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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone else noticed a slight trend maybe.. is this happening to many?

All of a sudden we seem to exchange mail, we both agree to add as friends or to exchange pictures.. only to find the ones they send/have in gallery still have no faces lol..

We hate having to ask again.. Would have thought it pretty obvious!!

Oh well moan over lol....

Mike and Ju x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all to common, although we like the new mail system, since it now lets you attach pics cutting out the need for friends invite until after you’ve seen if your all compatible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our understanding is:

The only place that pictures cannot be copied from is, Windows Live Messenger, Yahoo display windows.

We have experienced the headless shots in the private gallery, and two couples showed us their private gallery face pictures and they were wearing masks ffs!!

We never send pictures to anybody now unless we have met them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the people who repeatedly send us friend requests, after deleting them, and cant bother their asses to send you one message...

and most of them DONT have pics..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahh see... we just assumed dohhhhh

I mean.. whats the point in sending a face pic in a mail just to get the same pics back as is in the public folder lol..

We won't send a friends thing though now untill were sure they at least are real and have a face pic to show..

Just seems harsh having to state the obvious after sending mail etc saying shall we all see if we find one another attractive etc..

God, we have to toughen up lol...

Thanks guys x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

By welshfitcpl22 Couple (MF) 3 minutes ago

Its the people who repeatedly send us friend requests, after deleting them, and cant bother their asses to send you one message...

and most of them DONT have pics..

Yes, your right thats almost as annoying lol.. but at least we have the choice to just delete those.. and see if they have some pics first!!

Fair point...

Mike and Ju x

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Don't you just love it when you see a friends list that takes you 3 days to scroll down!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why lol... why!!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

F*** knows! lol

It just puts me right off

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By *hemadcoupleCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Have you noticed that when someone sends you a friend invite, you can straight away see their privvy pics even if you don't accept them? Fine for you as you can decide if you want to accept from a position of advantage. Not so good if you send someone a friend invite and they can immediately see your intimate face pics but then don't reciprocate. Also once you send your invite, you can't retract it, so they can forever see you in all your finery without returning the favour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

madcouple, i totally wasn't aware of that, thank you for that little nugget of information.

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By *j_markCouple
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over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone

TheMadCouple: Well spotted, what an eye for detail! We've changed that so you must have also *accepted* their friend invite before being able to view the friends-only pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Damn lol...

We noticed that last night too.. Now its a great feature gone lol...

Understand why though pmsl..

Mike and Ju x

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Mrs thicko here did'nt even realise! lol

Most of the friends invites we receive are random ones that turn up with no accompanying message anyway so I just delete without looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol,... I can assure you that you were not the only one to miss that one

S&A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a friend of mine recently got a friends request from someone who they had never had any contact with, when she sent them a polite message pointing out that they were not actually friends they replied saying they had actuall met most of the people on thier friends list and hoped to meet her soon, fair enough, except they have no less than 1017 people on thier friends list, ok they like to meet a lot of people, so why do they only have 3 verifications ? that to me says that the rest of the people they met (about 800+ I guess as being most) didn't like them

Profiles can say a lot about people by what is NOT written as much as they can say by what IS written

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

Maybe some people really SHOULDNT send face pics out - get the hint!!!!

hehehehehe

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

what about the ones that have none at all??? bloomin cheek

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"what about the ones that have none at all??? bloomin cheek "

very true - dont ya just love the list of sillhouettes in ya inbox saying "hi"

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By *acuzziFlooziesCouple
over a year ago

Kent to Surrey


"what about the ones that have none at all??? bloomin cheek

very true - dont ya just love the list of sillhouettes in ya inbox saying "hi"

"

Hi!

Hi!

Hi!

Hi!

Hi!

Hi!

Hi!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"what about the ones that have none at all??? bloomin cheek

very true - dont ya just love the list of sillhouettes in ya inbox saying "hi"

Hi!

Hi!

Hi!

Hi!

Hi!

Hi!

Hi!

"
by the time ya did all that ya cudda loaded a pic!!!!

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

hehehehehe

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By *imbojim150Man
over a year ago

lincolnshire


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Most of the friends invites we receive are random ones that turn up with no accompanying message anyway so I just delete without looking"

I delete them as well. If someone wont spend a few minutes writing a message saying their interested first im afraid its the old delete and block treatment for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 17/10/09 17:24:21]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wait till there offline,

perv pics, then delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i wait till there offline,

perv pics, then delete "

Thread defeated. New topic is: What's for dinner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i wait till there offline,

perv pics, then delete

Thread defeated. New topic is: What's for dinner? "
i'l settle for yr ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont have friends on list unless i have met first easier that way for me anyways x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if weve chatted to someone and they add us as friends we delete them if they have no face pics. facial attraction is a big thing with us.if we dont find them attractive then its a no go for us.

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