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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a little this-happened-today story regarding the ever ongoing subject of winks.

We got a wink of a single lady, fairly unusual so we clicked on her profile.

First line, roughly:

"Winks will be ignored, if I'm not worth writing to, we won't be meeting".

Hypocrite much?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I received a wink just a few moments ago from a lovely couple, winked back and got a message, unfortunately I couldn't take it further cause of arrangements I already have, but i think they're a great way to show an interest without messaging only to have said message deleted if the receivers isn't interested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I received a wink just a few moments ago from a lovely couple, winked back and got a message, unfortunately I couldn't take it further cause of arrangements I already have, but i think they're a great way to show an interest without messaging only to have said message deleted if the receivers isn't interested."

You didn't actually *read* our post did you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I received a wink just a few moments ago from a lovely couple, winked back and got a message, unfortunately I couldn't take it further cause of arrangements I already have, but i think they're a great way to show an interest without messaging only to have said message deleted if the receivers isn't interested.

You didn't actually *read* our post did you?"

I did...and I agree...hyprocritical...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You didn't actually *read* our post did you?"

I did but as i'd just received a wink I thought i'd throw it in, but yes I do agree, one should practice what one preachers

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

But its only hypocritical if someone else is doing it

If you do it yourself then its ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

following loads and loads of posts on here, re winks, i have started making an effort to look at and use winks. I still prefer to send a message, however have winked back at some of the winks sent (ages ago lol )

maybe they too are reading the threads and trying something new,

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

We've succumbed to the "if you can't beat them, join them" in that ...

- if we get a wink we will only wink back if we think we may be compatible , otherwise we'll just delete it ...

- and conversely if we see a profile but not 100% sure they'll like us then will wink them before sending a message

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Just a little this-happened-today story regarding the ever ongoing subject of winks.

We got a wink of a single lady, fairly unusual so we clicked on her profile.

First line, roughly:

"Winks will be ignored, if I'm not worth writing to, we won't be meeting".

Hypocrite much?! "

Derrrrrrrrrrrr.... she's a woman.... she has tits.... she can say what the fluck she likes and still get shagged!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Here is a question (ok 2)..... how come it's rude (so we keep being told) to not answer a message, but it's not rude to not reply to a wink?

Do winkers have issues with rejection and that's why they wink instead of sending messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we had a look on a ladies profile once and got a dirty e-mail of her saying cant you read no couples. well we realised that when we looked at her profile we didnt know before we looked at it and she barred us from looking again. we did an inoscent thing and didnt know untill we went into her profile as it didnt say on her line!

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By *he BananamanMan
over a year ago

WORCESTERSHIRE


"we had a look on a ladies profile once and got a dirty e-mail of her saying cant you read no couples. well we realised that when we looked at her profile we didnt know before we looked at it and she barred us from looking again. we did an inoscent thing and didnt know untill we went into her profile as it didnt say on her line! "

i tell ya!,there are some people with strange ideas on here.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Inspired by this thread, Im going to - for the first time ever - spend the night winking....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always use 'winks'. I've always thought of them as letting someone know, I liked what I read/saw & that I were interested & intrigued to know more...

Now tho, I'm not so sure!

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By *umgetus69Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

well we always wink first but if the porfile says please message only.. we will but agree with the first satement on here xx

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