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By *supermen OP   Couple (MM)
over a year ago

North London

Does age really matter?

Sometime I see couples with over 10 years age difference and perfectly normal but always the lady is younger!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 years between me and Mr L iv always been with older men and prefer it xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mom is 9 years older than my stepdad. They celebrate their 30th wedding anniversary tomorrow

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

No, age doesn't matter. Attraction does.

I've been with men older and younger. Older is definitely my preference. Current interest is 11 years my senior

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I perfer older my hubs is 10 years older and we are very happy

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By *ormaqueMan
over a year ago

Essex

Age is just a number I tend to go for older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No complaints here, we have been together a few years now. Although I do seem to find that it's socially more acceptable when the female is younger.

Age is just a number, I think it's more about how you get on together

Jasmine

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By *supermen OP   Couple (MM)
over a year ago

North London


"18 years between me and Mr L iv always been with older men and prefer it xxx"

Hun is it you prefer about older men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby is a lot older than me only 4 years younger than my mum x x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My beloved is 18 months older than my mum and neither of us could care less

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I spent 2 years with a guy in his early 20's and I was early 40's. It worked for us for a while but I lost a couple of friends who thought I was immoral and it was wrong but when I challenged them they didn't think it was wrong if the roles had of been reversed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"18 years between me and Mr L iv always been with older men and prefer it xxx

Hun is it you prefer about older men? "

Lots off little things there more grown up want to settle down there supportive and always help you be your best very hairy chests too and always mind blowing in bed and help u discover things you didn't know u enjoyed before as they have more experience only ever been in a relationship with one guy same age as me that was my daughters dad he wouldn't get off his ass and get a job took drugs was abusive towards me wanted to go out with his mates all time put me off for life xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I said on Busty's post my Mum was 13 years older than her partner and he worshipped her. My relationships have all been with younger guys - not much younger , but younger nonetheless. I think age is irrelevant - it's their attitude to life.

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By *supermen OP   Couple (MM)
over a year ago

North London


"18 years between me and Mr L iv always been with older men and prefer it xxx

Hun is it you prefer about older men?

Lots off little things there more grown up want to settle down there supportive and always help you be your best very hairy chests too and always mind blowing in bed and help u discover things you didn't know u enjoyed before as they have more experience only ever been in a relationship with one guy same age as me that was my daughters dad he wouldn't get off his ass and get a job took drugs was abusive towards me wanted to go out with his mates all time put me off for life xxx

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Don't think that's relevant but sorry to hear love x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You know what's funny, the first guy I lived with was 12 years older than me and never ever thought about being an age difference but we where a lot younger then, in fact I think there was 14 years between us I was 18 he was 32

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Age has never bothered us.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Every relationship I've had except one I was older than my partner. I was 10 years older than my hubby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"18 years between me and Mr L iv always been with older men and prefer it xxx"

Same as us ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's 30 years between me and my couple OH. Best of both, we think

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

ive been in relationship where hes been older and ive been older prefer him being older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me personally prefer younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13 years difference. Couldn't give a fuck what anyone thinks, anyone that has met us will confirm it's not exactly noticeable.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think it is a true gift to be able to connect with older and younger, so just be happy with your life together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"13 years difference. Couldn't give a fuck what anyone thinks, anyone that has met us will confirm it's not exactly noticeable.

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It bloody is , crystal is far more mature than you

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

It really doesn't matter unless you let it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does age really matter?

Sometime I see couples with over 10 years age difference and perfectly normal but always the lady is younger!! "

I think that's because men are genuinely attracted to younger women so will have a relationship with them where as young guys just want older women for a shag

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By *supermen OP   Couple (MM)
over a year ago

North London

No comments from women side what they like to have?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have a relationship with a guy who was noticably younger than me

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

Age difference does'nt matter to me, just have to find the other person attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number as long as your happy

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"No comments from women side what they like to have?"
I'm with my partner because I love him, we knew each other a year and neither fancied the other then all of a sudden we realised we had fallen in love.

The only downside is me may not have so many years as if we had met 30 years ago but hey you could get run over by a bus tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does seem some woen prefer older guys young guys fancy older women not sure why have an opinion but I think I might get some stick if I share it tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does age really matter?

Sometime I see couples with over 10 years age difference and perfectly normal but always the lady is younger!!

I think that's because men are genuinely attracted to younger women so will have a relationship with them where as young guys just want older women for a shag "

So younger guys aren't really attracted to older woman? It's just a shag? Don't thinks that true.

It was interesting to watch the age gap programme that was on the other day. It was interesting that the two younger woman meantioned a few times the standard of living they have with there older man and spoke about the material things the get bought for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does age really matter?

Sometime I see couples with over 10 years age difference and perfectly normal but always the lady is younger!!

I think that's because men are genuinely attracted to younger women so will have a relationship with them where as young guys just want older women for a shag

So younger guys aren't really attracted to older woman? It's just a shag? Don't thinks that true."

Not enough to move in with and have a relationship with which is what this thread is about

you see far more younger girls with older men than the other way round

I'm not saying young guys don't fancy older women but I think it's just sexual rather than genuinely wanting to be with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does age really matter?

Sometime I see couples with over 10 years age difference and perfectly normal but always the lady is younger!!

I think that's because men are genuinely attracted to younger women so will have a relationship with them where as young guys just want older women for a shag

So younger guys aren't really attracted to older woman? It's just a shag? Don't thinks that true.

Not enough to move in with and have a relationship with which is what this thread is about

you see far more younger girls with older men than the other way round

I'm not saying young guys don't fancy older women but I think it's just sexual rather than genuinely wanting to be with "

I don't believe that older men go and seek out younger woman because they'll simply feel they have more in common, I would think there might be a slight sexual motivation lol.

But I think you could say the same the other way.

Guess there's no one fit all description for people's feelings or motivations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For actual relationships and friendships I tend to prefer partners the same sort of age as me, I like the shared cultural references from growing up and that kind of thing.

When it's just sex I always gravitate towards older, anything from 5 to 15 years, and I'm not sure why.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

With my partner for a whole heap of reasons ... Age has never come into it and am enjoying all, like never before!

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I'm 11 years older than Zed. It works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So other people that are in an age gap relationship, was it something either half actively looked for or was it just something that happened/developed?

Cos certainly from my point of _iew, I didn't go looking for an older woman. Just happened.

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By *lttattoocoupleCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

I'm one year younger, I'd say I'm a toy boy haha

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By *lackbirdtimestwoWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

I always prefer older,, older couples and older single guys. They come with wisdom, experience, manners and a confidence that is so attractive. I've dated younger, but even 35/40 in my experience are not a patch on 50+

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By *ambslass48Woman
over a year ago

Peterborough

I was marred to hubby 18 years older than me for 25 years before he passed away 2 tests ago. However it doesn't do it for me now NO does men who are alot younger than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just happened for us, we knew each other for a long time and never had any interest in each other at first

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"me personally prefer younger "

Same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it fun as older women say, your to young and we wouldn't wanna see anyone that's our kids ages, common its just a fuck, not a marriage lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I`ve found that it isn`t so much the years that are important as to whether you are at the same point in your life - i.e. your goals are aligned.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"So other people that are in an age gap relationship, was it something either half actively looked for or was it just something that happened/developed?

Cos certainly from my point of _iew, I didn't go looking for an older woman. Just happened. "
for us just happened... Hit it off straight away and Here we are years later still . They say that things happen when least expect it, and when not looking for it! True in our case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the age gap when a woman's older than the man odd, it really doesn't sit right with me. It's like taller women with a short man it's just not the way it should be. Maybe I'm just odd but I don't like seeing either x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was swinging as a single fem i met a guy who was almost 10 years younger than me, i really liked him, far far more than as just a meet but cus he is younger i never thought anything would come of it, however he felt the same about me and now we have been together for many years and married a couple of years ago

Only a couple of people have ever said anything about our age gap and at a time when i had just had a big operation 2 people thought he was my son .... im hoping that i was looking very old eus of the pain etc of the operation ...... most friends and relatives have said nothing but good things about us however i do think people prefer it when the age gap is the other way round !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the age gap when a woman's older than the man odd, it really doesn't sit right with me. It's like taller women with a short man it's just not the way it should be. Maybe I'm just odd but I don't like seeing either x"

That's interesting but do you think and older man with a younger woman is the way it should be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the age gap when a woman's older than the man odd, it really doesn't sit right with me. It's like taller women with a short man it's just not the way it should be. Maybe I'm just odd but I don't like seeing either x"

Its strange that people seem to think like that however in the past before i was with a younger guy i never cared about seeing the age gap that way round but i hated seeing young women with guys more than 10 years older than them, i alwatys thought they were probably after his money lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the age gap when a woman's older than the man odd, it really doesn't sit right with me. It's like taller women with a short man it's just not the way it should be. Maybe I'm just odd but I don't like seeing either x

Its strange that people seem to think like that however in the past before i was with a younger guy i never cared about seeing the age gap that way round but i hated seeing young women with guys more than 10 years older than them, i alwatys thought they were probably after his money lol"

We're both skint so that's not the motivation here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the age gap when a woman's older than the man odd, it really doesn't sit right with me. It's like taller women with a short man it's just not the way it should be. Maybe I'm just odd but I don't like seeing either x

That's interesting but do you think and older man with a younger woman is the way it should be? "

Yeah and a man should always be taller. See its bizarre cause large age gaps between same sex couples don't bother me. At 17 I dated a 35 year old woman and I honestly didn't see a problem with it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's interesting but do you think and older man with a younger woman is the way it should be? "

I see no problems, some younger women fancy older guys to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older men rule !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know 2 happily married couples..... 1 the Woman is 36 and hubby 46. The other Woman is 50 and Hubby is 40 ! both are very happy and say age doesn't matter xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know 2 happily married couples..... 1 the Woman is 36 and hubby 46. The other Woman is 50 and Hubby is 40 ! both are very happy and say age doesn't matter xx"

I don't think age matters I just don't like to see it, which may seem silly but we all have our _iews. Hoping that my weird ones don't cause offence to anyone x

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Many have their own opinions in age difference relationships... Stereo typical hog wash that is often seen as fact ... Feeling the need to pick apart others relationships often due to the lack of their own, or pure ignorance. Very often those in relationships with age differences are very happy and contented... Others seem to sometimes have proplems with it? Strange world at times aint it!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"I find the age gap when a woman's older than the man odd, it really doesn't sit right with me. It's like taller women with a short man it's just not the way it should be. Maybe I'm just odd but I don't like seeing either x"
who wrote the rules on how it should be? Should we all conform?

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"I know 2 happily married couples..... 1 the Woman is 36 and hubby 46. The other Woman is 50 and Hubby is 40 ! both are very happy and say age doesn't matter xx

I don't think age matters I just don't like to see it, which may seem silly but we all have our _iews. Hoping that my weird ones don't cause offence to anyone x"
no offence taken ... I am interested on how others veiw things

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Many have their own opinions in age difference relationships... Stereo typical hog wash that is often seen as fact ... Feeling the need to pick apart others relationships often due to the lack of their own, or pure ignorance. Very often those in relationships with age differences are very happy and contented... Others seem to sometimes have proplems with it? Strange world at times aint it! "
as I say on all these threads especially go the ones that think it looks odd try concentrating on your own relationship instead of worrying about others. All the age gap relationships I know from personal experience are blissfully happy and shock horror two of my friends are married to guys shorter than the bloody weirdo,s

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"I wouldn't have a relationship with a guy who was noticably younger than me "
i'm so young looking i get away with it! Lol

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Many have their own opinions in age difference relationships... Stereo typical hog wash that is often seen as fact ... Feeling the need to pick apart others relationships often due to the lack of their own, or pure ignorance. Very often those in relationships with age differences are very happy and contented... Others seem to sometimes have proplems with it? Strange world at times aint it! as I say on all these threads especially go the ones that think it looks odd try concentrating on your own relationship instead of worrying about others. All the age gap relationships I know from personal experience are blissfully happy and shock horror two of my friends are married to guys shorter than the bloody weirdo,s "
lol! Love seeing Happy people! And yes agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally would like to find a older woman over 50 cougar type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex husband was 8 years younger than me and my bf before him was 9 years younger. I didnt go looking for younger guys, it just happened. However because neither of those relationships worked out, I think I would avoid getting in a relationship with a younger guy again. Just because of my own personal experiences. Mind you, who am I kidding? Chance would be a bloody fine thing!!!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i really dont set out to meet younger women ... it just seems to happen... ladies my age seem to always want younger men ... i guess everyone wants a change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

24 years between us and it's going fine.

Just hope the warranty covers wear and tear!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I find the age gap when a woman's older than the man odd, it really doesn't sit right with me. It's like taller women with a short man it's just not the way it should be. Maybe I'm just odd but I don't like seeing either x"

Fortunately, when getting into such a relationship most people don't consider others' _iews like yours.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I find the age gap when a woman's older than the man odd, it really doesn't sit right with me. It's like taller women with a short man it's just not the way it should be. Maybe I'm just odd but I don't like seeing either x

Fortunately, when getting into such a relationship most people don't consider others' _iews like yours."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When i was swinging as a single fem i met a guy who was almost 10 years younger than me, i really liked him, far far more than as just a meet but cus he is younger i never thought anything would come of it, however he felt the same about me and now we have been together for many years and married a couple of years ago

Only a couple of people have ever said anything about our age gap and at a time when i had just had a big operation 2 people thought he was my son .... im hoping that i was looking very old eus of the pain etc of the operation ...... most friends and relatives have said nothing but good things about us however i do think people prefer it when the age gap is the other way round !!!"

This is exactly how we met and the age gap doesnt bother us or our friends and family. We have been married almost 4 years and are as happy now as when we got together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the age gap when a woman's older than the man odd, it really doesn't sit right with me. It's like taller women with a short man it's just not the way it should be. Maybe I'm just odd but I don't like seeing either x

Fortunately, when getting into such a relationship most people don't consider others' _iews like yours."

Don't expect them to. It's justy opinion and I'm voicing it like everyone else so pointless being on your high horse over it

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

My 2 closest friends are in age gap relationships. One married to a foreigner 8 years younger and her kids adore him too, one to marry next year and he's 25 years older. Both v happy couples, well matched and similar outlooks on life.

I've always preferred younger, I was once persuaded to date an older guy I was 19 he was 33 ... And proposed on our 2nd date...couldn't get outta there fast enough!!

On here I'll go as low as 25, depending if we get on. IF I were to have another relationship, it would likely be someone younger.

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By *itSamCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

17 years for us. Never look back. We are so close and totally in love with full trust.

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