FabSwingers.com forum: Not really a hardened swinger !!!

By *appyguy17 OP Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

Do people on here think that it's a bit odd....to be just looking for one nice person ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you are one of many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone to their own but to us that sounds like a dating site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people on here think that it's a bit odd....to be just looking for one nice person ?? "

not at all. But it is a needle in a haystack x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people on here think that it's a bit odd....to be just looking for one nice person ?? "
do you want this nice person to be exclusive to you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone to their own but to us that sounds like a dating site."

Heard this so many times, I don't know the op's situation or exactly what they're looking for, but I'm on the look out for one regular fb. Casual sex with a good friend, totally different to dating. Just because you don't want to shag lots of people you don't know (not that there's anything wrong with that) doesn't mean you're looking to date.

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By *appyguy17 OP Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

I understand the needle in a haystack..bit...

Did meet one nice girl and saw each other for a year and a half...then she went to Canada to work....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone to their own but to us that sounds like a dating site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As i said everyone to their own, Not judging anyone were all different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people on here think that it's a bit odd....to be just looking for one nice person ??

not at all. But it is a needle in a haystack x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As i said everyone to their own, Not judging anyone were all different."

Was just responding to your post is all...everyone's entitled to their opinion

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By *appyguy17 OP Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

I want to have sex with the person,but i want to like them as a friend as well...

I'm a fussy "paddy"

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By *appyguy17 OP Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

I want to have sex with the person,but i want to like them as a friend as well...

I'm a fussy "paddy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people on here think that it's a bit odd....to be just looking for one nice person ?? "

I do find it odd that your looking for one nice person yet your profile says Mf couples and Ff couples, to me a couple means Two not One

Couple o Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for something similar. I have no desire to have casual sex with many different people because it does very little for me. Much of what I enjoy requires trust and communication, which is built up over time.

Plus, I'm a top bloke and a great friend (he said in shameless self-promotion).

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By *appyguy17 OP Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

I put that on initally ....and a nice couple might be nice....

I've had the one person experience and it was so nice.....it didn't have any needless emotional ties...just nice friends and lovely sex

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

It is something I'd like to find. I've been burnt in full relationships twice since my marraige ended and I'm not going there again, but an easy going 'relationship-lite' type thing would suit me down to the ground.

Tough one to find though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people on here think that it's a bit odd....to be just looking for one nice person ?? do you want this nice person to be exclusive to you ? "

exactly... We all want love... But off here?? There are so many other factors that come into force when you are swinging... Ive recently experienced this so can comment.. I found love.. My special person.. The one i wanted to spend the rest of my life with... But we wanted different things.. Viewed the scene differently... Its alright finding your needle in a haystack... Keeping it is another thing

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By *appyguy17 OP Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

The one i had for a year and a half...emigrated to Canada in the end.

So ...i suppose nothing ever lasts !

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ah the elusive relationship that's not a relationship...

I've only discovered swinging fairly late in life, but think IF I enter another relationship, I'd like to keep swinging too, if only so I didn't have to give up a gender

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people on here think that it's a bit odd....to be just looking for one nice person ?? "

No I don't!

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