FabSwingers.com forum: Improve Fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you have an idea that could improve the fab experience for everyone?

Due to the vast numbers of single guys that "Can't get any meets"

How about regional single guy seminars giving hints, tips and advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or how about the single guys simply read n take heed of the many many threads offering help and advice in the forums.Or is that too simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or how about the single guys simply read n take heed of the many many threads offering help and advice in the forums.Or is that too simple."

fancy a shag? friends request sent.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Hints and tips? Why would anyone want to train the opposition?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or how about the single guys simply read n take heed of the many many threads offering help and advice in the forums.Or is that too simple."

way too simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of the fakes!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or how about the single guys simply read n take heed of the many many threads offering help and advice in the forums.Or is that too simple."

Totally agree. How many newbies does it take to learn about a website? To find the information that is freely available and presented to you. To do a search in forums?

Honestly, i've been a member of other forums in the past and on nearly all of them, basic forum rules state that a user must search forum before starting a new thread in case topic has already been covered.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get rid of the fakes!!!!"

How?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hints and tips? Why would anyone want to train the opposition?

Financial gain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hints and tips? Why would anyone want to train the opposition?

I dont see anyone as opposition..but I do see who's just a shagger and who's a swinger..I choose the ones who are swingers in my eyes...I'd never invite anyone to a party that I know is socially based(albeit a swing one)and listen to them moan about how theres no shagging happening.They should be grateful they got the invite alone in my _iew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

literacy classes then maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you thinking of sharing your little secrets Mr Speaker?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do believe that Sydney Uni is offering a post graduate course on the subject

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

In all seriousness it might be a nice idea to have a Fab mentor though - someone miles away or not in each other's 'looking for' range so there's no vested interest who you can ask newbie questions to for the first month or so (within reason) without feeling like a numpty.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Maybe new single guys could be bombarded with links to good forum posts upon how to be successful - it may reduce the whines downstream. If we crack the single guy dilemma then fab would be easier for all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New profiles should automatically be set up with all mail filters in place, and you have to select who can mail you. I'm sure loads of women are put off when they start a new account and get loads of mails within the first few minutes.

You don't get chance to think about filters, the mail comes in like mad even with a blank profile.

Everything else about Fab is great I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think guys should get tips at all. If they are so socially inept that they think a crap profile and 'hi' will get them a shag, they deserve what they get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In all seriousness it might be a nice idea to have a Fab mentor though - someone miles away or not in each other's 'looking for' range so there's no vested interest who you can ask newbie questions to for the first month or so (within reason) without feeling like a numpty."

I just said to someone I don't want to feel like your mentor

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

block mail for females for a few days to let them settle in and set filters.

make it less daunting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think guys should get tips at all. If they are so socially inept that they think a crap profile and 'hi' will get them a shag, they deserve what they get."

I agree,they should learn by their mistakes too.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I don't think guys should get tips at all. If they are so socially inept that they think a crap profile and 'hi' will get them a shag, they deserve what they get."

Some men don't listen to advice or ask women want they want to see on a profile rather than asking men why they are sexually successful, so whilst sometimes I'm nice and advice men properly, other times I think because they have made little or no effort, then they don't deserve it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"block mail for females for a few days to let them settle in and set filters.

make it less daunting."

That's a really good idea. My head nearly exploded the first time I joined. I left after a couple of months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hints and tips? Why would anyone want to train the opposition?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"block mail for females for a few days to let them settle in and set filters.

make it less daunting.

That's a really good idea. My head nearly exploded the first time I joined. I left after a couple of months "

and for the constant reappearers, it would frustrate them and then they may hide rather than constantly delete and return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never got any help and did ok

Its not rocket science

If you need a massive amount of guidance and reassurance or have huge expectations that drive you mad when they don't happen then maybe don't be on here,theres enough information on these forums and in the FAQs to help the most hapless of people

I don't mean to sound harsh but tough tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never got any help and did ok

Its not rocket science

I don't mean to sound harsh but tough tits

shutit jelly-tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"block mail for females for a few days to let them settle in and set filters.

make it less daunting.

That's a really good idea. My head nearly exploded the first time I joined. I left after a couple of months

and for the constant reappearers, it would frustrate them and then they may hide rather than constantly delete and return."

You need a while to get used to the navigation of the site

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Only allow messages to be sent after 24/48 hrs on the site - that would get rid of an awful lot of late night/day off cruisers.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Have a permanently visible post of hints and tips for new single males compiled from any number of posts that appear every day. It could be positioned in its own Message Board and if anyone does post a whiny I-get-no-meets-what-can-I-do post then they can be instantly referred to it rather than having to write the same advice over and over and over again.

Of course I do realise that most if not all of those posts are a cry for attention and a meet with any of the ladies or couples reading them....and not really an appeal for advice at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only allow messages to be sent after 24/48 hrs on the site - that would get rid of an awful lot of late night/day off cruisers."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only allow messages to be sent after 24/48 hrs on the site - that would get rid of an awful lot of late night/day off cruisers.

but I like new fanny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly, i've been a member of other forums in the past and on nearly all of them, basic forum rules state that a user must search forum before starting a new thread in case topic has already been covered."

We'd have nothing to talk about!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"New profiles should automatically be set up with all mail filters in place, and you have to select who can mail you. I'm sure loads of women are put off when they start a new account and get loads of mails within the first few minutes.

You don't get chance to think about filters, the mail comes in like mad even with a blank profile.

Everything else about Fab is great I think.

When they join they get pointed to the filters plus other tips.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You don't get chance to think abo

ut filters, the mail comes in like mad even with a blank profile.

Everything else about Fab is great I think.

When they join they get pointed to the filters plus other tips.

It's a bit like reading the instruction manual when you get a new phone

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

You don't get chance to think abo

ut filters, the mail comes in like mad even with a blank profile.

Everything else about Fab is great I think.

When they join they get pointed to the filters plus other tips.

It's a bit like reading the instruction manual when you get a new phone

And who does that?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

You don't get chance to think abo

ut filters, the mail comes in like mad even with a blank profile.

Everything else about Fab is great I think.

When they join they get pointed to the filters plus other tips.

It's a bit like reading the instruction manual when you get a new phone

The old leading horse to water springs to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its fine as it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not add, less than a mile to the search, that would be handy

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By *issy NickersWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Can't believe someone suggested a fab mentor - am I at work?M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make single guys pay a membership fee. One off. Would stop men opening multiple profiles. Might deter chancers too.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Make single guys pay a membership fee. One off. Would stop men opening multiple profiles. Might deter chancers too."

What about any females or couples that are chancers or have multiple profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Make single guys pay a membership fee. One off. Would stop men opening multiple profiles. Might deter chancers too.

What about any females or couples that are chancers or have multiple profiles?"
And cam girls to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Make single guys pay a membership fee. One off. Would stop men opening multiple profiles. Might deter chancers too."

just stop it being free might deter a few but i doubt it - just deal with it

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

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"Do you have an idea that could improve the fab experience for everyone?

Due to the vast numbers of single guys that "Can't get any meets"

How about regional single guy seminars giving hints, tips and advice?

i quite like the idea of a room full of horny sexy young men waiting for my hints an tips

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

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"Do you have an idea that could improve the fab experience for everyone?

Due to the vast numbers of single guys that "Can't get any meets"

How about regional single guy seminars giving hints, tips and advice?

i quite like the idea of a room full of horny sexy young men waiting for my hints an tips

Or your hips and tits

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Make single guys pay a membership fee. One off. Would stop men opening multiple profiles. Might deter chancers too."

Single guys pay more for everything now so I can't see how that will help matters. In fact it will make people even more determined to get a return on their investment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Make single guys pay a membership fee. One off. Would stop men opening multiple profiles. Might deter chancers too.

Single guys pay more for everything now so I can't see how that will help matters. In fact it will make people even more determined to get a return on their investment."

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Do you have an idea that could improve the fab experience for everyone?

Due to the vast numbers of single guys that "Can't get any meets"

How about regional single guy seminars giving hints, tips and advice?

i quite like the idea of a room full of horny sexy young men waiting for my hints an tips

Or your hips and tits

haha

why didn't i think of that

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Do you have an idea that could improve the fab experience for everyone?

Due to the vast numbers of single guys that "Can't get any meets"

How about regional single guy seminars giving hints, tips and advice?

i quite like the idea of a room full of horny sexy young men waiting for my hints an tips

Or your hips and tits

haha

why didn't i think of that

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