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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone else ever get tired of these type of adverts popping up all over porn sites?

And what do they say about male society in general?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Does anyone else ever get tired of these type of adverts popping up all over porn sites?

And what do they say about male society in general?"

that it hasn't changed much in a few hundred years and not likely to...

sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did join one of these sites all interlinked and the abuse is ten times worse than on here soon left lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Me and ShagTonight would be hard done by without that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Does anyone else ever get tired of these type of adverts popping up all over porn sites?

And what do they say about male society in general?

that it hasn't changed much in a few hundred years and not likely to...

sadly."

Yes, I agree.

Just try and change your corner of the world if you can, then maybe one day things will change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it any different to the "Meet now? "

Gimp

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Not likely you'll be meeting anyone clicking on those sites, apart from a debt collector.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I agree with Wyrd - there are a ton of sites that dress themselves up as contact sites but they are far from it and just cash collector sites.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does anyone else ever get tired of these type of adverts popping up all over porn sites?

And what do they say about male society in general?

that it hasn't changed much in a few hundred years and not likely to...

sadly."

It bothers me that if this is the pervading attitude toward women and sex in the modern male, then its little wonder that so many womens perception of us is so profoundly negative.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think they are all a bit 1990s in their approach.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It's not much different to some of the messages that come through on here.

I think the attitude to women stinks but then I get called a rampant feminist (in a derogatory way) on here for my _iews.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You see. They can place an ad like that which is their right. That's their method of marketing and it may work.

What the real issue (i think so anyway) is that once the men meet these women, do they _iew them as sluts and just another piece of meat? Or do they actually treat them with a bit of respect ane courtesy?

...think many can use their common sense realise that it's just a markiting strategu and a way to get individuals to click on their ad. The worrying thing would be if many click the ad thinking the statement to be true and if they _iew women like that.

I may be a bit old fashioned in my _iews but status updates and comments in the chatrooms by men calling others sluts, especially when it's not tongue in cheek or if they don't know that person has me cringing.

There's certain things that float my boat but these terminologies kind of put me off - especially in the wrong context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 28/09/14 19:11:04]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YEs I do, we know there is not 1000 women nearby who wanna fuck you in a moments notice loll.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else ever get tired of these type of adverts popping up all over porn sites?

And what do they say about male society in general?"

I think it says lots of men want to watch porn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else ever get tired of these type of adverts popping up all over porn sites?

And what do they say about male society in general?

that it hasn't changed much in a few hundred years and not likely to...

sadly.

It bothers me that if this is the pervading attitude toward women and sex in the modern male, then its little wonder that so many womens perception of us is so profoundly negative."

Is it the attitude that the men who watch porn have towards women that bothers you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mostly watch gay porn and they pop up a along with the fuck a mature woman with pics of naked grannies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not much different to some of the messages that come through on here.

I think the attitude to women stinks but then I get called a rampant feminist (in a derogatory way) on here for my _iews.

"

I was about to write the same. Even the nicest men can soon be asking me to be a slut in bed. That's why you have to talk plenty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does anyone else ever get tired of these type of adverts popping up all over porn sites?

And what do they say about male society in general?

that it hasn't changed much in a few hundred years and not likely to...

sadly.

It bothers me that if this is the pervading attitude toward women and sex in the modern male, then its little wonder that so many womens perception of us is so profoundly negative.

Is it the attitude that the men who watch porn have towards women that bothers you ? "

Such a thing was never implied in my opening post?

I watch plenty of porn myself, yet never forget to treat a woman with a basic level of courtesy, and certainly don't see them as nothing more than objects for my own sexual gratification.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"It's not much different to some of the messages that come through on here.

I think the attitude to women stinks but then I get called a rampant feminist (in a derogatory way) on here for my _iews.

"

Yes, desiring respect on this site seems to be a bit of a red flag to some.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

It is a horrid viscous circle at times, horrid messages, horrid forum posts about the senders of said messages and it just goes round and round...

If there was true mutual respect, it might lessen it.

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure a very large number of men joined this site thinking exactly the same thing...

Conclusion, there are many men who just don't learn...

Once a mistake, twice a fool. 75 penis showing lewd messages later and no meets? Get lobotomised!

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago

i don't get any ads comming up on any site any more .... it's great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else ever get tired of these type of adverts popping up all over porn sites?

And what do they say about male society in general?"

Gullible?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That people are fucking idiots if they click those links. It's a bit depressing really.

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

I've actually done that off of this site on several occasions. Made a few guys' days I bet. But those ads are crap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a horrid viscous circle at times, horrid messages, horrid forum posts about the senders of said messages and it just goes round and round...

If there was true mutual respect, it might lessen it.

"

I can't see that myself. Unless I'm wrong in thinking women tend not to send men disgusting messages like we get from men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Gullible?"

Also a question for Username: Lickety, is a rampant feminist related to a rampant rabbit

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


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Gullible?

Also a question for Username: Lickety, is a rampant feminist related to a rampant rabbit "

No, we don't need batteries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Says it all doesn't it? Thing is, though, it sells. If it didnt then they wouldnt use it.

Think though. What kind of guy is attracted to that kind of site? I personally would love to meet and fuck tonight but to think of her as a slut would just take away any enjoyment.

Still, it keeps a lot of arseholes off here. Not all, but some...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a horrid viscous circle at times, horrid messages, horrid forum posts about the senders of said messages and it just goes round and round...

If there was true mutual respect, it might lessen it.

I can't see that myself. Unless I'm wrong in thinking women tend not to send men disgusting messages like we get from men "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else ever get tired of these type of adverts popping up all over porn sites?

And what do they say about male society in general?

that it hasn't changed much in a few hundred years and not likely to...

sadly.

It bothers me that if this is the pervading attitude toward women and sex in the modern male, then its little wonder that so many womens perception of us is so profoundly negative."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else ever get tired of these type of adverts popping up all over porn sites?

And what do they say about male society in general?"

It says very little about male society in general because to try and make a generalisation across all men when so few (as a percentage) respond to such ads can only give a false representation.

Lots of women think of certain men as just 'studs' and are attracted to the idea of being with them for that reason. Does that say much in a general way about female society?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's more about the porn industry than male society. You have to be pretty naive to actually think that will happen.

It's just a marketing activity pure and simple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does anyone else ever get tired of these type of adverts popping up all over porn sites?

And what do they say about male society in general?

It says very little about male society in general because to try and make a generalisation across all men when so few (as a percentage) respond to such ads can only give a false representation."

Perhaps, but given that the people promoting these sites would do so in such a smutty fashion implies this is how they at least perceive the modern, porn _iewing male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else ever get tired of these type of adverts popping up all over porn sites?

And what do they say about male society in general?

that it hasn't changed much in a few hundred years and not likely to...

sadly.

It bothers me that if this is the pervading attitude toward women and sex in the modern male, then its little wonder that so many womens perception of us is so profoundly negative."

Hang on a mo, you wanted to squeeze my juices from my knickers and drink it the other day....

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By *ockman and ThrobbinCouple
over a year ago

Ilford

Not directly related but...

This made me think about a new porn category that I found the other day whilst having a little play.

It's one of those 'Fake Audition' type sites. Usually the girl goes in expecting an 'acting' audition and of course ends up getting fucked by the male 'director'.

But this time the tables are turned and the roles reversed so the guy goes in with a female director.

I thought this quite fresh and maybe gives an indication that times are a'changin.

And yes I did enjoy the porn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else ever get tired of these type of adverts popping up all over porn sites?

And what do they say about male society in general?

It says very little about male society in general because to try and make a generalisation across all men when so few (as a percentage) respond to such ads can only give a false representation.

Perhaps, but given that the people promoting these sites would do so in such a smutty fashion implies this is how they at least perceive the modern, porn _iewing male."

Doesn't the porn industry reflect societal _iews of women? One aspect being, that women who enjoy their sexuality are 'sluts' and less deserving of 'respect'. Interesting topic, OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does anyone else ever get tired of these type of adverts popping up all over porn sites?

And what do they say about male society in general?

It says very little about male society in general because to try and make a generalisation across all men when so few (as a percentage) respond to such ads can only give a false representation.

Perhaps, but given that the people promoting these sites would do so in such a smutty fashion implies this is how they at least perceive the modern, porn _iewing male.

Doesn't the porn industry reflect societal _iews of women? One aspect being, that women who enjoy their sexuality are 'sluts' and less deserving of 'respect'. Interesting topic, OP. "

To me porn is about seeing sexual fantasies acted out and little more - often in these scenes the women will be behaving and treated like 'sluts', but they are sluts by their own choice and likely only whilst the camera is rolling, it doesn't mean its acceptable to treat them in a poor fashion in their day to day lives.


"It bothers me that if this is the pervading attitude toward women and sex in the modern male, then its little wonder that so many womens perception of us is so profoundly negative.

Hang on a mo, you wanted to squeeze my juices from my knickers and drink it the other day.... "

The big difference is that we'd already chatted and flirted before, and I felt confident that you'd either be turned on by or given a bit of a laugh by those comments, rather than being offended as a complete stranger may have been.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do wonder who responds to those things. It's like the adult version of a lottery email advising you to send money to process your claim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else ever get tired of these type of adverts popping up all over porn sites?

And what do they say about male society in general?

It says very little about male society in general because to try and make a generalisation across all men when so few (as a percentage) respond to such ads can only give a false representation.

Perhaps, but given that the people promoting these sites would do so in such a smutty fashion implies this is how they at least perceive the modern, porn _iewing male.

Doesn't the porn industry reflect societal _iews of women? One aspect being, that women who enjoy their sexuality are 'sluts' and less deserving of 'respect'. Interesting topic, OP.

To me porn is about seeing sexual fantasies acted out and little more - often in these scenes the women will be behaving and treated like 'sluts', but they are sluts by their own choice and likely only whilst the camera is rolling, it doesn't mean its acceptable to treat them in a poor fashion in their day to day lives.

It bothers me that if this is the pervading attitude toward women and sex in the modern male, then its little wonder that so many womens perception of us is so profoundly negative.

Hang on a mo, you wanted to squeeze my juices from my knickers and drink it the other day....

The big difference is that we'd already chatted and flirted before, and I felt confident that you'd either be turned on by or given a bit of a laugh by those comments, rather than being offended as a complete stranger may have been."

Fair enough, squeeze away...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't the porn industry reflect societal _iews of women? One aspect being, that women who enjoy their sexuality are 'sluts' and less deserving of 'respect'. Interesting topic, OP. "

To me porn is about seeing sexual fantasies acted out and little more - often in these scenes the women will be behaving and treated like 'sluts', but they are sluts by their own choice and likely only whilst the camera is rolling, it doesn't mean its acceptable to treat them in a poor fashion in their day to day lives."

Of course not. But society's _iews of women and their sexuality, and male sexuality, shapes and drives the porn industry. It hasn't developed in a vacuum. And there is a two-way relationship, the porn industry influences societal attitudes and cultural norms, the trend for complete removal of female pubic hair being just one example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it seems a few women enjoy gay porn......so what do you women prefer straight or gay ? x

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