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when is a newbie no longer a newbie?

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By *renchbambi x OP   Woman
over a year ago

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Is there a timescale that determines your 'newbieness' depending on whether you are here as a single man, single woman, tv/ts or couple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say a newbie is someone who is new to the swinging world, awaiting experience? It's not necessarily related to being verified on here, or how active they are as a swinger, after they have had meets etc then I suppose they're no longer newbies, at least in my eyes?

What's your thoughts Bambi?

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By *renchbambi x OP   Woman
over a year ago

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I posted this after seeing a comment from someone telling the OP he was not a newbie as he had been on site 5 months. That made me think.

I was more thinking of time on site without taking veris into consideration and whether it made a difference depending on your status (sm/sf etc.)

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By *renchbambi x OP   Woman
over a year ago

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I posted this after seeing a comment from someone telling the OP he was not a newbie as he had been on site 5 months. That made me think.

I was more thinking of time on site without taking veris into consideration and whether it made a difference depending on your status (sm/sf etc.)

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

We still class our selves as newbies. As we still crap our selves at meets. Still not sure on certain etiquette etc but still try to have fun any ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Experience rather than time on site. You could still be a newbie after 5 months if you've not had a meet/social etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We still class our selves as newbies. As we still crap our selves at meets. Still not sure on certain etiquette etc but still try to have fun any ways "

I wouldn't call someone with 63 verifications and being on here over a year a newbie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are the stages of "Swingleness" ?

Newbie

Inbetweeny

Swingers

Hardened

Pissed off

UNLOS

?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are the stages of "Swingleness" ?

Newbie

Inbetweeny

Swingers

Hardened

Pissed off

UNLOS

?

"

Many cut out the middle bits....

Newbie

Pissed off

UNLOS

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By *renchbambi x OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Experience rather than time on site. You could still be a newbie after 5 months if you've not had a meet/social etc"

so for you time on site alone is not a criteria, it is more to do with time combined with veri! Have i got this right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Experience rather than time on site. You could still be a newbie after 5 months if you've not had a meet/social etc

so for you time on site alone is not a criteria, it is more to do with time combined with veri! Have i got this right?"

I would have said a combination of both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they have a GUM reference number.

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By *renchbambi x OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"When they have a GUM reference number."

can you elaborate your thought?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone has registered at the local clinic, they are obviously taking the lifestyle seriously and are looking out for their own, and their play mates sexual health. Until that time I would consider them a "toe dipper", I won't play with people who don't know what a GUM is!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

You can never go by length of time on site.

Some 'newbies' have been here dozens of times before!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's irrelevant how long they may have been on the site.

They could have been on 6 months, had one meet and not experimented with other aspects such as clubs/parties etc.

For me a newbie who is someone who is still finding their feet with their experiences and still establishing what they are looking for from this lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We still class our selves as newbies. As we still crap our selves at meets. Still not sure on certain etiquette etc but still try to have fun any ways

I wouldn't call someone with 63 verifications and being on here over a year a newbie!"

I'm sorry I must agree, being on over a year isn't the relevant bit but with the amount of meet verifications you have I would never class you as newbies.

You've obviously done more then dipping your toe and that would suggest to me that you're fully aware of what you want from the site/scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a timescale that determines your 'newbieness' depending on whether you are here as a single man, single woman, tv/ts or couple?

"
Till they meet you my lushious one

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.


"I think it's irrelevant how long they may have been on the site.

They could have been on 6 months, had one meet and not experimented with other aspects such as clubs/parties etc.

For me a newbie who is someone who is still finding their feet with their experiences and still establishing what they are looking for from this lifestyle."

I agree to this. I class myself as a newbie after 5 months. I have had meets and each time new experiences. I know what I am looking for from this lifestyle , pushing my boundaries and being comfortable with who I am and what I like. Which I have achieved and keep on achieving I hope.

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall

We consider ourselves as newbies as we are yet to play with another couple

Although been on the site a while we get little play time and are so nervous about meets which is why we joined a club as we have no pressure and can take things slow

We have only watched and been watched so I'd say we are newbies

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By *renchbambi x OP   Woman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I have been on here 18 months and have been privileged to experience new sensations and meet some wonderful people. I have 87 veris but most are from social meets. There is still a lot i want to discover about the lifestyle, myself, my boundaries...maybe in that respect I am still a newbie compAred to others who have been on the scene for much longer.

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

We have well over a hundred veris not all on show but most are from socials and parties. And to be honest we don't play at most lol

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