FabSwingers.com forum: Well that's annoying...

By *nvictus OP Man
over a year ago

Beeston

Just been accused of being attached and a liar and cheat. Apperently 'people talk'.

Be nice if they got their facts straight though

Oh well. Haters gonna hate.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you sound surprised that some stick their nose where they shouldn't...

and I don't mean nasal sex

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

It's a common thing if men say they can't acom, I can't acom either but believe me I'm not attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been asked quite a lot if I'm married purely because I don't accommodate. Silly people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm surprised at you vicci boy you been round here long enough to tell them to GTF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some twisted people on here. I had a random couple claim to know my husband and tell him I was on here.....seeing as we have a joint account also it would hardly be news to him!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just been accused of being attached and a liar and cheat. Apperently 'people talk'.

Be nice if they got their facts straight though

Oh well. Haters gonna hate.

So would you and your partner fancy a meet then

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By *nvictus OP Man
over a year ago

Beeston

Well I rarely badmouth folk unless I know something for sure so I guess it's my innocent side being suprised.

Given I have numerous friends off here on Facebook it would be hard to cover up really

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By *nvictus OP Man
over a year ago

Beeston

"Just been accused of being attached and a liar and cheat. Apperently 'people talk'.

Be nice if they got their facts straight though

Oh well. Haters gonna hate.

So would you and your partner fancy a meet then

Yeah! Cool!

Oh, shit....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are you attached to?

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By *nvictus OP Man
over a year ago

Beeston

"What are you attached to? "

I was once chained to a bedpost. Does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens all the time to all sorts on here, you can't meet when they can so you must be attached, their probably not worth meeting

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By *nvictus OP Man
over a year ago

Beeston

If they are so ready to believe rumours and misdirection then I consider it a 'self filtering' thing...

Can I say it now? Can I? Can I?

THEIR LOSS!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people ask if im married. Yep technically I am as not divorced. Just he lives with a girlfriend as has been over a year.

People tend to assume married if see 'cannot accommodate' on profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No-one ever tells me any gossip.

Please pm me lots of juicy stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been asked quite a lot if I'm married purely because I don't accommodate. Silly people "

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By *nvictus OP Man
over a year ago

Beeston

"No-one ever tells me any gossip.

Please pm me lots of juicy stuff.

Funky blows goats, I have proof...

Oh shit. I meant to PM that....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you sound surprised that some stick their nose where they shouldn't...

and I don't mean nasal sex

Mmmmm nasal sex - not to be sniffed at!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we lived up to half the stuff we were accused of, we would be having "One Hell Of A Good Time."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No-one ever tells me any gossip.

Please pm me lots of juicy stuff.

Me neither.....so I just make stuff up

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"No-one ever tells me any gossip.

Please pm me lots of juicy stuff.

Funky blows goats, I have proof...

Oh shit. I meant to PM that....

But that means you do too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I left fab because of comments made to me. But I'm back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I left fab because of comments made to me. But I'm back

Why would you allow anyone to get to you so much that you leave?

Id stay just to piss them off

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Using whatever means to piss off, annoy or get arsey with whoever seems to be more of a passion on this site than sexy fun.

Was looking at all the status updates in my hotlist before. Fcuk me there's some angry people behind some profiles ranting on the hour every hour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone gossip about me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I left fab because of comments made to me. But I'm back

Why would you allow anyone to get to you so much that you leave?

Id stay just to piss them off"

A moment of madness and I was angry.

Lost my friends, pics, verifications and 45 days of my gold membership

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've been accused of being attached too. Although as it was on my profile anyway I thought 'no shit, Sherlock'.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Does anyone gossip about me?"

Yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very loosely attached to reality if that helps?

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

I get accused of being a man *shrug*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone gossip about me?"

sniffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prepares to be shot down in flames:

I always assume a guy is married if they unable to accommodate. Apologies xx

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Using whatever means to piss off, annoy or get arsey with whoever seems to be more of a passion on this site than sexy fun.

Was looking at all the status updates in my hotlist before. Fcuk me there's some angry people behind some profiles ranting on the hour every hour

I am really put off by people who do this, I always think what difference does it make to them what other people get up to or have on their profile, yet most days they are moaning about others

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By *nvictus OP Man
over a year ago

Beeston

"Prepares to be shot down in flames:

I always assume a guy is married if they unable to accommodate. Apologies xx"

We all make assumptions about profiles and people on here, that's only natural. My issue here is the rude responce to an otherwise nice message based only upon inaccurate gossip.

One of my 'buttons' is to be called a liar and a cheat

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Sez u

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

What people don't know as facts they assume n make up! As long as you know the truth, let em enhance their boring exsistances! Keep Smiling!

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By *nvictus OP Man
over a year ago

Beeston

"Sez u

I've heard your real name is Loretta...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No-one ever tells me any gossip.

Please pm me lots of juicy stuff.

Me neither.....so I just make stuff up

I don't either but then I don't encourage gossipy messages. I enjoy a bit of gossip from time to time but about people I actually know, such as

work colleagues. Hearing gossip about complete strangers who I'm not really interested in who they are or what they do outside of the swinging community

seems rather pointless to me

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Sez u

I've heard your real name is Loretta...

WTF!!!!

gossips

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"No-one ever tells me any gossip.

Please pm me lots of juicy stuff.

Hearing gossip about complete strangers who I'm not really interested in who they are or what they do outside of the swinging community

seems rather pointless to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I left fab because of comments made to me. But I'm back

Why would you allow anyone to get to you so much that you leave?

Id stay just to piss them off"

I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh well while they're gossiping about you, they're leaving other alone

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By *nvictus OP Man
over a year ago

Beeston

Just got another one telling me they don't play with attached men or dicks... clearly someone has been poisoning the water

Oh well, at least there are people on here who REALLY know me and won't take the word of someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just got another one telling me they don't play with attached men or dicks... clearly someone has been poisoning the water

Oh well, at least there are people on here who REALLY know me and won't take the word of someone else. "

On a positive note ~ at least you're getting messages....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Just got another one telling me they don't play with attached men or dicks... clearly someone has been poisoning the water

Oh well, at least there are people on here who REALLY know me and won't take the word of someone else. "

Notoriety might not be as good as fame, but its better than anonymity. Enjoy your new reputation as a cad.

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By *nvictus OP Man
over a year ago

Beeston

"Just got another one telling me they don't play with attached men or dicks... clearly someone has been poisoning the water

Oh well, at least there are people on here who REALLY know me and won't take the word of someone else.

On a positive note ~ at least you're getting messages....

LOL! Truth... it's three now! I consider it a kind of self filtering anyway

Sense of humour restored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just got another one telling me they don't play with attached men or dicks... clearly someone has been poisoning the water

Oh well, at least there are people on here who REALLY know me and won't take the word of someone else.

On a positive note ~ at least you're getting messages....

LOL! Truth... it's three now! I consider it a kind of self filtering anyway

Sense of humour restored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I left fab because of comments made to me. But I'm back

Why would you allow anyone to get to you so much that you leave?

Id stay just to piss them off

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By *nvictus OP Man
over a year ago

Beeston

"I left fab because of comments made to me. But I'm back

Why would you allow anyone to get to you so much that you leave?

Id stay just to piss them off

I reckon I'm back for good now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I left fab because of comments made to me. But I'm back

Why would you allow anyone to get to you so much that you leave?

Id stay just to piss them off

I reckon I'm back for good now

God help us!!!

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By *nvictus OP Man
over a year ago

Beeston

"I left fab because of comments made to me. But I'm back

Why would you allow anyone to get to you so much that you leave?

Id stay just to piss them off

I reckon I'm back for good now

God help us!!!

Bwhaaaaaa! Bwhaaaa-ha-ha-ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I left fab because of comments made to me. But I'm back

Why would you allow anyone to get to you so much that you leave?

Id stay just to piss them off

I reckon I'm back for good now

God help us!!!

Bwhaaaaaa! Bwhaaaa-ha-ha-ha!

I see you haven't changed - you allegedly attached Nutter!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I left fab because of comments made to me. But I'm back

Why would you allow anyone to get to you so much that you leave?

Id stay just to piss them off

I reckon I'm back for good now

You left Take That to spend more time swinging?

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By *nvictus OP Man
over a year ago

Beeston

"I left fab because of comments made to me. But I'm back

Why would you allow anyone to get to you so much that you leave?

Id stay just to piss them off

I reckon I'm back for good now

God help us!!!

Bwhaaaaaa! Bwhaaaa-ha-ha-ha!

I see you haven't changed - you allegedly attached Nutter!!!

I was attached until 5 weeks ago... lesson learnt (again)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

here is one for you my wife had her first alone encounter and I was okay with it but really weren't now I feel I self cheated does this make any sense?

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By *nvictus OP Man
over a year ago

Beeston

"here is one for you my wife had her first alone encounter and I was okay with it but really weren't now I feel I self cheated does this make any sense?"

Then you need to talk to her about your feelings on it I'd say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been around on these forums for a few years. I have noticed patterns of behaviour.

A popular single guy bounds onto the forums, friendly, witty and funny. It takes a short while to get known, he posts a lot, he's friendly and flirty to all.

He starts to attract interest from women. His posts are popular, his _iews are popular, his jokes are replicated across the forums. He gets nominated in the awards things that people seem keen on. Lots of women want to be his friend, start flirting on the forum, and god knows how many private messages, which they like to drop out publicly of course; just to lt others know they are in private conversation with him. His forum star is shining brightly.

Until he shows interest in one woman over the others. There will be a shift in popularity, he will start receiving slight snubs on the forum. God help him if he hooks up with this woman and opens a couples profile.

They build you up and they knock you down, a popular phrase in society and rather apt here.

By starting threads like this you are giving credance to their _iews, showing that it bothers you. Why be bothered about it, who cares what rumours are flying around. Calling you a liar and a cheat is not the worst thing that could happen to you. I can see how it might affect relationships in real life, but this is merely an internet forum. What's the worst that can happen, the dimming of the shiny star...

Just enjoy it here young man and continue doing what you want and dont react or respond to any negativity

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By *nvictus OP Man
over a year ago

Beeston

"I've been around on these forums for a few years. I have noticed patterns of behaviour.

A popular single guy bounds onto the forums, friendly, witty and funny. It takes a short while to get known, he posts a lot, he's friendly and flirty to all.

They build you up and they knock you down, a popular phrase in society and rather apt here.

Just enjoy it here young man and continue doing what you want and dont react or respond to any negativity

Well put, and you're right. I was just being over sensitive after a difficult few weeks I guess.

Back to the timestreams!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Well put, and you're right. I was just being over sensitive after a difficult few weeks I guess.

Back to the timestreams!!

Man up, ya big pussy. I'll soon whip your 'sensitivity' out of you

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By *nvictus OP Man
over a year ago

Beeston

"Well put, and you're right. I was just being over sensitive after a difficult few weeks I guess.

Back to the timestreams!!

Man up, ya big pussy. I'll soon whip your 'sensitivity' out of you

I'm not scared of you!

...wimper...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Well put, and you're right. I was just being over sensitive after a difficult few weeks I guess.

Back to the timestreams!!

Man up, ya big pussy. I'll soon whip your 'sensitivity' out of you

I'm not scared of you!

...wimper..."

You will be.

You...will be.

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