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"I suppose there is no right answer but my youngest is just 2. I never planned on bf this long. It's just I had a comment from a friend saying it's about time I stopped as it's not socially acceptable. I only feed at home, not because I won't in public, just that I don't need to as its only around bedtime and nap time. " there's no right or wrong time hun, whatever feels right for you. you're little ones feeding for comfort before bed & naps tho & probably not for nutrition so you might find that a hard routine to change when you want them to settle themselves to sleep. x | |||
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"I suppose there is no right answer but my youngest is just 2. I never planned on bf this long. It's just I had a comment from a friend saying it's about time I stopped as it's not socially acceptable. I only feed at home, not because I won't in public, just that I don't need to as its only around bedtime and nap time. there's no right or wrong time hun, whatever feels right for you. you're little ones feeding for comfort before bed & naps tho & probably not for nutrition so you might find that a hard routine to change when you want them to settle themselves to sleep. x " I made that mistake in the beginning of feeding to sleep.. I make sure she's awake when I put her in her cot. I am ready to stop.. I will have to make her go cold turkey soon haha | |||
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"I personally think 12 months maximum. By this time it's not needed and they should be on cows milk. They should also be drinking out of a cup not a bottle. I got my son on a cup when he was weaning at 6 months old and a bottle and bed ring only until he was a year. Both tits and teats are not good for their teeth development " Yes that's worries me before about their teeth.. She does actually have cows milk to.. Why is breastmilk not needed at 12 months? | |||
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"I personally think 12 months maximum. By this time it's not needed and they should be on cows milk. They should also be drinking out of a cup not a bottle. I got my son on a cup when he was weaning at 6 months old and a bottle and bed ring only until he was a year. Both tits and teats are not good for their teeth development Yes that's worries me before about their teeth.. She does actually have cows milk to.. Why is breastmilk not needed at 12 months?" because in this country their are substitutes, though there is no reason to carry on feeding your child after 12 months that does not mean you have to swap them onto something else, that's a personal choice | |||
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"I personally think 12 months maximum. By this time it's not needed and they should be on cows milk. They should also be drinking out of a cup not a bottle. I got my son on a cup when he was weaning at 6 months old and a bottle and bed ring only until he was a year. Both tits and teats are not good for their teeth development Yes that's worries me before about their teeth.. She does actually have cows milk to.. Why is breastmilk not needed at 12 months?" Isn't it something to do with fat content and calcium? | |||
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"I personally think 12 months maximum. By this time it's not needed and they should be on cows milk. They should also be drinking out of a cup not a bottle. I got my son on a cup when he was weaning at 6 months old and a bottle and bed ring only until he was a year. Both tits and teats are not good for their teeth development Yes that's worries me before about their teeth.. She does actually have cows milk to.. Why is breastmilk not needed at 12 months? because in this country their are substitutes, though there is no reason to carry on feeding your child after 12 months that does not mean you have to swap them onto something else, that's a personal choice " Why give a substitute? Everyone's different I guess... But there Are many reasons to bf past 1 yr | |||
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"What I suppose I don't understand is how is it acceptable for a two year old to still have a bottle at bedtime or a dummy but less acceptable to still bf? " come to mine and get my lo to sleep without a bottle (even for nap time) then stay a week and make lo sleep through!! Xx | |||
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"I personally think 12 months maximum. By this time it's not needed and they should be on cows milk. They should also be drinking out of a cup not a bottle. I got my son on a cup when he was weaning at 6 months old and a bottle and bed ring only until he was a year. Both tits and teats are not good for their teeth development Yes that's worries me before about their teeth.. She does actually have cows milk to.. Why is breastmilk not needed at 12 months? because in this country their are substitutes, though there is no reason to carry on feeding your child after 12 months that does not mean you have to swap them onto something else, that's a personal choice Why give a substitute? Everyone's different I guess... But there Are many reasons to bf past 1 yr " The thing is that women will be criticised whatever they do. If you breast feed too long its wrong, not long enough...guess what wrong. Acceptance and support of every mother's choice in child rearing whether you agree with it or not (as long as its safe) is the way forward and realise that although your way is best for you it might not be for someone else. | |||
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"What I suppose I don't understand is how is it acceptable for a two year old to still have a bottle at bedtime or a dummy but less acceptable to still bf? come to mine and get my lo to sleep without a bottle (even for nap time) then stay a week and make lo sleep through!! Xx" I don't have problems with bottles or dummy's, anymore than I do bf... I just meant why is ok for a toddler to have a bottle but not to bf. I know how hard it is and sometimes parents will do anything to keep their kids asleep | |||
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"I personally think 12 months maximum. By this time it's not needed and they should be on cows milk. They should also be drinking out of a cup not a bottle. I got my son on a cup when he was weaning at 6 months old and a bottle and bed ring only until he was a year. Both tits and teats are not good for their teeth development Yes that's worries me before about their teeth.. She does actually have cows milk to.. Why is breastmilk not needed at 12 months? because in this country their are substitutes, though there is no reason to carry on feeding your child after 12 months that does not mean you have to swap them onto something else, that's a personal choice Why give a substitute? Everyone's different I guess... But there Are many reasons to bf past 1 yr The thing is that women will be criticised whatever they do. If you breast feed too long its wrong, not long enough...guess what wrong. Acceptance and support of every mother's choice in child rearing whether you agree with it or not (as long as its safe) is the way forward and realise that although your way is best for you it might not be for someone else. " | |||
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"What I suppose I don't understand is how is it acceptable for a two year old to still have a bottle at bedtime or a dummy but less acceptable to still bf? come to mine and get my lo to sleep without a bottle (even for nap time) then stay a week and make lo sleep through!! Xx I don't have problems with bottles or dummy's, anymore than I do bf... I just meant why is ok for a toddler to have a bottle but not to bf. I know how hard it is and sometimes parents will do anything to keep their kids asleep " its just the way society is at the moment. I find it amusing that people have no problem with seeing breasts in their sexual role but struggle with them in their nurturing role. | |||
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"I wonder if I could alter mine to have a small tap on each and some ginger beer or something on tap? " Haha that would be great | |||
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"I wonder if I could alter mine to have a small tap on each and some ginger beer or something on tap? " I'd have a bang on them if you put Guinness in them. | |||
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"Ok just out of general interest, how long do people think it is acceptable to breastfeed for? I'm obviously not talking about school age or anything." Bf until u feel the time is right to stop. I hate all the judgementals regarding bf. it's a natural thing. Hate when people pass comment when they see it in public. Obviously it has to stop at a certain age but every baby is different. Just go with the flow (excuse the pun) | |||
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"I personally think 12 months maximum. By this time it's not needed and they should be on cows milk. They should also be drinking out of a cup not a bottle. I got my son on a cup when he was weaning at 6 months old and a bottle and bed ring only until he was a year. Both tits and teats are not good for their teeth development " Dummies too! You can tell when they've had a dummy for too long, their teeth are slanted and look like a rabbit | |||
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"Ok just out of general interest, how long do people think it is acceptable to breastfeed for? I'm obviously not talking about school age or anything." Different cultures would say different things but I would say once the child is talking maybe its time to think about it. | |||
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"with you monica who wants to stop " Psst! You've got brown on your nose | |||
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"What I suppose I don't understand is how is it acceptable for a two year old to still have a bottle at bedtime or a dummy but less acceptable to still bf? " Exactly. Health wise I think who advise up till age 3, I had hoped to bf for a year but milk dried at 8 months | |||
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"I personally think 12 months maximum. By this time it's not needed and they should be on cows milk. They should also be drinking out of a cup not a bottle. I got my son on a cup when he was weaning at 6 months old and a bottle and bed ring only until he was a year. Both tits and teats are not good for their teeth development " | |||
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"I bottle fed all mine so cant really comment but i would personally say once a child can walk and talk it would seem a little unusual. Then again in some countries it is the norm until age 4 or even older. I suppose it depends on each child really " My sister in law breastfed all hers to the age of 3. Perfectly normal in their culture. | |||
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"I personally think 12 months maximum. By this time it's not needed and they should be on cows milk. They should also be drinking out of a cup not a bottle. I got my son on a cup when he was weaning at 6 months old and a bottle and bed ring only until he was a year. Both tits and teats are not good for their teeth development Yes that's worries me before about their teeth.. She does actually have cows milk to.. Why is breastmilk not needed at 12 months? because in this country their are substitutes, though there is no reason to carry on feeding your child after 12 months that does not mean you have to swap them onto something else, that's a personal choice Why give a substitute? Everyone's different I guess... But there Are many reasons to bf past 1 yr The thing is that women will be criticised whatever they do. If you breast feed too long its wrong, not long enough...guess what wrong. Acceptance and support of every mother's choice in child rearing whether you agree with it or not (as long as its safe) is the way forward and realise that although your way is best for you it might not be for someone else. " | |||
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"once teeth appear . doesnt it become too uncomfortable .. and they can deal with food then anyway ... i think 58 is still acceptable lol" Since when did you suck with teeth? | |||
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"once teeth appear . doesnt it become too uncomfortable .. and they can deal with food then anyway ... i think 58 is still acceptable lol Since when did you suck with teeth? " Mrs P had an awful time when ours started to produce teeth. It became terribly painful for her and was one of the reasons why she decided to stop. Both of our were terrible biters. | |||
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"I couldn't breastfeed my oldest as I was completely dry for 3 days after she was born and she was in intensive care. When I could feed her she just wasn't interested. I felt really guilty. My second I only managed 2 weeks as she was born with teeth and and after feeding she would have a good chew. I started bleeding and it was vey painful. I was planning on 4 to 6 months. I do think they should be off the breast before 2 but still fed breast milk as long as it can be expressed. I really don't get why we don't continue drinking human milk instead of moving onto cows milk." Never feel guilty about not being able to bf.. At the end of the day all that matters is that the child is fed! Why is expressing milk ok and bf not? And humans drink human milk as we are not cows! Cows milk is designed for cows and human milk Taylor made for growing baby's! There are many health reasons to have breast milk that doesn't happen giving cows milk. | |||
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"The longest I fed for was 5 months. A girl on my Facebook baby group is still feeding her son who is just over 3. I don't have a problem with it but I find it a bit funny when she post pics of her feeding him. " Yikes!! Don't think I'd plaster any pics no matter what age of my child feeding | |||
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"I couldn't breastfeed my oldest as I was completely dry for 3 days after she was born and she was in intensive care. When I could feed her she just wasn't interested. I felt really guilty. My second I only managed 2 weeks as she was born with teeth and and after feeding she would have a good chew. I started bleeding and it was vey painful. I was planning on 4 to 6 months. I do think they should be off the breast before 2 but still fed breast milk as long as it can be expressed. I really don't get why we don't continue drinking human milk instead of moving onto cows milk. Never feel guilty about not being able to bf.. At the end of the day all that matters is that the child is fed! Why is expressing milk ok and bf not? And humans drink human milk as we are not cows! Cows milk is designed for cows and human milk Taylor made for growing baby's! There are many health reasons to have breast milk that doesn't happen giving cows milk." I don't think bf is a problem it is just deemed socially not excepted which I do feel is wrong. I have much respect for those thst continue as long as they feel comfortable. | |||
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"OOOHHHH BITTY! BITTY! teeth or teething must be the cut off point I would have thought. may explain why some husbands stray if the wife is insistent on still breastfeeding past the teething/teeth stage. unless its a turn on!" My daughter doesn't suck with her teeth so it's not an issue and husbands stray because of bf? I'm just glad my partners haven't had that attitude. | |||
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"whatever age you feel comfortable doing it., Dont let others tell you, only you know your children." This. Its you're choice and you shouldn't feel pressured into dropping if you don't want to. Same as mothers who don't breast feed should not feel pressured into doing it | |||
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"OOOHHHH BITTY! BITTY! teeth or teething must be the cut off point I would have thought. may explain why some husbands stray if the wife is insistent on still breastfeeding past the teething/teeth stage. unless its a turn on!" That's got to be the daftest post I've ever seen on Fab, and that's saying something because I've seen a few. | |||
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"OOOHHHH BITTY! BITTY! teeth or teething must be the cut off point I would have thought. may explain why some husbands stray if the wife is insistent on still breastfeeding past the teething/teeth stage. unless its a turn on! That's got to be the daftest post I've ever seen on Fab, and that's saying something because I've seen a few. " I think I'm with you on this.. what a totally daft thing to say | |||
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"OOOHHHH BITTY! BITTY! teeth or teething must be the cut off point I would have thought. may explain why some husbands stray if the wife is insistent on still breastfeeding past the teething/teeth stage. unless its a turn on!" Lol. You are of course joking.....aren't you? Those awful wives using their breasts to feed children and excluding the poor husband. | |||
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"OOOHHHH BITTY! BITTY! teeth or teething must be the cut off point I would have thought. may explain why some husbands stray if the wife is insistent on still breastfeeding past the teething/teeth stage. unless its a turn on! Lol. You are of course joking.....aren't you? Those awful wives using their breasts to feed children and excluding the poor husband. " Those tits are mine I tell you, I've only lent them to the baby. | |||
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"OOOHHHH BITTY! BITTY! teeth or teething must be the cut off point I would have thought. may explain why some husbands stray if the wife is insistent on still breastfeeding past the teething/teeth stage. unless its a turn on! Lol. You are of course joking.....aren't you? Those awful wives using their breasts to feed children and excluding the poor husband. Those tits are mine I tell you, I've only lent them to the baby. " Speaking as a woman who ensures that she always changes her apron, refreshes her lipstick and ensures that the children are locked bound and gagged in the cupboard under the stairs before the man of the house returns from a hard day at the office. I am positive that he will never stray | |||
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"I think it should go on until the bloke is in his 50's!!" You dirty bleeder!! | |||
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"OOOHHHH BITTY! BITTY! teeth or teething must be the cut off point I would have thought. may explain why some husbands stray if the wife is insistent on still breastfeeding past the teething/teeth stage. unless its a turn on! That's got to be the daftest post I've ever seen on Fab, and that's saying something because I've seen a few. " I actually thought the same but the only thing that was getting bit was my tongue.. | |||
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"My daughter wasn't breastfed. She was and still is perfectly healthy. And has the constitution of an ox. She's rarely ill and was never really ill as a child. She had mumps but recovered very quickly. German measles but that didn't even slow her down. She was the tallest in her class and is now 5'11". I never felt guilty about not breastfeeding. " And neither should you. | |||
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