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Judging a book by its cover

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you ever try and guess what the person looks like by their user name or by their posts in the forums before you look ?

How often are you right ?

If you have meet them does their image match their personality ?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I've met one forum regular so far. I thought he was stunning in real life, especially in colour rather than black and white! The image did match the personality, although that's going on messages and chats as well as forum posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having meet a fair few forum regulars I admit I have been surprised by some , the one that sticks in my mind the most is our very own 2wheels. I was terrified of meeting him but in fact he is a huge big cuddly bear but ssssshhh he won't like me telling you lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not the forums.. I haven't been using them long enough and only use them to chat.. On fab itself I always do.. They never turn out as expected and that's why i don't judge a book by its cover.. Has happened too many times with me too.. Im much better in person then my pic.. Im not photogenic at all.. Some were born behind a lense.. Take everyone's looks with a pinch of salt x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do this all the time, both on and off the site. Very rarely accurate though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

met a few forum users, pretty much as i thought they would be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have met a fair few forum users. Have to admit most of them.. Whom I hadn't seen face pictures of, looked absolutely nothing like I'd envisaged.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Everyone on here assumes I am some kind of heroic time-travelling soldier of fortune and Demi-God of swing...

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Of course they are entirely correct! I really am AWESOME!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem with first impressions is that you only get one shot at making them.

So having said that

Pee poo bum bollocks wuppity duppity doo.

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

iv been to two socials and I would say I have been shocked, amazed, and left speechless by some of the forum users,only 4 of them were what I was expecting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not the forums.. I haven't been using them long enough and only use them to chat.. On fab itself I always do.. They never turn out as expected and that's why i don't judge a book by its cover.. Has happened too many times with me too.. Im much better in person then my pic.. Im not photogenic at all.. Some were born behind a lense.. Take everyone's looks with a pinch of salt x "

The camera absolutely hates me!

I prefer to read a profile and the general tone of messages. Having said that as I have only just recently embraced the forums, I have got chatting to some lovely people who may not have chatted otherwise!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I have had the pleasure of meeting a few off the forum and I have to say they all exceeded their online persona, there are a few more I would really like to meet as their humour is off the scale

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have found some to be nuttier or more sensible than I expected but never in a bad way.

Some have looked nothing as I expected and others exactly as I imagined them.

I look forward to meeting some more on Friday and seeing if they look as I imagine them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had the pleasure of meeting a few off the forum and I have to say they all exceeded their online persona"

Did I?

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli

I am your classic book with a great cover that's judged day to day with my tattooed face and body caring for 60 to 92 year old blind people xxx if you read some of my veris I totally get fabbaz with the looking mean tattooed guy open my mouth smile laugh talk in some cases fuck the opinion 100% changes..... I thrive of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met one forum regular so far. I thought he was stunning in real life, especially in colour rather than black and white! The image did match the personality, although that's going on messages and chats as well as forum posts."

That's a complete and utter lie! You never met me! I never turned up!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find it hard to judge someone on what they say on here or in private messages and I don't think I come across well either, I need to see their reactions or body language while chatting and them to see mine,

I was planning to go to Xtasia on Friday but a football match Saturday afternoon has got in the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always imagine looks and voices. I often get it wrong. Spoke to a guy on the phone recently , told him he sounded better than I'd expected - it came out wrong ! At least he laughed!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I find it hard to judge someone on what they say on here or in private messages and I don't think I come across well either, I need to see their reactions or body language while chatting and them to see mine,

I was planning to go to Xtasia on Friday but a football match Saturday afternoon has got in the way "

Two entirely separate days. Get your act together and do both.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I have had the pleasure of meeting a few off the forum and I have to say they all exceeded their online persona

Did I?"

Indeed you did

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I am your classic book with a great cover that's judged day to day with my tattooed face and body caring for 60 to 92 year old blind people xxx if you read some of my veris I totally get fabbaz with the looking mean tattooed guy open my mouth smile laugh talk in some cases fuck the opinion 100% changes..... I thrive of it "

You Sir are the classic example of not judging a book by its cover, you have and admirable job as well as a luscious body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one person was totally different to how I envisaged. Didn't like her and she is no longer on the site anyway.

I have a good feel for what people look like by the time I meet them

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Only one person was totally different to how I envisaged. Didn't like her and she is no longer on the site anyway.

I have a good feel for what people look like by the time I meet them"

Oi! I'm still here.

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli


"I am your classic book with a great cover that's judged day to day with my tattooed face and body caring for 60 to 92 year old blind people xxx if you read some of my veris I totally get fabbaz with the looking mean tattooed guy open my mouth smile laugh talk in some cases fuck the opinion 100% changes..... I thrive of it

You Sir are the classic example of not judging a book by its cover, you have and admirable job as well as a luscious body "

Thank you hunni

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Only one person was totally different to how I envisaged. Didn't like her and she is no longer on the site anyway.

I have a good feel for what people look like by the time I meet them"

I have so many images in my head of what you would be like in person, I think you would have me roaring with laughter within minutes, and that you would just be so easy to get along with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it hard to judge someone on what they say on here or in private messages and I don't think I come across well either, I need to see their reactions or body language while chatting and them to see mine,

I was planning to go to Xtasia on Friday but a football match Saturday afternoon has got in the way "

I think you come across, as a non arrogant rather nice sensitive chap, as I'm sure a lot would agree. I have been told I come across as a raving lunatic alas this is true.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I am your classic book with a great cover that's judged day to day with my tattooed face and body caring for 60 to 92 year old blind people xxx if you read some of my veris I totally get fabbaz with the looking mean tattooed guy open my mouth smile laugh talk in some cases fuck the opinion 100% changes..... I thrive of it

You Sir are the classic example of not judging a book by its cover, you have and admirable job as well as a luscious body

Thank you hunni "

My pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only one person was totally different to how I envisaged. Didn't like her and she is no longer on the site anyway.

I have a good feel for what people look like by the time I meet them"

You are an enigma. I haven't got a clue.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it hard to judge someone on what they say on here or in private messages and I don't think I come across well either, I need to see their reactions or body language while chatting and them to see mine,

I was planning to go to Xtasia on Friday but a football match Saturday afternoon has got in the way

Two entirely separate days. Get your act together and do both.

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I would have to be driving back by 11am to make the 1245 kick off and I don't think my head or body could cope

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I find it hard to judge someone on what they say on here or in private messages and I don't think I come across well either, I need to see their reactions or body language while chatting and them to see mine,

I was planning to go to Xtasia on Friday but a football match Saturday afternoon has got in the way

Two entirely separate days. Get your act together and do both.

I would have to be driving back by 11am to make the 1245 kick off and I don't think my head or body could cope "

Don't drink so much and you'll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it hard to judge someone on what they say on here or in private messages and I don't think I come across well either, I need to see their reactions or body language while chatting and them to see mine,

I was planning to go to Xtasia on Friday but a football match Saturday afternoon has got in the way

I think you come across, as a non arrogant rather nice sensitive chap, as I'm sure a lot would agree. I have been told I come across as a raving lunatic alas this is true. "

Thank you, And I will withhold my opinion of you for the time being

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Met a good few forumites over the years, some were exactly as I imagined, some sooooo not. Some I liked some I didn't....Cest la vie.

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli


"I find it hard to judge someone on what they say on here or in private messages and I don't think I come across well either, I need to see their reactions or body language while chatting and them to see mine,

I was planning to go to Xtasia on Friday but a football match Saturday afternoon has got in the way "

Nuttin gets in way of football... I turnt a meet down last Friday so I was fresh for the cup game sat.... As it goes I scored the winning goal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it hard to judge someone on what they say on here or in private messages and I don't think I come across well either, I need to see their reactions or body language while chatting and them to see mine,

I was planning to go to Xtasia on Friday but a football match Saturday afternoon has got in the way

Nuttin gets in way of football... I turnt a meet down last Friday so I was fresh for the cup game sat.... As it goes I scored the winning goal "

I don't think I will make the first 11 but I always take my boots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it hard to judge someone on what they say on here or in private messages and I don't think I come across well either, I need to see their reactions or body language while chatting and them to see mine,

I was planning to go to Xtasia on Friday but a football match Saturday afternoon has got in the way

I think you come across, as a non arrogant rather nice sensitive chap, as I'm sure a lot would agree. I have been told I come across as a raving lunatic alas this is true.

Thank you, And I will withhold my opinion of you for the time being

"

Withold! Lol cheeky fecker!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met a good few forumites over the years, some were exactly as I imagined, some sooooo not. Some I liked some I didn't....Cest la vie."

Ohhh goodie goodie this should be fun broomsticks at dawn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The image I have in my mind rarely matches the photo that's sent, in a good & whoa really way!

I've met a few from the forums and so far they have all been personality wise as they are on here.

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli


"I find it hard to judge someone on what they say on here or in private messages and I don't think I come across well either, I need to see their reactions or body language while chatting and them to see mine,

I was planning to go to Xtasia on Friday but a football match Saturday afternoon has got in the way

Nuttin gets in way of football... I turnt a meet down last Friday so I was fresh for the cup game sat.... As it goes I scored the winning goal

I don't think I will make the first 11 but I always take my boots "

Thats the fucking hammer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having meet a fair few forum regulars I admit I have been surprised by some , the one that sticks in my mind the most is our very own 2wheels. I was terrified of meeting him but in fact he is a huge big cuddly bear but ssssshhh he won't like me telling you lot. "

SSSSSHHHHHHHHHH I have a reputation to uphold!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been lucky enough to have met quite a few forumites, and some have pleasantly surprised us, a few have shocked us, but most have been as they say they are on the tin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't like to judge but i do build up pictures of some posters. Not completely from what they post about but through their tone and how they interact with others.

Whether it's a true reflection of how they come across face to face remains to be seen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am your classic book with a great cover that's judged day to day with my tattooed face and body caring for 60 to 92 year old blind people xxx if you read some of my veris I totally get fabbaz with the looking mean tattooed guy open my mouth smile laugh talk in some cases fuck the opinion 100% changes..... I thrive of it "

I had a little look. You sound like a really good guy doing a good job. I bet you are a softie really

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli


"I am your classic book with a great cover that's judged day to day with my tattooed face and body caring for 60 to 92 year old blind people xxx if you read some of my veris I totally get fabbaz with the looking mean tattooed guy open my mouth smile laugh talk in some cases fuck the opinion 100% changes..... I thrive of it

I had a little look. You sound like a really good guy doing a good job. I bet you are a softie really "

Yeah I am actually xxx gotta be... If your a true carer you are a true carer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only one person was totally different to how I envisaged. Didn't like her and she is no longer on the site anyway.

I have a good feel for what people look like by the time I meet them

You are an enigma. I haven't got a clue. "

Thank you, a fine compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only one person was totally different to how I envisaged. Didn't like her and she is no longer on the site anyway.

I have a good feel for what people look like by the time I meet them

Oi! I'm still here."

The only thing that surprised me about you was the way you managed to keep from ravishing me the moment you set your eyes on me. Incredible restraint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you ever try and guess what the person looks like by their user name or by their posts in the forums before you look ?

How often are you right ?

If you have meet them does their image match their personality ?"

Sometimes and so far they have looked somewhat like though some wow they look like the parent of who I imagined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The image I have in my mind rarely matches the photo that's sent, in a good & whoa really way!

I've met a few from the forums and so far they have all been personality wise as they are on here. "
oohhhh now then this is interesting lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you ever try and guess what the person looks like by their user name or by their posts in the forums before you look ?

How often are you right ?

If you have meet them does their image match their personality ?"

No they look like their pictures in general though the pictures do flatter but in general the good looking ones look good the plain ones look plain and the fuglies....well I tent not to look if its possible.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Do you ever try and guess what the person looks like by their user name or by their posts in the forums before you look ?

How often are you right ?

If you have meet them does their image match their personality ?"

Yes I always picture in my head what I think regular forumites look like. That's why I have enjoyed some of the face pics threads..some have really suprised me while others have looked pretty much like what I expected.

Only met one couple from the forum and were not disappointed. They were lovely and one of them wasn't half as grumpry as we expected.

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