FabSwingers.com forum: Do You Think....?

By *icecouple561 OP Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Having read a couple of threads along the same lines recently and hearing tales of women saying men hurt them trying to make them squirt I was wondering.

Do you think (some)women should take more responsibility for their own sexual pleasure?

If sex is awful for a woman and she endures it is it fair to blame the man? If a guy rams at you with his fingers and you say nothing, is it fair to blame him?

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over a year ago

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yes she should.......

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Having read a couple of threads along the same lines recently and hearing tales of women saying men hurt them trying to make them squirt I was wondering.

Do you think (some)women should take more responsibility for their own sexual pleasure?

If sex is awful for a woman and she endures it is it fair to blame the man? If a guy rams at you with his fingers and you say nothing, is it fair to blame him? "
In a word no, I fail to see how some can endure unnecessary pain at the time yet tell all and sundry about it on a thread

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think people become so savvy to how it all works, a forum post telling how awful it was, the bad bad man, the terrible messages I have to endure.....

guarantees..... one thing, a result

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By *icecouple561 OP Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think its fair either.

We were just talking about this, I said that most men will stop what they're doing if you just put a warning hand on their arm and if that fails, say something for goodness sake! If they don't respond to you asking them...THAT is the time to eject them or report them.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Good sex is all about communication, even if a word is not spoken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having read a couple of threads along the same lines recently and hearing tales of women saying men hurt them trying to make them squirt I was wondering.

Do you think (some)women should take more responsibility for their own sexual pleasure?

If sex is awful for a woman and she endures it is it fair to blame the man? If a guy rams at you with his fingers and you say nothing, is it fair to blame him? "
yea 100%, I've seen it in clubs specially, girls enduring some gut wrenching fingering, there's no way an organ as fragile as a vagina can take fingers being rammed up in there so forcefully, it's not sexy to watch either, just chill with the fingering with nails guys, and girls don't encourage them by moaning like there's no tomorrow.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I do wonder why people don't just say that they aren't enjoying it?

Even if I don't say the words "this is no longer pleasurable and is getting painful" I have been able to convey that gist or just change the position and situation.

Listen to noises and read the body language and just bloody well say what you want.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Good sex is all about communication, even if a word is not spoken."

this..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, I meant yes! They should definitely take responsibility

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

They would be well and truly told. First time would be a gentle, I prefer when you do... second time would be a no, and third time would clearly end play.

The mouth you use for sucking cock can just as easily be used to ensure you get what you require from a meet... although on fab, fingers first might help so you actually talk through expectations...

Or maybe thats just me

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Good sex is all about communication, even if a word is not spoken."

A lady vomiting speaks a thousand words.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Woman have mouths in their heads! Can't understand how any discomfort is tolerated at all! . Spose to be fun, pleasure and enjoyment for all concerned... Not a bitch fit after the event! If ya can't be open enough to communicate on a sexual level what the fuck are people doing here?

ps ... No it's not the mans fault at all!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

If someone was hurting me or simply doing something which was ineffective, I'd tell them straight away. Why would I not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no its not always fair to blame him but you wouldn't think much of someone who had hurt you unless your a masochist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They would be well and truly told. First time would be a gentle, I prefer when you do... second time would be a no, and third time would clearly end play.

The mouth you use for sucking cock can just as easily be used to ensure you get what you require from a meet... although on fab, fingers first might help so you actually talk through expectations...

Or maybe thats just me"

First time I either move away or say something. Second time, I leave.

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