FabSwingers.com forum: A sincere apology.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I started a mean and totally unwarranted thread here last night, It's been on my conscience all day today as I know I offended some people, I never would do anything like that normally and I want to offer my sincere apologies to anyone I hurt.

It was a genuine one-off, the reason is really irrelevant, I never should have reacted as I did.

During the course of my inane rantings, I insulted men who did not deserve such a thing done to them, I bent the truth and told one outright lie, for which I am truly ashamed of myself.

I know I don't deserve anything else but the rebukes the thread deserved, I accept that completely.

I just had to set the record straight, last night was not me at all, please just try to understand....I have some wonderful, kind and special folks as friends on here, I have let them down also.

I am genuinely sorry to all concerned.

Eva Nightingale.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fairy nuff

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fairy nuff

Thank you. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fairy nuff

Furi muff

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

pffft Ballbag

(I cant remember what you posted, or even if I read it lolol but props for manning.. uhh womanning up for whatever it was)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"pffft Ballbag

(I cant remember what you posted, or even if I read it lolol but props for manning.. uhh womanning up for whatever it was)

You really don't want to know what my uncharacteristic mood caused me to write on here, Darling....!

I've just realised the fact we never really know what we're capeable of as people, we learn all the time. XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fairy nuff

Furi muff

Much appreciated, thank you. XXX

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

New Cross

Well good on you. I must admit I have had a rant on here when I shouldn't of either. Except I never apologized because he was not the nice person he appeared to be.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can we ask a really silly question but one that would solve a debate by us?

at what age did you realise you were trans?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done for coming back and posting an apology. Takes a brave person to say sorry instead of just lurking x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I too felt it necessary to make an apology last year, after making a total buffoon of myself at a Forum Social

Mine was down to alcohol and I have learned that consuming too much and attending socials or posting on the forums is not a good mix

It takes a strong person to accept they are wrong and appologise, so credit due

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am truly thankful for all you good people and what you have replied....

I just have to say alcohol or any other drug was involved.....It was a culmination of a few things and I really should have seen it coming and understood and done something much more positive instead of lashing out like I did.

Bless you all, and please take good care of yourselves, thank you so much.

And now I need some sleep, one thing I need to do is recognise I need to calm down my life, stop worrying about things I cannot change and get more rest when I need it, I push myself much too hard sometimes, I'm getting too old for that now....! (gulp.....realisation finally begins to set in.....)

I'm SO lucky to have good friends in my life who have helped me terrifically these past four years, my life is better now than ever before and I really am thankful for that,

There are poor folk out there a damn sight worse off than me, I am lucky and I do know that.

Bless you all again.

XXXXXXXXXXXXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am truly thankful for all you good people and what you have replied....

Bless you all, and please take good care of yourselves, thank you so much.

I'm SO lucky to have good friends in my life who have helped me terrifically these past four years, my life is better now than ever before and I really am thankful for that,

There are poor folk out there a damn sight worse off than me, I am lucky and I do know that.

Bless you all again.

XXXXXXXXXXXXX"

Errata....."Alcohol

or any other drug was NOT involved"

Sorry, it is rather late and I am tired..!!!!

XXXXXXX

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By *carineMan
over a year ago

Armthorpe, Doncaster

I recall the thread, and i won`t be convinced that you are truly sorry until i hear and see you say it on This Morning

When is the book due to be published about the events leading to the very public meltdown?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eva... We all do stuff we regret x please don't feel bad about it x

((hugs))

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I recall the thread, and i won`t be convinced that you are truly sorry until i hear and see you say it on This Morning

When is the book due to be published about the events leading to the very public meltdown?!"

"Nightingale, the meltdown" is currently being pitched round Hollywood. Up to now, one or two high profile screenwriters have shown an interest.....(!) XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Eva... We all do stuff we regret x please don't feel bad about it x

((hugs))

Thank you SO much Darling.

lots of warm hugs right back to ya

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

"I started a mean and totally unwarranted thread here last night, It's been on my conscience all day today as I know I offended some people, I never would do anything like that normally and I want to offer my sincere apologies to anyone I hurt.

It was a genuine one-off, the reason is really irrelevant, I never should have reacted as I did.

During the course of my inane rantings, I insulted men who did not deserve such a thing done to them, I bent the truth and told one outright lie, for which I am truly ashamed of myself.

I know I don't deserve anything else but the rebukes the thread deserved, I accept that completely.

I just had to set the record straight, last night was not me at all, please just try to understand....I have some wonderful, kind and special folks as friends on here, I have let them down also.

I am genuinely sorry to all concerned.

Eva Nightingale.

Respect to your apology...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It was a genuine one-off, the reason is really irrelevant, I never should have reacted as I did.

During the course of my inane rantings, I insulted men who did not deserve such a thing done to them, I bent the truth and told one outright lie, for which I am truly ashamed of myself.

I know I don't deserve anything else but the rebukes the thread deserved, I accept that completely.

I just had to set the record straight, last night was not me at all, please just try to understand....I have some wonderful, kind and special folks as friends on here, I have let them down also.

I am genuinely sorry to all concerned.

Eva Nightingale.

Respect to your apology...

Thank you both so much.

XXXXXX

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

As I tend to reside in a perfect bubble made by my monstrous ego I couldn't even recall a thread where you needed to apologise.

Fair play ti you for apologising and I hope whatever upset you is now in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have read the other thread and whilst admittedly it was a rant, it was an interesting thread.

Respect to you for apologizing, perhaps the other people on that thread could apologise for their rude and personal comments to you too.

Miss Nightingale one thing you are not is dull, which would be a far worse crime than your rant and I'm sure 'most men' gate will be forgotten soon

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have read the other thread and whilst admittedly it was a rant, it was an interesting thread.

Respect to you for apologizing, perhaps the other people on that thread could apologise for their rude and personal comments to you too.

Miss Nightingale one thing you are not is dull, which would be a far worse crime than your rant and I'm sure 'most men' gate will be forgotten soon

Thank you, Darling, but every one of those replies was justified and I'm so thankful to all the lovely and caring folks who have contacted me recently, I never expected that, truly I didn't but, I had to put right those silly words I posted which hurt a lot of people unneccessarily.

XXXXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ahhhhh thats better - leaves a better impression of you now xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The truth is out there

Apologies mean nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good on you nightingale. Todays the first day of the rest of your life. Nww start, new beginnings. Xx Be happy

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"The truth is out there

Apologies mean nothing"

I beg to differ, as I personally have found out. Is an apology better than non at all?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Well I for one thoroughly enjoyed the thread.

Anybody feeling butthurt from a forum thread needs to get off the internet.

Rant away I say. It's Thursday yay!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Most people have some kind of rant/meltdown at some point. Yesterdays news tomorrows chip paper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I for one thoroughly enjoyed the thread.

Anybody feeling butthurt from a forum thread needs to get off the internet.

Rant away I say. It's Thursday yay!"

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By *artinichilled1TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Is the thread still up? Ill get some popcorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not the first & you certainly won't be the last to start a ranty thread but you know what you came back and apologised & I for one think that's worth something.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm literally bowled over by your messages, thank you all for your understanding, XXXXXX

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

I don't think you needed to apologise as people said far worse to you. I kind of agree but change the most to a lot. Only the same can be said of women and couples.

I felt sad for you reading the thread as it unfolded. I didn't even read it all. I didn't see it as a hissy fit more a statement of hslf truths by someone clearly hurt. The need to mention wealth and material possessions was, in my opinio, said to try make you feel better about yourself.

Good on you for saying sorry as that is a brave thing to do but I think some need to be sorry more than you do as you didn't personally insult or attack anyone as far as I read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally have not read the thread but as lots of other before me have said fair play to you for apologising that takes a certain type of person especially when it would be so easy not to say anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done, kinda says a lot about you, also says so much more about those who posted the vitriol back are not on here accepting your falibilty.

Humaness gotta love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive seen worst rants that have had a lesser reaction,I think you are a better person for saying sorry than a fair number of the people that were overly spiteful to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but props for manning.. uhh womanning up for whatever it was)

What does that expression 'props' mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, it's amazing how few people know the power of the 3 magic words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had had so many worthless apologies over the years I have become immune to them. Most of them coming from repeat offenders that have no intention of changing their ways

Deeds speak volumes more than words

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I have had had so many worthless apologies over the years I have become immune to them. Most of them coming from repeat offenders that have no intention of changing their ways

Deeds speak volumes more than words"
well arnt you a ray of sunshine. I'm sure you've never done anything you felt you needed to apologise for or then maybe you have but didn't apologise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite possible"

is it just me or does everyone think of LUBE when looking at your profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the real world I often have a rant! I've also met a lot of people who never ever apologise either in words or deeds so fair play to you. It felt like you'd been hurt by someone when you posted your original thread.

None of us is perfect , wouldn't the world be dull if we were!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Most of us make mistakes on here , I respect your apology x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite possible

is it just me or does everyone think of LUBE when looking at your profile pic

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my sincerest apologies if they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite possible

is it just me or does everyone think of LUBE when looking at your profile pic

my sincerest apologies if they do

its too late for apologies,its out there now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite possible

is it just me or does everyone think of LUBE when looking at your profile pic

my sincerest apologies if they do

its too late for apologies,its out there now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also, it's amazing how few people know the power of the 3 magic words"

WTF?

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Was it the 'all men are liars etc' thread?

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By *ranthamThroatMan
over a year ago

Grantham.

It was a genuine one-off, the reason is really irrelevant, I never should have reacted as I did.

During the course of my inane rantings, I insulted men who did not deserve such a thing done to them, I bent the truth and told one outright lie, for which I am truly ashamed of myself.

I know I don't deserve anything else but the rebukes the thread deserved, I accept that completely.

I just had to set the record straight, last night was not me at all, please just try to understand....I have some wonderful, kind and special folks as friends on here, I have let them down also.

I am genuinely sorry to all concerned.

Eva Nightingale.

I read the thread and honestly didn't take it seriously, I thought you may have been just having tongue in cheek fun which was taken seriously, sorry but I wasn't on in the evening and see how the thread ended up, but hey ho, we all say things we regret, and certainly regret later, so I wouldn't worry if I were you as you have had messages which were appreciated by you and lots here saying "bravo".

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By *adgodCouple
over a year ago

Greensburg

Not familiar with the posts in question, but true, heart-felt apologies on the internet are rarer than unicorns. Kudos to you for doing so.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Most of us make mistakes on here , I respect your apology x"
Weirdly I don't, but who really gives a fuck anyway.

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By *ranthamThroatMan
over a year ago

Grantham.

"Most of us make mistakes on here , I respect your apology xWeirdly I don't, but who really gives a fuck anyway.

LOL loved that, I thought it may have been the guy from Brum that was a wind up mysoginit who created a new profile to keep on creating havoc!, David

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By *ranthamThroatMan
over a year ago

Grantham.

ooo err oh shit ignore the bit that signed off David, it may or may not be my name! lol

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

never rant on a day ending in y lol

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