FabSwingers.com forum: Anyone else use PoF?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello, been on PoF for a while but despite reading good thing I find it pretty slow and certainly no 'naughty' meets (which isn't my main intention)

Anyone else had experience of the good, the bad and the ugly?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

My experience was lots of dicks who messed me about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never used it. But I heard it's mostly a sausage fest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My experience was lots of dicks who messed me about. "

Mostly the same "dicks" as on here apparently. So my lady mate told me.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"My experience was lots of dicks who messed me about.

Mostly the same "dicks" as on here apparently. So my lady mate told me."

I've had fewer problems on here.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Never used it. I'm happy here.

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys

Ahh the would you like a slice a cake and a cup of tea site.. Think I was on there for a day or two

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

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"Hello, been on PoF for a while but despite reading good thing I find it pretty slow and certainly no 'naughty' meets (which isn't my main intention)

Anyone else had experience of the good, the bad and the ugly?"
oh yes i got the good the bad and the ugly 2 years and i mean it literally dumped the twat 2 yrs ago tomorrow problem i have not with these sites are men want to have sex on the first date so its worse than a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least here, we are honest and not after relationships. Tried pof earlier in the year, and to be honest the guys should be on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least here, we are honest and not after relationships. Tried pof earlier in the year, and to be honest the guys should be on here. "

Or honest and after a relationship. I tried pof and found it to be full of liars that should have been on here. So here I am open and honest and wouldn't go on a dating site again.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"Hello, been on PoF for a while but despite reading good thing I find it pretty slow and certainly no 'naughty' meets (which isn't my main intention)

Anyone else had experience of the good, the bad and the ugly?"

I used to be on there had quite a bit of success on there as well then I meet a lovely lady ome day who introduced me to fabs so I deleted that account because I found fab much better and straight forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im on pof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I used the naughty pond for 3weeks.did meet a really nice guy for a coffee then nookie.but mainly found the place full of idiots.i turned a 25yr old down because he too young and was called a racist slag.so deleted the account saturday.people may moan about fab but im very happy with here and certainly dont get spoken to like that here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My experience was lots of dicks who messed me about. "

I'm glad I wasn't the only one, my experience too. I wouldn't go back on there if they paid me, way too many fakes and messers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used it a few times.

Had a lot of fun on there.

But there are some crazy women on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making the profile bored the crap out of me.

Too many questions so I left it blank. Still got a ton of mail from desperate people.

Deleted account.

Half an hour wasted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree it seems far worse than here - I've made more friends on here than PoF and of course better meets

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"At least here, we are honest and not after relationships. Tried pof earlier in the year, and to be honest the guys should be on here.

Or honest and after a relationship. I tried pof and found it to be full of liars that should have been on here. So here I am open and honest and wouldn't go on a dating site again. "

I'm always confused by the "they should be on here" type comments.

Is this a place for liars?

Is this the prime destination for anyone looking for a leg-over?

And most of all.... if you knew they were liars but worked out what they were really after and you associate what they were after as being what you are after on here..... or why else think they should be on here.... why not just fuck them on there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met my husband on pof but had over a hundred messages from men wanting fun, more respect is shown on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least here, we are honest and not after relationships. Tried pof earlier in the year, and to be honest the guys should be on here.

Or honest and after a relationship. I tried pof and found it to be full of liars that should have been on here. So here I am open and honest and wouldn't go on a dating site again.

I'm always confused by the "they should be on here" type comments.

Is this a place for liars?

Is this the prime destination for anyone looking for a leg-over?

I think I get what you mean and the simple answers is I wouldn't fuck them on here either

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I met a couple of really nice ladies off there.

Then I reported someone for selling their services - and my account got deleted.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Most of the men on there just chat bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is way better ha! More discreet. Dont like fact im on a site but I am cus its addicting! And on pof u need to put a face pic up public so theres no privacy! Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is way better ha! More discreet. Dont like fact im on a site but I am cus its addicting! And on pof u need to put a face pic up public so theres no privacy! Ha"

You can hide your profile from public searches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My experience was lots of dicks who messed me about.

Mostly the same "dicks" as on here apparently. So my lady mate told me.

I've had fewer problems on here. "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of the men on there just chat bollocks "

Well if you sucked on them more

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Never used it. I'm happy here."

^This

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Most of the men on there just chat bollocks

Well if you sucked on them more

Come on then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of the men on there just chat bollocks

Well if you sucked on them more

Cum on them

Cum on what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is way better ha! More discreet. Dont like fact im on a site but I am cus its addicting! And on pof u need to put a face pic up public so theres no privacy! Ha

You can hide your profile from public searches."

Alright ha! Dont no how though???

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Most of the men on there just chat bollocks

Well if you sucked on them more

Cum on them

Cum on what

My curtains

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Naught Miss Cheeky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only plaice i want plenty of fish is with me chips. And vinegar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is way better ha! More discreet. Dont like fact im on a site but I am cus its addicting! And on pof u need to put a face pic up public so theres no privacy! Ha

You can hide your profile from public searches.

Alright ha! Dont no how though???"

It's in settings somewhere.

I had to do it because an ex kept stalking my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of the men on there just chat bollocks

Well if you sucked on them more

Cum on them

Cum on what

My Beef curtains

Ooo kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got kicked off for telling someone to jump off a bridge as it might improve his looks

thing is it would have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lads. U gotta remember pof is a dating site. So if your looking for a girl to date, casually or serious, then its a good place. If your looking for one off sex, u aint gonna find owt on pof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got kicked off for telling someone to jump off a bridge as it might improve his looks

thing is it would have

Wasnt me was it?

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli

I find pof about as interesting as an uninterested fish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got kicked off for telling someone to jump off a bridge as it might improve his looks

thing is it would have

Wasnt me was it?

ha"

nah was a work collegue lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never used it. But I heard it's mostly a sausage fest. "
sausages

Are nothing with out onion,s

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I got kicked off for telling someone to jump off a bridge as it might improve his looks

thing is it would have

That's not a particularly nice thing to say to anyone if it was a joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got kicked off for telling someone to jump off a bridge as it might improve his looks

thing is it would have

Wasnt me was it?

nah was a work collegue lol"

Phweww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got kicked off for telling someone to jump off a bridge as it might improve his looks

thing is it would have

Wasnt me was it?

nah was a work collegue lol"

Phweww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least on here it's (mostly) decent people looking for decent people for good sex. On dating sites its usually taken people taking single people for a ride... For sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of the men on there just chat bollocks

Well if you sucked on them more

"
testing yer testicles..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll admit I lack much success on it...but POF to me is about 1on1 encounters/dating/relationships...aimed at singles.Many have come here via those kinds of sites, thats no problem(this site caters for most tastes, POF etc on the other hand dont).

I severely doubt you'll hear of a POF orgy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only plaice i want plenty of fish is with me chips. And vinegar. "
The only (plaice)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*I did meet someone,and first date sex ensued..she wanted me to cum in a few minutes...

she also thought it was weird meeting people for group sex(my honesty gets the better of me),like minded social gatherings...

despite her having never went on a proper date from pof...and admitting shagging on the first meet with any she had met- I explained fab can work like that too, but she didnt want to hear it...

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

well i for one think im not going to meet a guy have a coffee then a fuck from a date site and as thats all the guys on these sites want then ya can shove em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got kicked off for telling someone to jump off a bridge as it might improve his looks

thing is it would have

Seriously?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use pof but it's a waste of time .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could someone clear up some details about PoF for me?

Is it a swinging site or a dating site? Because my friend told me it was a dating site but the only reason she went on it was for sex, so was she just trying to make it sound more 'classy' by calling it a dating site when it's really a swinging site lol, or is it a dating site but a real bottom of the barrel one where you have all the people from (I don't know if we can say site names on here) the more publicised dating sites, which are advertised on tv and you pay for, who hated that you have to go on dates with someone/pay, but who also don't go on fab because they're not interested in the lifestyle, rather they just want a 'easy' shag so they go on PoF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got kicked off for telling someone to jump off a bridge as it might improve his looks

thing is it would have

Seriously?"

Yeah. It did too, i landed on my face.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"Could someone clear up some details about PoF for me?

it's a dating site not a swinging site

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

They did go a bit prudish 18 months ago, to put it mildly. I met a few people on there, most of whom have since turned up on here without realising it was me - what a hoot!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could someone clear up some details about PoF for me?

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This may (oh really)be a bit controversial but isn't it time it was rebranded as PoW?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots women who mess about on both to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

met my long term partner on pof so worked well for us,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least here, we are honest and not after relationships. Tried pof earlier in the year, and to be honest the guys should be on here. "
I wish I could have read your warning before I joined it earlier in 2014! As you say, the lack of honesty, it made me give up.... And end up here!

But at least both sites give you the opportunity to switch off one-liners!

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

I've spoken to a few single girls who swear by POF and okcupid and being great for meeting people as well as getting casual sex.

I never had any luck attracting any sort of attention on either of them. Ah well, their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never tried it but heard it's totally hit and miss, some great success stories but also bad experiences I guess...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I think you will but the people are not honest enough to say thats what they are after.....also I love the dirty pics on here def dont get that on pof!xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have used POF, and yes, it is mostly full of neurotic timewasting women who are just out for an ego boost after their hubby/boyfriend left them for a younger model!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got kicked off for telling someone to jump off a bridge as it might improve his looks

thing is it would have

That's not a particularly nice thing to say to anyone if it was a joke

"
If you were to believe in Karma, I wonder what it would do to it when you wish other people's death? And when you then brag about it?

Personally, I'd just stick to kindness. Online as off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met the Wife on there. It does work sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have used POF, and yes, it is mostly full of neurotic timewasting women who are just out for an ego boost after their hubby/boyfriend left them for a younger model!

really?

I find men just talk shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got kicked off for telling someone to jump off a bridge as it might improve his looks

thing is it would have

That's not a particularly nice thing to say to anyone if it was a joke

If you were to believe in Karma, I wonder what it would do to it when you wish other people's death? And when you then brag about it?

Personally, I'd just stick to kindness. Online as off."

It was a lifelong friend private joke.

and in my job I see enough deaths

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

I find honesty definitely doesn't work for me here of POF. When is the one way ship meant to be off to Mars and are they still recruiting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a POF profile and have been pretty honest about what I'm looking for.

I did actually receive a message from a lady (which began a reasonably lengthy conversation), who despite stating that she was looking for a relationship, quite liked the idea of some naughty fun in the meantime.

Unfortunatley, if that's the right word, she didn't quite 'do it' for me, so I politely declined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met my wife on pof 7 yrs ago. Wasn't too bad then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a POF profile and have been pretty honest about what I'm looking for.

Unfortunatley, if that's the right word, she didn't quite 'do it' for me, so I politely declined"

Bastard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bastard.

Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago - never again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My experience was lots of dicks who messed me about.

Mostly the same "dicks" as on here apparently. So my lady mate told me."

Yep. Found that too when I was on there. And I made it clear that POF was a RELATIONSHIP profile and Fab is a SEX profile. And the few guys who got in touch on POF they ALL said they had seen me on Fab. Why wud I ignore u on Fab and then say yes to u on POF? Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met the Wife on there. It does work sometimes. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lads. U gotta remember pof is a dating site. So if your looking for a girl to date, casually or serious, then its a good place. If your looking for one off sex, u aint gonna find owt on pof"

Amen! Agree! Agree! Agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lads. U gotta remember pof is a dating site. So if your looking for a girl to date, casually or serious, then its a good place. If your looking for one off sex, u aint gonna find owt on pof

Amen! Agree! Agree! Agree! "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IM on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"IM on there "

Every one is now gonna be trying to find you on there now haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on there a few years ago and found it much easier to get a date than on here.

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

I've just created a profile on there and about to give it a serious go - also intend on giving OK CUPID a good crack.

I will let y'all know how I get on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On there but can't be bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find pof about as interesting as an uninterested fish "

This

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