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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you visit your mum and dad for a prolonged period I.e a week or so do they still ask you to empty the dish washer, was the pots, hag out the washing, tidy your room... you know the shit you had to do when you was younger?

I have to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do stuff anyway out of habit not because I'm asked. I'm only to happy to help out with anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do stuff anyway out of habit not because I'm asked. I'm only to happy to help out with anything."

Isn't it just polite to offer a hand as a guest in anyone's house?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to my dads the other day and went to make a brew and needed to fill up the water filter and realised it had algi in it

I cleaned it all out and quickly put it back together

It's worrying

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

My parents are no spring chickens so I help where I can....they changed my shitty bum when I was a baby, hugged me when I had my first heart break, lent me money when I was skint, clothed me put food in my belly and clothes on my back so why the hell shouldn't I help them when I go to stay...they have never asked anything of me however they provided me with the world...don't moan that you have to do odd jobs but be thankful you have parents you can do that for...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My parents are no spring chickens so I help where I can....they changed my shitty bum when I was a baby, hugged me when I had my first heart break, lent me money when I was skint, clothed me put food in my belly and clothes on my back so why the hell shouldn't I help them when I go to stay...they have never asked anything of me however they provided me with the world...don't moan that you have to do odd jobs but be thankful you have parents you can do that for..."

As ever, you put a wonderful point across so beautifully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we visit crystal's parents together we do get spoilt rotten, and do very little beyond fetch drinks, clear/lay the table and play with the cat! But if we don't do much it's very much because they won't let us not because we aren't willing. I suspect (don't know) that it's the same when she's there alone because her parents are like that. They always pay when we go out (though we always offer), it's pretty much impossible to even buy a round of drinks as they insist on footing the bill but I suspect that the kindness and generosity would be very quickly curtailed if they ever thought we took it for granted and didn't show grattitude.

When I used to visit my own parents they expected me to do everything and then criticised me for doing it wrong...

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

wish both my parents were here for me to do that

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"When you visit your mum and dad for a prolonged period I.e a week or so do they still ask you to empty the dish washer, was the pots, hag out the washing, tidy your room... you know the shit you had to do when you was younger?

I have to "

We don't stay with either of our parents as they live pretty local to us.

When we visit them we will happily help out with anything that needs doing. They do plenty of things to help us out so we like to return the favour when we can.

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By *ev-PMan
over a year ago

Hampshire


"wish both my parents were here for me to do that "

I think many would agree with you as I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree with Cheekychops on this one. Me and my mum have role reversal. I have now for the past 5 years have been mums full time carer. I have to do everything for her from bed bathing her to tolieting. But i wouldnt change a thing. She has been there for me for the whole of my 43 years. So now its my turn to look after her and make her life as comfortable as i can. Its a shame my younger sister doent think the same way as me.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I had the most wonderful parents unfortunately my dad is not with us now but we have all rallied round to help my mum cope we do everything for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had the most wonderful parents unfortunately my dad is not with us now but we have all rallied round to help my mum cope we do everything for her

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Make the very most if all the time you have with ya parents... Help out... Be glad that you can do a few needed bits for em. Why not ? they did shit loads for you! wish mine were both here still... Don't know what ya got till its gone... Enjoy ya moments... They wont be here forever

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"wish both my parents were here for me to do that

I think many would agree with you as I do."
deffinatly X

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

South East London

Always more than happy to help my Mum when I visit her.

As other posters have already commented,be grateful you can.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"My parents are no spring chickens so I help where I can....they changed my shitty bum when I was a baby, hugged me when I had my first heart break, lent me money when I was skint, clothed me put food in my belly and clothes on my back so why the hell shouldn't I help them when I go to stay...they have never asked anything of me however they provided me with the world...don't moan that you have to do odd jobs but be thankful you have parents you can do that for..."

Quite.

I often wish I still had to do stuff for mine.

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