and Cheryl Cole have that look for me

But have to agree it is all about the eyes,

But mine have that innocent look about them not the animal look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some men have "that look" too....it isn't just limited to women. And definitely is nothing to do with how good looking they are.

and for me most of it is to do with the eyes

If they are blue even better

Yep x x x

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a very good friend, we were bf and gf in our teens.

Over the years we have been fwb's on and off, there is no pattern to it but...

I can speak to him on the phone 3 or 4 times in a week and pop in to see him at his workshops, nothing...then I will call him or he will call me about something the very next day and we end up fucking like mad.

It's something in his voice, I just know for some reason or I walk in and he just has that look, no explanation

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By *ittykate84Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

Yup I get told I have a naughty smirk and look in my eyes quite often!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yea, it's nothing to do with looks, there's a vibe - I could always find them, and they always found me.

But it's actually harder to judge online I think, you cannot sense the vibe in the same way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yea, it's nothing to do with looks, there's a vibe - I could always find them, and they always found me.

But it's actually harder to judge online I think, you cannot sense the vibe in the same way.

I would agree. It isn't something that you can get from a photo (or several)I actually don't think you could identify it online at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your face has always appealed to me Mrs Nortyair, there's something very strong and confident about the way you look, though your eyes are covered I look at those pics and can only imagine you're wearing a 'bring it on' expression in them.

Add to this those full and sensuous lips, and yes I reckon you've certainly got that magnetic fuckability

Thanks for that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think he has a point, some people do look very sexual. Not sure it's just a look though, it's mannerisms and body language too, when you walk into a room and you make eye contact there is an 'I fancy you' connection. The chemistry is already there. I've often wondered when this happens, if it's 'I want to fuck you'. I suspect, more often than not, that it is. I think sexual people attract each other. Been told I've got 'come to bed eyes' lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup I get told I have a naughty smirk and look in my eyes quite often!

Your face is lovely in general, and I mean really, you're sumptuous x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add to this those full and sensuous lips, and yes I reckon you've certainly got that magnetic fuckability

Thanks for that x"

Tch, so cool...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yea, it's nothing to do with looks, there's a vibe - I could always find them, and they always found me.

But it's actually harder to judge online I think, you cannot sense the vibe in the same way.

I would agree. It isn't something that you can get from a photo (or several)I actually don't think you could identify it online at all."

Thirded! Spot on. It's that magnetism in the flesh. I'm not getting it from anybody on here over the Internet. But when you're in the presence of it in person you just know.

I guess what's magnetic to me might not be to someone else. But I know it when I see it for me at least!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't think people can put this look on or work at it, it's just there, if you know what I mean.

I couldn't be pretty if wanted, I just don't have the looks but I know people want to fuck me

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I see people who have it for me, but they don't always have it for others. It's a two way thing, needing both parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sexy smile goes along way as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think people can put this look on or work at it, it's just there, if you know what I mean.

I couldn't be pretty if wanted, I just don't have the looks but I know people want to fuck me"

It's called charisma.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't think people can put this look on or work at it, it's just there, if you know what I mean.

I couldn't be pretty if wanted, I just don't have the looks but I know people want to fuck me

It's called charisma. "

yeah that's it, some people are sexually charismatic, you hit the nail on the head there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think people can put this look on or work at it, it's just there, if you know what I mean.

I couldn't be pretty if wanted, I just don't have the looks but I know people want to fuck me

It's called charisma.

yeah that's it, some people are sexually charismatic, you hit the nail on the head there x"

I think we can go further than that and say that some people are sexually charismatic to some people. I don't think that anyone, no matter how much of "it" they have will be sexually charismatic to everyone. Isn't that why we are all attracted to different people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, i concur with the OP.

However, there is a counterpoint look which says "Don't even think about it" - to be mild.

Anyone who has ever seen the second look will never forget it and/or is now divorced/seperated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think people can put this look on or work at it, it's just there, if you know what I mean.

I couldn't be pretty if wanted, I just don't have the looks but I know people want to fuck me

It's called charisma.

yeah that's it, some people are sexually charismatic, you hit the nail on the head there x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't think people can put this look on or work at it, it's just there, if you know what I mean.

I couldn't be pretty if wanted, I just don't have the looks but I know people want to fuck me

It's called charisma.

yeah that's it, some people are sexually charismatic, you hit the nail on the head there x

Yeah its all in the eye of the beholder x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think people can put this look on or work at it, it's just there, if you know what I mean.

I couldn't be pretty if wanted, I just don't have the looks but I know people want to fuck me

It's called charisma.

yeah that's it, some people are sexually charismatic, you hit the nail on the head there x

Yeah its all in the eye of the beholder x"

And the mind... The minds a powerful thing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think people can put this look on or work at it, it's just there, if you know what I mean.

I couldn't be pretty if wanted, I just don't have the looks but I know people want to fuck me

It's called charisma.

yeah that's it, some people are sexually charismatic, you hit the nail on the head there x

Yeah its all in the eye of the beholder x

And the mind... The minds a powerful thing... "

Absolutely....it's where it starts and finishes for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The eyes and the body language. That's all you need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep very hard to tell online. Get mostly ignored on here. But walk down the street I get head turns and smiles. Told I have sparkly blue eyes and a cheaky grin and dimples. Other days I could be invisible. Oh what could it be.

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

"Yep very hard to tell online. Get mostly ignored on here. But walk down the street I get head turns and smiles. Told I have sparkly blue eyes and a cheaky grin and dimples. Other days I could be invisible. Oh what could it be."

Now you went there with the blue eyes

Hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a guy off here who definitely has 'the look' and its all to do with his eyes ! No Woman has a chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My fella says I have a certain look, he says I look 'sexual' and that people want to fuck me as soon as they meet me. Now I'm not soft and I know this is one of his tricks to get into my knickers but what do you think. Are their people who have this kind of look?

So does he have a point or is he just talking shit like usual?"

Judging by your pics your fella is 100% correct.....I wanna fuck you and I have never met you x

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By *riendlyGirlWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

I have no idea what the look is either but I get told off for it a lot!!

I guessed it must be a good thing althoe I wish someone could record it so I actually know what it looks like haha.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

An ex of mine was like that and he also had that look from the first time we caught eye contact. Totally not my usual type at that point but something said imust have him. So I did

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

So does he have a point or is he just talking shit like usual?

Judging by your pics your fella is 100% correct.....I wanna fuck you and I have never met you x"

Don't know how you can say that when in all her pictures her eyes are covered. You are going on how she looks and not "the look"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To my knowledge I've had 'the look' twice from women where it ended up going somewhere -

Once in a night club she glanced at me as she walked passed and I knew, I mean KNEW instantly from both of us,

And once at a wedding night do where one minute we were chatting very vanilla and suddenly something changed in her eyes.

I do know what the OP means but so hard to define in text.

Slight drift but once was chatting to a lad about something and the topic came onto a passion of mine - he actually said my eyes started to shine - wish I could bottle it and use it with girls.

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