FabSwingers.com forum: meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

is any single straight guys of 50+ suffering the same as me ? . can you get any meets even if you fit every criterior that couples or women ask for ? .some of the demands that are asked for start from the sublime to the ridiculous from people whom are average at best . if you dont have the looks of brad pitt , the body of wesley snipes & a cock like johnny holmes that you find that you have very little or no chance of a meet. there maybe a few "lucky guys" on here, but i think the vast majority are the same as me . please single guys let me know your thoughts on the matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but have to disagree, there are plenty of guys out there who might not have 'the look' or 'the body' but they're amongst the most successful guys here.

It all boils down to the approach and effort you put in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

like iv,e said that you can fit every criterior & still it,s not enough for some on here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people like a nice personality too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

some people have one,but still cant go forward .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Though not 50+ I am Mr Average, my body could use work, I'm no oil painting but no gargoyle. I've had a great time on fab, personality counts my friend

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"is any single straight guys of 50+ suffering the same as me ? . can you get any meets even if you fit every criterior that couples or women ask for ? .some of the demands that are asked for start from the sublime to the ridiculous from people whom are average at best . if you dont have the looks of brad pitt , the body of wesley snipes & a cock like johnny holmes that you find that you have very little or no chance of a meet. there maybe a few "lucky guys" on here, but i think the vast majority are the same as me . please single guys let me know your thoughts on the matter."
Probably nothing to do with age . Your profile does not have a face picture ( only a cock pic which is irrelevant ) and you don't have any hobbies listed on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pic of more than your cock will help

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i have 2 face pics in my private gallery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Supply and demand my friend

Basically there are more single guys looking than there are people after them, so how can you possibly all get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not exactly selling yourself. Your profile is the only thing people have to go on and if you look at other profiles of people with veris how do you think yours compares ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yes that,s true , but i,m sure that we get fed-up from time to time getting the mucky end of the stick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have 2 face pics in my private gallery."

Get a bodyshot or something other than a cock pic up in public. It'll stand you in good stead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes that,s true , but i,m sure that we get fed-up from time to time getting the mucky end of the stick."

I much prefer giving the mucky end of the stick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear OP

Could I offer a tip, be a bit more positive in your approach and perhaps your success rate may improve. You've started a couple of very negative threads, not the best way to attract.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i think my profile compares favourably compared to ads that promote clubs , paid gangbangs E.C.T.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"like iv,e said that you can fit every criterior & still it,s not enough for some on here ."

Just because you think you fit someone's criteria doesn't mean they will.

Plenty of men do well on sites like these and it's usally because of their attitude and effort they put in. Rather than down to having a ripped body or a 12 inch cock!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

But your only 48

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"like iv,e said that you can fit every criterior & still it,s not enough for some on here ."

It is probable then that you do not meet all of their criteria. Profile text does not fully define meeting criteria. They might not actually like you or your approach.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

There has got to be an attraction (for most) would you shag anyone that met your profile criteria?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"There has got to be an attraction (for most) would you shag anyone that met your profile criteria?"

Stop talking sense it doesn't suit you..

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"There has got to be an attraction (for most) would you shag anyone that met your profile criteria?

Stop talking sense it doesn't suit you..

Sorry, I have no idea what came over me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is the single most important factor on sites like this Jimmy.

So on the good side, you will do better than a 60 year old.

but not as well as a 40 year old.

The young guys dont know that yet, but will find out in due course. Personality? snigger snigger, oh yeah of course it is

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Oh I forgot to add, I don't agree with your age assumption.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"There has got to be an attraction (for most) would you shag anyone that met your profile criteria?

Stop talking sense it doesn't suit you..

Sorry, I have no idea what came over me

Just don't let it happen again

Ps You status made me chuckle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is utter crap!! But if I message a person they get the idea of what I'm like always supply a pic with the message and tell the what your about not just hi or fancy a fook lol

As for criteria that changes all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in good shape and I'm not ugly and I've got a decent size cock, but I'm nothing special and I've done alright. hang in there kid

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"There has got to be an attraction (for most) would you shag anyone that met your profile criteria?

Stop talking sense it doesn't suit you..

Sorry, I have no idea what came over me

Just don't let it happen again

Ps You status made me chuckle! "

Bet he was off of here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ratio is 100 men to 1 woman or even more, its down to luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to be suave, sophisticated and charming like me

Picks nose, burps, farts and shuffles out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You need to be suave, sophisticated and charming like me

Picks nose, burps, farts and shuffles out"

Come 'ere, you've pulled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age is the single most important factor on sites like this Jimmy.

So on the good side, you will do better than a 60 year old.

but not as well as a 40 year old.

The young guys dont know that yet, but will find out in due course. Personality? snigger snigger, oh yeah of course it is"

I don't go for the personality is more important comment, noone knows your personality till they meet you but everyone wants pics

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"Age is the single most important factor on sites like this Jimmy.

So on the good side, you will do better than a 60 year old.

but not as well as a 40 year old.

The young guys dont know that yet, but will find out in due course. Personality? snigger snigger, oh yeah of course it is"

Oh Nice to see an expert putting in his twopen'th.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"like iv,e said that you can fit every criterior & still it,s not enough for some on here ."

So they should just fuck you because you fit what you think their criteria is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh I forgot to add, I don't agree with your age assumption. "

You're well old but lots of women think you're amazing.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Oh I forgot to add, I don't agree with your age assumption.

You're well old but lots of women think you're amazing.

Cheeky bugger, I've not reached middle age yet

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Oh I forgot to add, I don't agree with your age assumption.

You're well old but lots of women think you're amazing.

That's because he bribes them with kippers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh I forgot to add, I don't agree with your age assumption.

You're well old but lots of women think you're amazing.

Cheeky bugger, I've not reached middle age yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to say but the fact that you have your mobile number on your profile smacks a little of desperation. My maximum age limit is 55 so there are women who want to meet older guys and 48 isn't that old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry but have to disagree, there are plenty of guys out there who might not have 'the look' or 'the body' but they're amongst the most successful guys here.

It all boils down to the approach and effort you put in."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think my profile compares favourably compared to ads that promote clubs , paid gangbangs E.C.T."

Our Profile Compares Favourably with the DFS sale adverts but i doubt that will get us more shags...Or sell our Sofa

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both of the threads you've posted have been 'poor me' type of things. Negativity would put us off no matter what age you were or what you looked like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He has proberly said it on ours

I'm not 50 plus yet I shall let you know

Her

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

You only get out what you put in on here i believe x

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

my thought......

if you have an upper preference for women at 55..... you don't really have much of a leg to stand on yourself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately a pic doesnt show my giant intellect, amazing sense of humour

or my deeply caring personality. Perhaps If I could send a video instead of a photo I might get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you seriously expect women to not have preferences OP? I'm not here to make anybody else feel good. I'm here for my own fun only. Not to give out sympathy shags to guys posting whiny threads.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

There are lots of men who match what we look for, but I am not going to fuck them all.

We have met people who stand out though, and your profile wouldn't stand out for us.

( not that I am saying we would be your choice )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age is the single most important factor on sites like this Jimmy.

bollocks

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

To the OP, I too, disagree. This site is very much a case that you get out what you pout in.

You are having to compete with lots of other guys on here, so you have to stand out, make yourself interesting enough to make people view you in a positive light. So what do they see in your Profile?

It is wholly negative; it lacks warmth; it has only one pic, that being of your cock - ditch that to Private pics and get a facial pic up instead.

At least you say you can accommodate, that is a bonus. But you also need to expand your Profile and say a bit more about yourself. It would also help if you break your Profile up into sentences, as at present, it is all one lonnnnnng sentence without any apparent breaks.

Plus, correct any spelling and grammar errors; yes, some may say it is pedantic, but it is a case of creating the right impression. EG; You list the word i,m several times, but in reality, it should read as ... I'm

Get out to socials and clubs in your area; get yourself known and noticed as it all helps.

I'm in my late 50's and still getting meets, and I know of others in the same age group who are still successful.

Patience and perseverance are the watchwords; it does work, so long as you promote yourself positively.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age is the single most important factor on sites like this Jimmy.

bollocks

My Bollocks are young

Gimp

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"The ratio is 100 men to 1 woman or even more, its down to luck

couldnt be more wrong, its down to attitude, understanding of the lifestyle, approach, personality, effort, many things, but you ask any of the succesful men on here what its down to, and the answer they wont give you is luck.

Op, stop thinking joining a website makes you a swinger, if you seriously want to get into this lifestyle, get of your backside and put some effort in, get out to socials and clubs, get yourself known, then use this site to keep in touch with people you meet in person, actually going out and meetingpeople, they get to sample your attitude and personality up close, joining a website wont get you laid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"like iv,e said that you can fit every criterior & still it,s not enough for some on here ."

OP, you seem to think that fulfilling the criteria is the end of finding a meet. Its only the beginning in truth. The boxes may be ticked but then attraction, personality and connection come into play and they are a lot less simple to quantify. I suspect that you believe as many do that as its a swingers site...it should be easy to meet? You couldn't be more wrong. People know what they are looking for and are not prepared to compromise. Effort in gets the results. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people like a nice personality too "
counts me out

I will have to stick to my ravishing good looks

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