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" Or think they are FAR better looking than they are? . " I usually find these people the least attractive and I don't mean that physically. I often come across people that think they are "it" who have the shittiest attitude you can imagine. It usual comes with a side of "I can talk to you how ever I want" | |||
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"I couldn't meet a really good looking guy with fear they would run of laughing when seeing me, I know my limits and happy to stick with those x" Same here,I wouldn't want to see their faces drop when I turned up | |||
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"Mr spicy is punching above his weight but I quite like him. ![]() Tickled me that has lol x ![]() | |||
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"What exactly is 'above your league'? People are attracted to different qualities in folks I think with age comes the knowledge and experience that overshadows the mere shallow looks question Good sex for example is generally a lot better if people like each other and not just on looks We have all had crap sex with someone who we thought was gorgeous but they are not actually a nice person. As for the woman who you mentioned, she herself doesn't sound attractive in spirit. Big off-putter, surely? ![]() Don't know her, but reading the post she had the personality of a rattle snake crossed with a pit bull with fleas.. And looks wernt far off either lol x | |||
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" Or think they are FAR better looking than they are? . I usually find these people the least attractive and I don't mean that physically. I often come across people that think they are "it" who have the shittiest attitude you can imagine. It usual comes with a side of "I can talk to you how ever I want"" Well said.... ![]() | |||
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"I'm constantly amazed that I attract messages from some right hotties, and if they want to meet then far be it for me to disappoint them." I'm the same, so long as I find them attractive that's all I care about, if they want to shag a minger more fool them ![]() | |||
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" Or think they are FAR better looking than they are? . I usually find these people the least attractive and I don't mean that physically. I often come across people that think they are "it" who have the shittiest attitude you can imagine. It usual comes with a side of "I can talk to you how ever I want"" Here hear ![]() | |||
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" Or think they are FAR better looking than they are? . I usually find these people the least attractive and I don't mean that physically. I often come across people that think they are "it" who have the shittiest attitude you can imagine. It usual comes with a side of "I can talk to you how ever I want" Here hear ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Sounds more like the girl mentioned by the OP had the issue with her own looks and was trying to make herself feel better by putting others down!! So as stated an all round horrid person by the sounds of it!! Personally i think sex appeal, looks, size and personality are all totally seperate parts of a person, as i know some people who would not be seen as "pretty people" who are damn sexy and attractive and some "pretty" people who are all around ugly and unattractive!! " attractive and sexy aren't the same thing though are they, I've met a few really good looking guys with no sex appeal at all, the two don't go hand in hand in my opinion | |||
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"Where is the rating scale? " Didn't you work this out a few months ago? I weigh a fair amount so I'm not sure I punch above my weight but I often punch way above my height. | |||
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"Where is the rating scale? Didn't you work this out a few months ago? I weigh a fair amount so I'm not sure I punch above my weight but I often punch way above my height. " Only with a stepladder ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Everyone's punching above my height hahaha ![]() ![]() If I wear heels my boobs can rest on your head | |||
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"Where is the rating scale? Didn't you work this out a few months ago? I weigh a fair amount so I'm not sure I punch above my weight but I often punch way above my height. Only with a stepladder ![]() ![]() At my height it's better to punch from the ground - all the soft, tender bits are within my reach then. | |||
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"Where is the rating scale? Didn't you work this out a few months ago? I weigh a fair amount so I'm not sure I punch above my weight but I often punch way above my height. Only with a stepladder ![]() ![]() Your just the right height to punch the ball bags ![]() | |||
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"no such thing as punching above your weight.... Unless you think of it that way yourself Personally dont think im stunning but it wouldnt stop me avin a go ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Everyone's punching above my height hahaha ![]() ![]() Deal! ![]() | |||
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"Where is the rating scale? " Should check out nick helms song about his ex finding a stunning new bf....'he makes you look fat!' Lol | |||
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"On a different site (which I can't name for fear of being beaten to death with dildo by admin) I read a thread by a women who was basically tipping guys apart for there looks. The problem was she was facially gifted herself. So the question... What are your views on people who punch well above there weight? Or think they are FAR better looking than they are? And before you start, yes I I agree looks arnt everything. " I think far too many people are up themselves or down on themselves however saying that mercy fucks are not on the menu. | |||
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"I must have a different sense of values as "good looking" non entities (no offence) on a swinging site would never be out of my league but Bernice Eccleston, Danny Divito, Verne Troyer, Warwick Davies et al would be. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"i weigh twelve stone .. im not sizeist or ageist .. or looksist" I'm cakeist, if someone's cake is better than mine I'm out of there. ![]() | |||
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"I went out with a really good looking (in my opinion) 21 year old when I was 30. I was so flattered that he was interested in me and I always felt that I was punching above my weight. Trouble is, he knew it and I allowed him to treat me like shit for 2 years. I learnt my lesson. Nobody should ever feel that another is either above or beneath them." ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"i weigh twelve stone .. im not sizeist or ageist .. or looksist I'm cakeist, if someone's cake is better than mine I'm out of there. ![]() im sitting opposite .. licking my lips | |||
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"I don't see myself as part of any league I feel as though I'm just me and peeps can take me or leave me ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I don't mind punching anyone, their rate is irrelevant. Hope this helps ![]() Yes, thank you it's a great help. I have a list I could send over. ![]() | |||
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"As has been said, who's to say what the scale is but I have noted over many years of doing this that there are three groups of people that swing. (Not including the single shaggers in this)" Tell us more, I'd like to see if they are the same as I've noticed. ![]() | |||
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"I have a slight crush on some one that posts in the forum (actually I have a crush on quite a few) anyway he's not really my type looks wise not that hes bad looking but he makes me laugh seems kind and quite a sensitive guy with a wicked sense of humour,thats attractive so what is this thread about,,lol anyway he's out of my league, hopefully I'll get promotion " awwwwwwwwww xxx | |||
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"I'm a very confident woman....it's taken me years to get this confidence but no one is out of anyone's league....I take rejection on the chin ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Makes me wonder if some people don't get in contact with people who they perceive to be "above there weight". There ought to be an open to approach, pedestal-less thread and see who emerge, who is lingering and lusting while lurking But then again, the forum should be open like that anyway ![]() I don't message people that are "out of my league"... Does make it feel nicer when they send me a message related to something I've said here though! | |||
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"As has been said, who's to say what the scale is but I have noted over many years of doing this that there are three groups of people that swing. (Not including the single shaggers in this) Tell us more, I'd like to see if they are the same as I've noticed. ![]() This is just my opinion but if you think about it its pretty spot on~ There's the body beautiful group that pretty much won't touch anyone that's not "perfect' like them The Normal ,attractive to most, know their flaws but are comfortable with them group And then there's the "unfortunate"group, won't go into detail but you get my drift. Before anyone starts, I'm not slagging anyone off, if people are happy shaggin~ good for them ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Really attractive men make me nervous on this site.. If they approached me in real life then great. But I don't believe a word that comes out of their mouths here lol ![]() . Some men regardless of their looks on this site appear to be a bit repulsive in their need to fuck anything with a pussy. ![]() | |||
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"Really attractive men make me nervous on this site.. If they approached me in real life then great. But I don't believe a word that comes out of their mouths here lol ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Really attractive men make me nervous on this site.. If they approached me in real life then great. But I don't believe a word that comes out of their mouths here lol ![]() I don't believe much I read on here, from attractive blokes, unattractive blokes or women! | |||
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"I have a slight crush on some one that posts in the forum (actually I have a crush on quite a few) anyway he's not really my type looks wise not that hes bad looking but he makes me laugh seems kind and quite a sensitive guy with a wicked sense of humour,thats attractive so what is this thread about,,lol anyway he's out of my league, hopefully I'll get promotion awwwwwwwwww xxx" Every bloke is now wondering "Is that me?" Sitting in the Sunday league... | |||
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"Perhaps the should be a diplomatic intermediary who people could approach (think Gimp would be good). Might just be a face saver for the not-as-confident-as they-ought-to-be. Damn, why has the song from Fiddler on the roof started playing in my head, it had been such a nice Friday 'til now.......... ![]() ![]() ![]() Thats the first time ive ever been called Diplomatic ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I have a slight crush on some one that posts in the forum (actually I have a crush on quite a few) anyway he's not really my type looks wise not that hes bad looking but he makes me laugh seems kind and quite a sensitive guy with a wicked sense of humour,thats attractive so what is this thread about,,lol anyway he's out of my league, hopefully I'll get promotion awwwwwwwwww xxx Every bloke is now wondering "Is that me?" Sitting in the Sunday league..." Champions league darling,,champions league ![]() | |||
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"Perhaps the should be a diplomatic intermediary who people could approach (think Gimp would be good). Might just be a face saver for the not-as-confident-as they-ought-to-be. Damn, why has the song from Fiddler on the roof started playing in my head, it had been such a nice Friday 'til now.......... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Bends the cap and doffs a knee ![]() | |||
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"If you like the look of someone then message them, no point wondering if they're out of your league. Don't ask don't get, so to speak ![]() fancy a shag? ![]() | |||
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"Perhaps the should be a diplomatic intermediary who people could approach (think Gimp would be good). Might just be a face saver for the not-as-confident-as they-ought-to-be. Damn, why has the song from Fiddler on the roof started playing in my head, it had been such a nice Friday 'til now.......... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Will one put that thing away, One is not supposed to "Arise" until requested ![]() ![]() | |||
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"If you like the look of someone then message them, no point wondering if they're out of your league. Don't ask don't get, so to speak ![]() ![]() Haha ![]() | |||
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"Perhaps the should be a diplomatic intermediary who people could approach (think Gimp would be good). Might just be a face saver for the not-as-confident-as they-ought-to-be. Damn, why has the song from Fiddler on the roof started playing in my head, it had been such a nice Friday 'til now.......... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() But my birthday and christmas are so far away...... ![]() | |||
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"Perhaps the should be a diplomatic intermediary who people could approach (think Gimp would be good). Might just be a face saver for the not-as-confident-as they-ought-to-be. Damn, why has the song from Fiddler on the roof started playing in my head, it had been such a nice Friday 'til now.......... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Make a wish and if your very very bad Christmas may Come Early ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Perhaps the should be a diplomatic intermediary who people could approach (think Gimp would be good). Might just be a face saver for the not-as-confident-as they-ought-to-be. Damn, why has the song from Fiddler on the roof started playing in my head, it had been such a nice Friday 'til now.......... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Don't know if I can contain myself.... Opps, no I couldn't. ![]() | |||
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"What exactly is 'above your league'? People are attracted to different qualities in folks I think with age comes the knowledge and experience that overshadows the mere shallow looks question Good sex for example is generally a lot better if people like each other and not just on looks We have all had crap sex with someone who we thought was gorgeous but they are not actually a nice person. As for the woman who you mentioned, she herself doesn't sound attractive in spirit. Big off-putter, surely? ![]() Hear hear.....why the Brits seem to think their looks and wealth have anything to do with this is beyond....sure we all have limits but since its a physical act of giving/sharing then shouldnt it be based around the quality of that, personality, company, even ability for those who assume they have to compete? We block 20 a day that think the bling bling and ignorance is attractive, even given up with polite intros! There are some nice people here tho, even if they do sit on your list forever and do nothing! ![]() | |||
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"Perhaps the should be a diplomatic intermediary who people could approach (think Gimp would be good). Might just be a face saver for the not-as-confident-as they-ought-to-be. Damn, why has the song from Fiddler on the roof started playing in my head, it had been such a nice Friday 'til now.......... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I hope your Tissues are Man size lol ![]() | |||
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"On a different site (which I can't name for fear of being beaten to death with dildo by admin) I read a thread by a women who was basically tipping guys apart for there looks. The problem was she was facially gifted herself. So the question... What are your views on people who punch well above there weight? Or think they are FAR better looking than they are? And before you start, yes I I agree looks arnt everything. " . I think that you may as well try, or you will never know. ![]() | |||
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"so many seem to draw all their confidence from fab its a sex site guys come on" And you don't think that being sexually attractive can have a beneficial effect on someones confidence? | |||
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"so many seem to draw all their confidence from fab its a sex site guys come on" I've got enough confidence in my day to day life, but its also nice to know some people are attracted to you whether it be looks or personality. You might realise that when you start to meet | |||
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"so many seem to draw all their confidence from fab its a sex site guys come on And you don't think that being sexually attractive can have a beneficial effect on someones confidence?" are you sure your straight,,,a friend of mine was asking,just wondering ![]() | |||
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"so many seem to draw all their confidence from fab its a sex site guys come on" I don't think that people draw all their confidence from fab, they have to have some to start with to consider it. But being a swinger does give me confidence it helps knowing that people desire me. Paul says I look good when I'm dressed in pjs with plaited hair! Which I assure you I don't! After a meet I come home feeling incredibly sexy and confident, is that wrong? | |||
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"so many seem to draw all their confidence from fab its a sex site guys come on And you don't think that being sexually attractive can have a beneficial effect on someones confidence?" People get their self esteem and confidence in different ways. I'm happy for anyone if their life is uplifted by something that does no harm to others. | |||
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"so many seem to draw all their confidence from fab its a sex site guys come on And you don't think that being sexually attractive can have a beneficial effect on someones confidence? are you sure your straight,,,a friend of mine was asking,just wondering ![]() And does this friend live in Edinburgh by any chance? | |||
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"Attraction rarely works the way we think it should... I think we all have at least one 'crush' that we see as unusual, often to a dodgy celebrity! Just because someone is attractive in a different way to me that doesn't mean there couldn't be a mutual attraction. Yes physical attraction draws you in but personality is always the most attractive thing about a person... And it can also be the ugliest. I've chatted to some stunning guys but taken it no further because it was like pulling teeth to get conversation out of them, and have been with others that some may not deem to be as attractive physically but they've drawn me in with wit and charm. I'm under no illusions about my own appearance and flaws, but I've developed a thick skin and my confidence had grown over the years so I'll contact whoever I fancy... If they like me then winner, if they don't I move on to the next victim. I don't look at what league I should fit in as I don't know how others decide which traits and features they want... To some I'd be premiership, to others I'd be lucky to make the Sunday league, so I just go for it and let them decide if they are interested instead of trying to decide for them. I would however avoid someone like the lady in the op as I don't find it attractive when people can only inflate their own ego by looking down on others. Confidence had nothing to do with feeling superior, and I often find that behind closed doors people that get their kicks from belittling others are actually not as self assured as they pretend to be." ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Confidence is key I guess!? I wouldn't go near a fella that I thought was out of my league,very flattering getting message from fit fellas but I know in the real world they wouldn't look at me twice ![]() Bloody bollocks haha | |||
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"so many seem to draw all their confidence from fab its a sex site guys come on" read the URL, where does it say this is a sex site? it doesn't ![]() | |||
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"Attraction rarely works the way we think it should... I think we all have at least one 'crush' that we see as unusual, often to a dodgy celebrity! Just because someone is attractive in a different way to me that doesn't mean there couldn't be a mutual attraction. Yes physical attraction draws you in but personality is always the most attractive thing about a person... And it can also be the ugliest. I've chatted to some stunning guys but taken it no further because it was like pulling teeth to get conversation out of them, and have been with others that some may not deem to be as attractive physically but they've drawn me in with wit and charm. I'm under no illusions about my own appearance and flaws, but I've developed a thick skin and my confidence had grown over the years so I'll contact whoever I fancy... If they like me then winner, if they don't I move on to the next victim. I don't look at what league I should fit in as I don't know how others decide which traits and features they want... To some I'd be premiership, to others I'd be lucky to make the Sunday league, so I just go for it and let them decide if they are interested instead of trying to decide for them. I would however avoid someone like the lady in the op as I don't find it attractive when people can only inflate their own ego by looking down on others. Confidence had nothing to do with feeling superior, and I often find that behind closed doors people that get their kicks from belittling others are actually not as self assured as they pretend to be." ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"so many seem to draw all their confidence from fab its a sex site guys come on read the URL, where does it say this is a sex site? it doesn't ![]() What amuses me is that a lot of those who proclaim it to be a sex site don't get sex, or even meets, from it ![]() | |||
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"so many seem to draw all their confidence from fab its a sex site guys come on read the URL, where does it say this is a sex site? it doesn't ![]() whats the difference, sex site or swingers site, people are on here for sex aren't they? | |||
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"so many seem to draw all their confidence from fab its a sex site guys come on read the URL, where does it say this is a sex site? it doesn't ![]() you obviously don't know the difference between sex and swinging sex is between two people swinging is sharing partners, eg, swapping wives, threesomes, gangbangs etc. get the drift of what the difference is? | |||
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"so many seem to draw all their confidence from fab its a sex site guys come on read the URL, where does it say this is a sex site? it doesn't ![]() ![]() agreed ![]() ![]() | |||
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"so many seem to draw all their confidence from fab its a sex site guys come on read the URL, where does it say this is a sex site? it doesn't ![]() In that case,for me it's a sex site ![]() | |||
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"so many seem to draw all their confidence from fab its a sex site guys come on read the URL, where does it say this is a sex site? it doesn't ![]() Well said Hilda ![]() | |||
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"so many seem to draw all their confidence from fab its a sex site guys come on read the URL, where does it say this is a sex site? it doesn't ![]() Swinging is still having sex with people though isn't it. they aren't on here to talk about bird watching are they. why does it matter to you so much? | |||
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"so many seem to draw all their confidence from fab its a sex site guys come on read the URL, where does it say this is a sex site? it doesn't ![]() Yes but it's not just sex, its the social side of things too and because its a swingers site not a sex site | |||
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"so many seem to draw all their confidence from fab its a sex site guys come on read the URL, where does it say this is a sex site? it doesn't ![]() I think the difference is expectation. Some, (usually male), think this is a sex site so once they join they'll be knee deep in women whose main fantasy is "draining" them or doing whatever it is the man happens to want. They are the ones who usually end up complaining they can't get sex on "a sex site" and blaming everything but themselves. Then there are the ones who realise there's a bit more to it than join and have offers of sex flooding in, (which does happen for women, I admit). They tend to be more successful. Even for women, who do get more messages than men, it takes effort to get the meets we want. | |||
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"so many seem to draw all their confidence from fab its a sex site guys come on read the URL, where does it say this is a sex site? it doesn't ![]() She commented on something someone else said. Why does it matter to *you* so much? If, to you, this is a sex site, great. To other people it's more than a sex site. That, overall, makes it more than a sex site. Because people here look for sex, doesn't make it just a sex site. I look for bread in Tesco but it doesn't make Tesco a bakery. | |||
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