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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I'm utterly useless at this type of thing.......

I've got a good male friend, we've done stuff in the past, but it's more a friendship then anything else. Well he's recently split with his ex and now he's asked me if I would help him redesign his bedroom.

Is that a come on or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds more like a come and get on.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"So I'm utterly useless at this type of thing.......

I've got a good male friend, we've done stuff in the past, but it's more a friendship then anything else. Well he's recently split with his ex and now he's asked me if I would help him redesign his bedroom.

Is that a come on or not?"
50/50 it is/isnt, play it by ear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it, tell us what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't think of it as a come on myself but you know him better

What colour have you chosen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends? Use your intuition. I've helped people design their bedrooms, Defoe wasn't a come on... There must of been a clue given? Surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a euphemism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends? Use your intuition. I've helped people design their bedrooms, Defoe wasn't a come on... There must of been a clue given? Surely? "

There is a spark between us.....and we have done things, it's just an out of the blue request. The one room of his house ive never seen is his bedroom.....oh I really don't know.

Swinging I'm fine with....this kind of thing....totally clueless

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't think of it as a come on myself but you know him better

What colour have you chosen? "

I was thinking maybe a deep red or perhaps black & white. I like the idea of keeping the walls neutral and having a signature colour in the soft furnishings & accessories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you want it to be a come on?

If so, turn it into one by subtly upping the ante.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you want it to be a come on?

If so, turn it into one by subtly upping the ante. "

I would mind if it was a come on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you want it to be a come on?

If so, turn it into one by subtly upping the ante. "

This I'd say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends? Use your intuition. I've helped people design their bedrooms, Defoe wasn't a come on... There must of been a clue given? Surely?

There is a spark between us.....and we have done things, it's just an out of the blue request. The one room of his house ive never seen is his bedroom.....oh I really don't know.

Swinging I'm fine with....this kind of thing....totally clueless"

Oh god I don't know either...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He'll start a paint fight and hope it turns into something naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm utterly useless at this type of thing.......

I've got a good male friend, we've done stuff in the past, but it's more a friendship then anything else. Well he's recently split with his ex and now he's asked me if I would help him redesign his bedroom.

Is that a come on or not?"

Who knows is he the sort who uses cheesy lines?

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

Only if you make it I think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I'm utterly useless at this type of thing.......

I've got a good male friend, we've done stuff in the past, but it's more a friendship then anything else. Well he's recently split with his ex and now he's asked me if I would help him redesign his bedroom.

Is that a come on or not?

Who knows is he the sort who uses cheesy lines?"

Yeah very much so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any guys here genuinely asked a lady for help redesigning their bedroom...?? It's a come on. Imo.. X

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

How much do you value your friendship, and are you prepared to accept the loss of it? ask yourself and if your friendship is worth more to you than a paint splattered afternoons fun, tell him x TT your agony aunt

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Apply Funkys rule of innuendo: if he said "would you like to help me redesign my bedroom, if you know what I mean" then it was a come on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He'll start a paint fight and hope it turns into something naughty "

cant go wrong with a good lick n flick to make you feel good........paint that is

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice.

Think I'll just take it at face value as a mate asking for decorating advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not necessarily, he may want to remove her presence completely from the bedroom nothing more than that

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By *renchDeliceMan
over a year ago

Consett


"Only if you make it I think."

I agree with that.

He might be in the same position as you... trying it on and he probably will hope something happen without forcing the issue.

Nothing wrong with enjoying the decorating and make it an experience!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think a very definate maybe - you only need to say oh i have plans for your bedroom and woohoo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just Shag him n get it over with

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go with red, it's not a calming colour for a bedroom. Neutral colors and then accessorize with colors.

Oh and as for the question itself, the answer is Schroedinger's Cat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't go with red, it's not a calming colour for a bedroom. Neutral colors and then accessorize with colors.

Oh and as for the question itself, the answer is Schroedinger's Cat. "

I was thinking neutral walls, carpets etc and bring the colour in with accessories.

And I'd just have to look in the box!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any ladies want to come and help me put my new silk duvet cover on please... Disclaimer: this is not a come on... X

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"So I'm utterly useless at this type of thing.......

I've got a good male friend, we've done stuff in the past, but it's more a friendship then anything else. Well he's recently split with his ex and now he's asked me if I would help him redesign his bedroom.

Is that a come on or not?"

I wouldn't take that just on it's own as a come on. I would assume that he just wants some ideas and help...soemtimes I think people can read far too much into things.

Now if he tried getting me on the bed while redesigning his bedroom, that I would take as a come on.

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