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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm seeing more and more female profiles saying that they want to be taken out and treated well and if thus won't happen then they don't want to hear from you.

Thought this was a singers site not escorts site?

I think this is wrong, am I wrong?

I expect or take enough money to pay for drinks or meal but I don't expect to pay for everything or I may as well just go pay for a working girl?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

some like a free night out, it is the mugs that pay for them that drive the behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yet (some) women claim they don't have inflated ego's.................

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Don't see your problem. Use it as another filter for women you don't want to meet. Plenty of desperate guys willing to jump through hoops, so leave em to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am not looking for instant meet so I would happily pay for a night out with a Woman I like as I would of been chatting to her for a few months by then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am not looking for instant meet so I would happily pay for a night out with a Woman I like as I would of been chatting to her for a few months by then"

Happily paying for it us totally different to expecting it

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks


"Am not looking for instant meet so I would happily pay for a night out with a Woman I like as I would of been chatting to her for a few months by then

Happily paying for it us totally different to expecting it"
very true but like Miss Tress said filter them out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never expect to be taken out! I'm even happy to pay my share of a hotel bill! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm neither an escort nor a 'singer' !

T A X I !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm seeing more and more female profiles saying that they want to be taken out and treated well and if thus won't happen then they don't want to hear from you.

Thought this was a singers site not escorts site?

I think this is wrong, am I wrong?

I expect or take enough money to pay for drinks or meal but I don't expect to pay for everything or I may as well just go pay for a working girl?"

I bet that goes down well .

Let's look at attraction between women and men .

Women like to know if the man they take into their bed is not likely to murder, beat or stalk them . It's not always easy for them to know your not a murderer without a social first . Some women can tell straight away that a guy is weepy weirdo murdering stalker or some need a bit more time to be convinced , hence why your invited for a meal etc etc . Why a meal or other such activity, it's simple they feel safe in that situation .

Women like lovers or providers, what they want depends on what time of the day week month year or their life they are in . There is no set time for this and they do not offer you clues .

Let's be honest if you get a date and she suggests a meal say no , go bowling or to a local pub and play pool . I would say I never take a woman for a meal until we have had sex at least 3 times.

Then look at this from a woman's point of _iew, your hungry and a guy says let's go for a meal , you look in the fridge and see its empty or you just can't be arsed to cook do you turn him down or go for a meal ????

A meal situation is a no no , you have to talk and by your nature as with all men the more we say the more we screw up it with women .

I also found that some women do not have respect for men that pay for everything , also they don't have respect if you say pay half before they offer or anything you do . So whichever way your onto a loser .

I would say it's highly unlikely any woman is going to let you in her bed without some form of interaction in a public place,

Be a man and offer first , offer something that you can afford to pay for eg bowling , pool most pubs offer free darts or board games

If you go for coffee, get there early and buy your own drink, also get. Glass of water . . When at a pub say your driving and you only drink tap water when your driving ,

It is also customary for drivers who drink soft drinks to not be part of the round .

Further dates offer to cook her food at yours most women would rather do that than go to a restaurant and has the advantage of having the bedroom nearby ( make sure the toilet and bed is clean)

Getting a kite and flying it , feeding ducks the list of free or cheap dates is endless. And you will stand out from the others who are trying to buy the affection.

Then you have the difficulty of financial differences , I personally like nice meals and hotels . I can think nothing of spending 150 on a meal is it fair that I should expect a woman to pay half , because I can afford that

Problem solved and you don't look like a tight loser and more like a lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always like a social meet. But i would never ever expect a guy to pay. If he pays for coffee i pay for the second one. If we meet up for lunch/dinner we split the bill. But some on here i do find are free loaders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm neither an escort nor a 'singer' !

T A X I !!!!! "

I met someone for a meal x but there wasn't any expectation he'd pay.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

A lady offered me half of a hotel fee. Lovely gesture but I declined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't see your problem. Use it as another filter for women you don't want to meet. Plenty of desperate guys willing to jump through hoops, so leave em to it."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm seeing more and more female profiles saying that they want to be taken out and treated well and if thus won't happen then they don't want to hear from you.

Thought this was a singers site not escorts site?

I think this is wrong, am I wrong?

I expect or take enough money to pay for drinks or meal but I don't expect to pay for everything or I may as well just go pay for a working girl?

I bet that goes down well .

Let's look at attraction between women and men .

Women like to know if the man they take into their bed is not likely to murder, beat or stalk them . It's not always easy for them to know your not a murderer without a social first . Some women can tell straight away that a guy is weepy weirdo murdering stalker or some need a bit more time to be convinced , hence why your invited for a meal etc etc . Why a meal or other such activity, it's simple they feel safe in that situation .

Women like lovers or providers, what they want depends on what time of the day week month year or their life they are in . There is no set time for this and they do not offer you clues .

Let's be honest if you get a date and she suggests a meal say no , go bowling or to a local pub and play pool . I would say I never take a woman for a meal until we have had sex at least 3 times.

Then look at this from a woman's point of _iew, your hungry and a guy says let's go for a meal , you look in the fridge and see its empty or you just can't be arsed to cook do you turn him down or go for a meal ????

A meal situation is a no no , you have to talk and by your nature as with all men the more we say the more we screw up it with women .

I also found that some women do not have respect for men that pay for everything , also they don't have respect if you say pay half before they offer or anything you do . So whichever way your onto a loser .

I would say it's highly unlikely any woman is going to let you in her bed without some form of interaction in a public place,

Be a man and offer first , offer something that you can afford to pay for eg bowling , pool most pubs offer free darts or board games

If you go for coffee, get there early and buy your own drink, also get. Glass of water . . When at a pub say your driving and you only drink tap water when your driving ,

It is also customary for drivers who drink soft drinks to not be part of the round .

Further dates offer to cook her food at yours most women would rather do that than go to a restaurant and has the advantage of having the bedroom nearby ( make sure the toilet and bed is clean)

Getting a kite and flying it , feeding ducks the list of free or cheap dates is endless. And you will stand out from the others who are trying to buy the affection.

Then you have the difficulty of financial differences , I personally like nice meals and hotels . I can think nothing of spending 150 on a meal is it fair that I should expect a woman to pay half , because I can afford that

Problem solved and you don't look like a tight loser and more like a lover "

All that for????

My post is about it being put on there profile that they expect the good things from who they meet?

Havnt got a clue what your on about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm didn't post this to say if the man should pay or not it was about it being wrote on there profile that they expect to get wined and dined!

This in my eyes is being an escort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally if someone offered to pay or even asked if I wanted them to buy me something it would make me feel cheap and dirty just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Problem solved and you don't look like a tight loser and more like a lover

All that for????

My post is about it being put on there profile that they expect the good things from who they meet?

Havnt got a clue what your on about "

I guessed that which is why I gave you the advice I did . I am sure that it is good advice as no one has said diffetny yet

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

There are lots of profiles like that about. Some people expect a lot out of this rather than two ( or more ) people meeting for mutual fun.

I am not sure why anyone needs to be wined and dined to decide whether to have sex with someone....a meet in a coffee place/ pub buying each other a couple of drinks surely is enough.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Problem solved and you don't look like a tight loser and more like a lover

All that for????

My post is about it being put on there profile that they expect the good things from who they meet?

Havnt got a clue what your on about

I guessed that which is why I gave you the advice I did . I am sure that it is good advice as no one has said diffetny yet "

I Havnt asked for advice but....thanks for the advice

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"

Problem solved and you don't look like a tight loser and more like a lover

All that for????

My post is about it being put on there profile that they expect the good things from who they meet?

Havnt got a clue what your on about

I guessed that which is why I gave you the advice I did . I am sure that it is good advice as no one has said diffetny yet "

I am still flabbergasted at your advice....feed the ducks / fly a kite? on a date? This isn't a dating site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if thats what they want and get well so be it - a while back we looked at a lady and she was very well verified - so much so she was taken out for a social drink and meal 4 or 5 times a week - and these were her veris - each to their own - we happy to make a brew whilst we chat before playing

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Didn't read it but obviously copy/paste from dating site advice.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Didn't read it but obviously copy/paste from dating site advice. "

How do you know that if you didn't read it

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"- so much so she was taken out for a social drink and meal 4 or 5 times a week - "

One way of saving on your food bill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women have an high opinion of themselves to make such demands, however that been said I do like my meets (when I am meeting) to have a good social aspect as opposed to wham bam thank you maam types, so ive never objected when they chivilously choose to bring over a bottle of wine etc.

There was a guy i met regularly a few years ago that used to pick me up take me for a meal, then back to his where it would go all out with the romantic roses candles setting etc and really spoil me, it was nothing more than FWB for both of us, but i wont lie that it wasnt nice to be spoiled a bit because it was, so i coukd fully understand women wanting it if they can get it, but i certainly wouldnt make that kind of treatment a requirement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn't read it but obviously copy/paste from dating site advice. "

Thanks for the comment but definitely my own words

I have always been good with women I am just sharing my experience on what I have found

Some stuff may work some may not

It's like everything on the net you read it make your decision pick out what you need and use it how you want

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Well if that is your advice for fab, I am equally as bumfuzzled as others seem to be.

I have read it now btw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are lots of profiles like that about. Some people expect a lot out of this rather than two ( or more ) people meeting for mutual fun.

I am not sure why anyone needs to be wined and dined to decide whether to have sex with someone....a meet in a coffee place/ pub buying each other a couple of drinks surely is enough.

"

This exactly . At least they have it on their profile so you can avoid them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some women have an high opinion of themselves to make such demands, however that been said I do like my meets (when I am meeting) to have a good social aspect as opposed to wham bam thank you maam types, so ive never objected when they chivilously choose to bring over a bottle of wine etc.

There was a guy i met regularly a few years ago that used to pick me up take me for a meal, then back to his where it would go all out with the romantic roses candles setting etc and really spoil me, it was nothing more than FWB for both of us, but i wont lie that it wasnt nice to be spoiled a bit because it was, so i coukd fully understand women wanting it if they can get it, but i certainly wouldnt make that kind of treatment a requirement"

I understand this and whether I'm in a relationship or swinging I enjoy buying /paying when I do its also nice to get an offer of a drink back or go half's(which I do so no too) but this site is for both of us and my outcome isn't a stag at the end of the night that's a bonus for both of us if we get along.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I expect a social meet in a public place before I make a final decision about play. But a coffee in a busy coffee shop is my usual meet and I'm happy to buy my own coffee.

As far as paying further costs, well I can't always afford to pay half of a hotel but that just means I can't always afford to meet.

If someone offered then I might accept. But only if they know that it's not expected and certainly not demanded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I expect a social meet in a public place before I make a final decision about play. But a coffee in a busy coffee shop is my usual meet and I'm happy to buy my own coffee.

As far as paying further costs, well I can't always afford to pay half of a hotel but that just means I can't always afford to meet.

If someone offered then I might accept. But only if they know that it's not expected and certainly not demanded."

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer to meet in a park,be bent over a bench,let the man unload in me then walk home knowing I have done him a service and my duty as a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some women have an high opinion of themselves to make such demands, however that been said I do like my meets (when I am meeting) to have a good social aspect as opposed to wham bam thank you maam types, so ive never objected when they chivilously choose to bring over a bottle of wine etc.

There was a guy i met regularly a few years ago that used to pick me up take me for a meal, then back to his where it would go all out with the romantic roses candles setting etc and really spoil me, it was nothing more than FWB for both of us, but i wont lie that it wasnt nice to be spoiled a bit because it was, so i coukd fully understand women wanting it if they can get it, but i certainly wouldnt make that kind of treatment a requirement

I understand this and whether I'm in a relationship or swinging I enjoy buying /paying when I do its also nice to get an offer of a drink back or go half's(which I do so no too) but this site is for both of us and my outcome isn't a stag at the end of the night that's a bonus for both of us if we get along."

oh yes i certainly pay my own way also as I said I dont demand or expect anything else

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've heard it a fair bit - you could meet socially this way and they may wish to pay or go halves. Otherwise avoid them and put them out of action. Lots of people want to meet non sexually first but it's not a fleecing opportunity for anyone. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I much prefer to meet in a park,be bent over a bench,let the man unload in me then walk home knowing I have done him a service and my duty as a woman "

Don't forget to get back to the kitchen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"- so much so she was taken out for a social drink and meal 4 or 5 times a week -

One way of saving on your food bill "

isnt it just - i cant be like that - find it difficult to accept anything - even off good friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm didn't post this to say if the man should pay or not it was about it being wrote on there profile that they expect to get wined and dined!

This in my eyes is being an escort"

have to agree if its written on their profile they expect gifts and nice things id say its tantamount to escorts/prostitition and the offenders banned from this site.

Fabs are giving us this site for free why should females take advantage and expect payment even if it is in kind for the meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're asking for too much if they want to be taken out then POF is the place for them but they know that some men on here would give an arm just to dip their pen in their ink cup......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never expect to be taken out! I'm even happy to pay my share of a hotel bill! X "

Me too! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm didn't post this to say if the man should pay or not it was about it being wrote on there profile that they expect to get wined and dined!

This in my eyes is being an escort

have to agree if its written on their profile they expect gifts and nice things id say its tantamount to escorts/prostitition and the offenders banned from this site.

Fabs are giving us this site for free why should females take advantage and expect payment even if it is in kind for the meeting. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are lots of profiles like that about. Some people expect a lot out of this rather than two ( or more ) people meeting for mutual fun.

I am not sure why anyone needs to be wined and dined to decide whether to have sex with someone....a meet in a coffee place/ pub buying each other a couple of drinks surely is enough.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"- so much so she was taken out for a social drink and meal 4 or 5 times a week -

One way of saving on your food bill

isnt it just - i cant be like that - find it difficult to accept anything - even off good friends "

Knowing my luck I'd get McDonalds or Aggies cafe every day offered to me

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Now there's a coincidence because I read a profile today where the couple wanted to meet someone generous followed by a dollar sign.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now there's a coincidence because I read a profile today where the couple wanted to meet someone generous followed by a dollar sign. "

report to Admin let them do the right thing and ban them. Anyone asking for money in return for sex should be banned whether its female male couple TV etc

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

i said i would like to meet a guy and go for a meal so i can meet in a safe place first ,its something i did in my previous swinging days imagine what my ex would have said we met cpls and had a meal first ,he wouldnt have been happy if i had said im not doing that .so many folk on here said i should go on a dating site ,last week i did ,men on there are more desperate for sex than on here 1 guy suggested meeting straight away ,i said i not have sex on a first date so suggesting meting for a meal on the sunday ,but then says meet for a drink on the friday night so we can have sex on the sunday

so after i said i wasnt meeting him emails video of himself wanking which left me terrified what would have happened if i had invited him to my home

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Now there's a coincidence because I read a profile today where the couple wanted to meet someone generous followed by a dollar sign.

report to Admin let them do the right thing and ban them. Anyone asking for money in return for sex should be banned whether its female male couple TV etc"

I think they strongly implied it rather than being too obvious. What secret sign is '$' apart from 'pay me'?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i said i would like to meet a guy and go for a meal so i can meet in a safe place first ,its something i did in my previous swinging days imagine what my ex would have said we met cpls and had a meal first ,he wouldnt have been happy if i had said im not doing that .so many folk on here said i should go on a dating site ,last week i did ,men on there are more desperate for sex than on here 1 guy suggested meeting straight away ,i said i not have sex on a first date so suggesting meting for a meal on the sunday ,but then says meet for a drink on the friday night so we can have sex on the sunday

so after i said i wasnt meeting him emails video of himself wanking which left me terrified what would have happened if i had invited him to my home "

This is why it's so hard for a man on either sites (plus there's loads of us)

This is a site for sex but 1 replied message shouldn't make them automatically think there in your pants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to buy a coffee or a glass of wine to meet socially if required but, if someone wants me to wine and dine them to get in their knickers, they can fuck off. Different if we become friends and I enjoy their company. No, in my opinion they're having a laugh and your spot on, this is a site for likeminded people to hook up and have sex, not gold diggers

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I don't ask anything from my meets, I have been happy to pay for a hotel room or if visiting them at home a coffee or a cold drink is sufficient, I am not interested in being wined and dined and I certainly don't want anyone's money as I have my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some like a free night out, it is the mugs that pay for them that drive the behaviour"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men also throw offers of it at women in a hope of getting a bite. I get messages offering fancy meals, hotels, that they'll "buy me anything I want"....errr no, I can buy my own stuff thank you very much.

If the profiles say they want certain things then at least you know up front that they're not looking for the same as you. Better that way than it coming as a surprise and then expecting you to wine and dine after you've already invested some time in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didnt know this was a SINGERS site lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didnt know this was a SINGERS site lol"

Haha all them replys and only 2 people noticed

There is another spelling mistake of mine on here

Free dinner and shaggin after for who ever finds it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didnt know this was a SINGERS site lol

Haha all them replys and only 2 people noticed

There is another spelling mistake of mine on here

Free dinner and shaggin after for who ever finds it"

We noticed,we just don't bother correcting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let us look at this from another aspect. I'm frequently asked to dress up for men. Look nice,wear makeup,going out clothes,jewellery etc. If men can make demands why can't women? If men want a woman to spend hours getting ready,just for sex,why shouldn't a woman want to be treated to a date? I personally don't ask to be taken for meals or drinks but then I don't dress up when asked to. Unless of course we're having dinner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let us look at this from another aspect. I'm frequently asked to dress up for men. Look nice,wear makeup,going out clothes,jewellery etc. If men can make demands why can't women? If men want a woman to spend hours getting ready,just for sex,why shouldn't a woman want to be treated to a date? I personally don't ask to be taken for meals or drinks but then I don't dress up when asked to. Unless of course we're having dinner "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Let us look at this from another aspect. I'm frequently asked to dress up for men. Look nice,wear makeup,going out clothes,jewellery etc. If men can make demands why can't women? If men want a woman to spend hours getting ready,just for sex,why shouldn't a woman want to be treated to a date? I personally don't ask to be taken for meals or drinks but then I don't dress up when asked to. Unless of course we're having dinner "

If someone asks you then you ask them,this is totally different from writing it on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm seeing more and more female profiles saying that they want to be taken out and treated well and if thus won't happen then they don't want to hear from you.

Thought this was a singers site not escorts site?

I think this is wrong, am I wrong?

I expect or take enough money to pay for drinks or meal but I don't expect to pay for everything or I may as well just go pay for a working girl?

I bet that goes down well .

Let's look at attraction between women and men .

Women like to know if the man they take into their bed is not likely to murder, beat or stalk them . It's not always easy for them to know your not a murderer without a social first . Some women can tell straight away that a guy is weepy weirdo murdering stalker or some need a bit more time to be convinced , hence why your invited for a meal etc etc . Why a meal or other such activity, it's simple they feel safe in that situation .

Women like lovers or providers, what they want depends on what time of the day week month year or their life they are in . There is no set time for this and they do not offer you clues .

Let's be honest if you get a date and she suggests a meal say no , go bowling or to a local pub and play pool . I would say I never take a woman for a meal until we have had sex at least 3 times.

Then look at this from a woman's point of _iew, your hungry and a guy says let's go for a meal , you look in the fridge and see its empty or you just can't be arsed to cook do you turn him down or go for a meal ????

A meal situation is a no no , you have to talk and by your nature as with all men the more we say the more we screw up it with women .

I also found that some women do not have respect for men that pay for everything , also they don't have respect if you say pay half before they offer or anything you do . So whichever way your onto a loser .

I would say it's highly unlikely any woman is going to let you in her bed without some form of interaction in a public place,

Be a man and offer first , offer something that you can afford to pay for eg bowling , pool most pubs offer free darts or board games

If you go for coffee, get there early and buy your own drink, also get. Glass of water . . When at a pub say your driving and you only drink tap water when your driving ,

It is also customary for drivers who drink soft drinks to not be part of the round .

Further dates offer to cook her food at yours most women would rather do that than go to a restaurant and has the advantage of having the bedroom nearby ( make sure the toilet and bed is clean)

Getting a kite and flying it , feeding ducks the list of free or cheap dates is endless. And you will stand out from the others who are trying to buy the affection.

Then you have the difficulty of financial differences , I personally like nice meals and hotels . I can think nothing of spending 150 on a meal is it fair that I should expect a woman to pay half , because I can afford that

Problem solved and you don't look like a tight loser and more like a lover "

Is this a joke post?

If someone on here said they'd take me to feed the ducks or fly a kite I'd block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was meeting I would want a social first but just coffee

I always get asked to go out for meals on here, I am not meeting at the moment so don't accept. Use this site as you wish, if you don't like it then you use it as a filter and pass by those profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm seeing more and more female profiles saying that they want to be taken out and treated well and if thus won't happen then they don't want to hear from you.

Thought this was a singers site not escorts site?

I think this is wrong, am I wrong?

I expect or take enough money to pay for drinks or meal but I don't expect to pay for everything or I may as well just go pay for a working girl?

I bet that goes down well .

Let's look at attraction between women and men .

Women like to know if the man they take into their bed is not likely to murder, beat or stalk them . It's not always easy for them to know your not a murderer without a social first . Some women can tell straight away that a guy is weepy weirdo murdering stalker or some need a bit more time to be convinced , hence why your invited for a meal etc etc . Why a meal or other such activity, it's simple they feel safe in that situation .

Women like lovers or providers, what they want depends on what time of the day week month year or their life they are in . There is no set time for this and they do not offer you clues .

Let's be honest if you get a date and she suggests a meal say no , go bowling or to a local pub and play pool . I would say I never take a woman for a meal until we have had sex at least 3 times.

Then look at this from a woman's point of _iew, your hungry and a guy says let's go for a meal , you look in the fridge and see its empty or you just can't be arsed to cook do you turn him down or go for a meal ????

A meal situation is a no no , you have to talk and by your nature as with all men the more we say the more we screw up it with women .

I also found that some women do not have respect for men that pay for everything , also they don't have respect if you say pay half before they offer or anything you do . So whichever way your onto a loser .

I would say it's highly unlikely any woman is going to let you in her bed without some form of interaction in a public place,

Be a man and offer first , offer something that you can afford to pay for eg bowling , pool most pubs offer free darts or board games

If you go for coffee, get there early and buy your own drink, also get. Glass of water . . When at a pub say your driving and you only drink tap water when your driving ,

It is also customary for drivers who drink soft drinks to not be part of the round .

Further dates offer to cook her food at yours most women would rather do that than go to a restaurant and has the advantage of having the bedroom nearby ( make sure the toilet and bed is clean)

Getting a kite and flying it , feeding ducks the list of free or cheap dates is endless. And you will stand out from the others who are trying to buy the affection.

Then you have the difficulty of financial differences , I personally like nice meals and hotels . I can think nothing of spending 150 on a meal is it fair that I should expect a woman to pay half , because I can afford that

Problem solved and you don't look like a tight loser and more like a lover

Is this a joke post?

If someone on here said they'd take me to feed the ducks or fly a kite I'd block them."

Talking of ducks, I'd be spitting feathers at £150 for a meal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm seeing more and more female profiles saying that they want to be taken out and treated well and if thus won't happen then they don't want to hear from you.

Thought this was a singers site not escorts site?

I think this is wrong, am I wrong?

I expect or take enough money to pay for drinks or meal but I don't expect to pay for everything or I may as well just go pay for a working girl?

I bet that goes down well .

Let's look at attraction between women and men .

Women like to know if the man they take into their bed is not likely to murder, beat or stalk them . It's not always easy for them to know your not a murderer without a social first . Some women can tell straight away that a guy is weepy weirdo murdering stalker or some need a bit more time to be convinced , hence why your invited for a meal etc etc . Why a meal or other such activity, it's simple they feel safe in that situation .

Women like lovers or providers, what they want depends on what time of the day week month year or their life they are in . There is no set time for this and they do not offer you clues .

Let's be honest if you get a date and she suggests a meal say no , go bowling or to a local pub and play pool . I would say I never take a woman for a meal until we have had sex at least 3 times.

Then look at this from a woman's point of _iew, your hungry and a guy says let's go for a meal , you look in the fridge and see its empty or you just can't be arsed to cook do you turn him down or go for a meal ????

A meal situation is a no no , you have to talk and by your nature as with all men the more we say the more we screw up it with women .

I also found that some women do not have respect for men that pay for everything , also they don't have respect if you say pay half before they offer or anything you do . So whichever way your onto a loser .

I would say it's highly unlikely any woman is going to let you in her bed without some form of interaction in a public place,

Be a man and offer first , offer something that you can afford to pay for eg bowling , pool most pubs offer free darts or board games

If you go for coffee, get there early and buy your own drink, also get. Glass of water . . When at a pub say your driving and you only drink tap water when your driving ,

It is also customary for drivers who drink soft drinks to not be part of the round .

Further dates offer to cook her food at yours most women would rather do that than go to a restaurant and has the advantage of having the bedroom nearby ( make sure the toilet and bed is clean)

Getting a kite and flying it , feeding ducks the list of free or cheap dates is endless. And you will stand out from the others who are trying to buy the affection.

Then you have the difficulty of financial differences , I personally like nice meals and hotels . I can think nothing of spending 150 on a meal is it fair that I should expect a woman to pay half , because I can afford that

Problem solved and you don't look like a tight loser and more like a lover

Is this a joke post?

If someone on here said they'd take me to feed the ducks or fly a kite I'd block them.

Talking of ducks, I'd be spitting feathers at £150 for a meal "

I'd want a fortnight holiday abroad for that price!

I'm a cheap date. £1.50 kinda gal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm seeing more and more female profiles saying that they want to be taken out and treated well and if thus won't happen then they don't want to hear from you.

Thought this was a singers site not escorts site?

I think this is wrong, am I wrong?

I expect or take enough money to pay for drinks or meal but I don't expect to pay for everything or I may as well just go pay for a working girl?

I bet that goes down well .

Let's look at attraction between women and men .

Women like to know if the man they take into their bed is not likely to murder, beat or stalk them . It's not always easy for them to know your not a murderer without a social first . Some women can tell straight away that a guy is weepy weirdo murdering stalker or some need a bit more time to be convinced , hence why your invited for a meal etc etc . Why a meal or other such activity, it's simple they feel safe in that situation .

Women like lovers or providers, what they want depends on what time of the day week month year or their life they are in . There is no set time for this and they do not offer you clues .

Let's be honest if you get a date and she suggests a meal say no , go bowling or to a local pub and play pool . I would say I never take a woman for a meal until we have had sex at least 3 times.

Then look at this from a woman's point of _iew, your hungry and a guy says let's go for a meal , you look in the fridge and see its empty or you just can't be arsed to cook do you turn him down or go for a meal ????

A meal situation is a no no , you have to talk and by your nature as with all men the more we say the more we screw up it with women .

I also found that some women do not have respect for men that pay for everything , also they don't have respect if you say pay half before they offer or anything you do . So whichever way your onto a loser .

I would say it's highly unlikely any woman is going to let you in her bed without some form of interaction in a public place,

Be a man and offer first , offer something that you can afford to pay for eg bowling , pool most pubs offer free darts or board games

If you go for coffee, get there early and buy your own drink, also get. Glass of water . . When at a pub say your driving and you only drink tap water when your driving ,

It is also customary for drivers who drink soft drinks to not be part of the round .

Further dates offer to cook her food at yours most women would rather do that than go to a restaurant and has the advantage of having the bedroom nearby ( make sure the toilet and bed is clean)

Getting a kite and flying it , feeding ducks the list of free or cheap dates is endless. And you will stand out from the others who are trying to buy the affection.

Then you have the difficulty of financial differences , I personally like nice meals and hotels . I can think nothing of spending 150 on a meal is it fair that I should expect a woman to pay half , because I can afford that

Problem solved and you don't look like a tight loser and more like a lover

Is this a joke post?

If someone on here said they'd take me to feed the ducks or fly a kite I'd block them.

Talking of ducks, I'd be spitting feathers at £150 for a meal

I'd want a fortnight holiday abroad for that price!

I'm a cheap date. £1.50 kinda gal. "

Quoting this every time is going to make this the longest thread every lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm seeing more and more female profiles saying that they want to be taken out and treated well and if thus won't happen then they don't want to hear from you.

Thought this was a singers site not escorts site?

I think this is wrong, am I wrong?

I expect or take enough money to pay for drinks or meal but I don't expect to pay for everything or I may as well just go pay for a working girl?

I bet that goes down well .

Let's look at attraction between women and men .

Women like to know if the man they take into their bed is not likely to murder, beat or stalk them . It's not always easy for them to know your not a murderer without a social first . Some women can tell straight away that a guy is weepy weirdo murdering stalker or some need a bit more time to be convinced , hence why your invited for a meal etc etc . Why a meal or other such activity, it's simple they feel safe in that situation .

Women like lovers or providers, what they want depends on what time of the day week month year or their life they are in . There is no set time for this and they do not offer you clues .

Let's be honest if you get a date and she suggests a meal say no , go bowling or to a local pub and play pool . I would say I never take a woman for a meal until we have had sex at least 3 times.

Then look at this from a woman's point of _iew, your hungry and a guy says let's go for a meal , you look in the fridge and see its empty or you just can't be arsed to cook do you turn him down or go for a meal ????

A meal situation is a no no , you have to talk and by your nature as with all men the more we say the more we screw up it with women .

I also found that some women do not have respect for men that pay for everything , also they don't have respect if you say pay half before they offer or anything you do . So whichever way your onto a loser .

I would say it's highly unlikely any woman is going to let you in her bed without some form of interaction in a public place,

Be a man and offer first , offer something that you can afford to pay for eg bowling , pool most pubs offer free darts or board games

If you go for coffee, get there early and buy your own drink, also get. Glass of water . . When at a pub say your driving and you only drink tap water when your driving ,

It is also customary for drivers who drink soft drinks to not be part of the round .

Further dates offer to cook her food at yours most women would rather do that than go to a restaurant and has the advantage of having the bedroom nearby ( make sure the toilet and bed is clean)

Getting a kite and flying it , feeding ducks the list of free or cheap dates is endless. And you will stand out from the others who are trying to buy the affection.

Then you have the difficulty of financial differences , I personally like nice meals and hotels . I can think nothing of spending 150 on a meal is it fair that I should expect a woman to pay half , because I can afford that

Problem solved and you don't look like a tight loser and more like a lover

Is this a joke post?

If someone on here said they'd take me to feed the ducks or fly a kite I'd block them.

Talking of ducks, I'd be spitting feathers at £150 for a meal

I'd want a fortnight holiday abroad for that price!

I'm a cheap date. £1.50 kinda gal.

Quoting this every time is going to make this the longest thread every lol "

Let's do it.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"I'm seeing more and more female profiles saying that they want to be taken out and treated well and if thus won't happen then they don't want to hear from you.

Thought this was a singers site not escorts site?

I think this is wrong, am I wrong?

I expect or take enough money to pay for drinks or meal but I don't expect to pay for everything or I may as well just go pay for a working girl?

I bet that goes down well .

Let's look at attraction between women and men .

Women like to know if the man they take into their bed is not likely to murder, beat or stalk them . It's not always easy for them to know your not a murderer without a social first . Some women can tell straight away that a guy is weepy weirdo murdering stalker or some need a bit more time to be convinced , hence why your invited for a meal etc etc . Why a meal or other such activity, it's simple they feel safe in that situation .

Women like lovers or providers, what they want depends on what time of the day week month year or their life they are in . There is no set time for this and they do not offer you clues .

Let's be honest if you get a date and she suggests a meal say no , go bowling or to a local pub and play pool . I would say I never take a woman for a meal until we have had sex at least 3 times.

Then look at this from a woman's point of _iew, your hungry and a guy says let's go for a meal , you look in the fridge and see its empty or you just can't be arsed to cook do you turn him down or go for a meal ????

A meal situation is a no no , you have to talk and by your nature as with all men the more we say the more we screw up it with women .

I also found that some women do not have respect for men that pay for everything , also they don't have respect if you say pay half before they offer or anything you do . So whichever way your onto a loser .

I would say it's highly unlikely any woman is going to let you in her bed without some form of interaction in a public place,

Be a man and offer first , offer something that you can afford to pay for eg bowling , pool most pubs offer free darts or board games

If you go for coffee, get there early and buy your own drink, also get. Glass of water . . When at a pub say your driving and you only drink tap water when your driving ,

It is also customary for drivers who drink soft drinks to not be part of the round .

Further dates offer to cook her food at yours most women would rather do that than go to a restaurant and has the advantage of having the bedroom nearby ( make sure the toilet and bed is clean)

Getting a kite and flying it , feeding ducks the list of free or cheap dates is endless. And you will stand out from the others who are trying to buy the affection.

Then you have the difficulty of financial differences , I personally like nice meals and hotels . I can think nothing of spending 150 on a meal is it fair that I should expect a woman to pay half , because I can afford that

Problem solved and you don't look like a tight loser and more like a lover "
fly a kite? Mary poppins styleeeee?! Lmfao ... Oh my! are we all living in the real world here?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didnt know this was a SINGERS site lol

Haha all them replys and only 2 people noticed

There is another spelling mistake of mine on here

Free dinner and shaggin after for who ever finds it"

Some of us can't be arsed to play teacher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking hell ive walked into E harmony again

All this talk of date after date before sex

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I'd be prepared to stretch to a bag of wine gums and a bunch of flowers from the graveyard... anything past that is taking the piss

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"I'd be prepared to stretch to a bag of wine gums and a bunch of flowers from the graveyard... anything past that is taking the piss "

**swoons**

I've been out today for a lovely lunch with a Fab friend who came over from Lancashire for a visit (of course, we made mad, passionate love (well, actually we fucked)) afterwards. I'm meeting a bloke next week after I've been on a training course and we're going to a club but we're eating first (else I'll fall asleep after a coupla glasses of wine)...I always go Dutch, or if it's someone I meet fairly regularly then sometimes I pay one time then he pays...or if I've paid for a hotel, I may accept if he pays for the food or club entry...my point is, I don't expect anything from meets other than the use of their bodies (though a bag of wine gums is always appreciated)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always offer to pay. usually just coffee though, haven't eaten out with anyone yet. same would apply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fucking hell ive walked into E harmony again

All this talk of date after date before sex"

I'm considering starting my own swingers site where you have to promise to only want nsa before joining and no kite flying or duck feeding....jeez it sounds like so day out with the kids!

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Fucking hell ive walked into E harmony again

All this talk of date after date before sex

I'm considering starting my own swingers site where you have to promise to only want nsa before joining and no kite flying or duck feeding....jeez it sounds like so day out with the kids! "

Bit more like a nonces guide to 'dating' 10 yr olds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Costa coffee was my favorite place for a Social when I was meeting. I did however go on a few dinnner socials because evenings were better for them. I always paid my share and wouldn't dream of doing otherwise

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I keep the first social short then we can escape if we don't like each other. I always pay my way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm seeing more and more female profiles saying that they want to be taken out and treated well and if thus won't happen then they don't want to hear from you.

Thought this was a singers site not escorts site?

I think this is wrong, am I wrong?

I expect or take enough money to pay for drinks or meal but I don't expect to pay for everything or I may as well just go pay for a working girl?

I bet that goes down well .

Let's look at attraction between women and men .

Women like to know if the man they take into their bed is not likely to murder, beat or stalk them . It's not always easy for them to know your not a murderer without a social first . Some women can tell straight away that a guy is weepy weirdo murdering stalker or some need a bit more time to be convinced , hence why your invited for a meal etc etc . Why a meal or other such activity, it's simple they feel safe in that situation .

Women like lovers or providers, what they want depends on what time of the day week month year or their life they are in . There is no set time for this and they do not offer you clues .

Let's be honest if you get a date and she suggests a meal say no , go bowling or to a local pub and play pool . I would say I never take a woman for a meal until we have had sex at least 3 times.

Then look at this from a woman's point of _iew, your hungry and a guy says let's go for a meal , you look in the fridge and see its empty or you just can't be arsed to cook do you turn him down or go for a meal ????

A meal situation is a no no , you have to talk and by your nature as with all men the more we say the more we screw up it with women .

I also found that some women do not have respect for men that pay for everything , also they don't have respect if you say pay half before they offer or anything you do . So whichever way your onto a loser .

I would say it's highly unlikely any woman is going to let you in her bed without some form of interaction in a public place,

Be a man and offer first , offer something that you can afford to pay for eg bowling , pool most pubs offer free darts or board games

If you go for coffee, get there early and buy your own drink, also get. Glass of water . . When at a pub say your driving and you only drink tap water when your driving ,

It is also customary for drivers who drink soft drinks to not be part of the round .

Further dates offer to cook her food at yours most women would rather do that than go to a restaurant and has the advantage of having the bedroom nearby ( make sure the toilet and bed is clean)

Getting a kite and flying it , feeding ducks the list of free or cheap dates is endless. And you will stand out from the others who are trying to buy the affection.

Then you have the difficulty of financial differences , I personally like nice meals and hotels . I can think nothing of spending 150 on a meal is it fair that I should expect a woman to pay half , because I can afford that

Problem solved and you don't look like a tight loser and more like a lover

Is this a joke post?

If someone on here said they'd take me to feed the ducks or fly a kite I'd block them.

Talking of ducks, I'd be spitting feathers at £150 for a meal

I'd want a fortnight holiday abroad for that price!

I'm a cheap date. £1.50 kinda gal.

Quoting this every time is going to make this the longest thread every lol

Let's do it. "

You think we can?

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

What decade are we living in?

On fabs or otherwise, I'd be happy to go out for a drink etc. I'd also expect to pay my share. I'd find a woman who wanted to be bought dinner etc purely on the basis of outdated notions of gender roles repellant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm seeing more and more female profiles saying that they want to be taken out and treated well and if thus won't happen then they don't want to hear from you.

Thought this was a singers site not escorts site?

I think this is wrong, am I wrong?

I expect or take enough money to pay for drinks or meal but I don't expect to pay for everything or I may as well just go pay for a working girl?

I bet that goes down well .

Let's look at attraction between women and men .

Women like to know if the man they take into their bed is not likely to murder, beat or stalk them . It's not always easy for them to know your not a murderer without a social first . Some women can tell straight away that a guy is weepy weirdo murdering stalker or some need a bit more time to be convinced , hence why your invited for a meal etc etc . Why a meal or other such activity, it's simple they feel safe in that situation .

Women like lovers or providers, what they want depends on what time of the day week month year or their life they are in . There is no set time for this and they do not offer you clues .

Let's be honest if you get a date and she suggests a meal say no , go bowling or to a local pub and play pool . I would say I never take a woman for a meal until we have had sex at least 3 times.

Then look at this from a woman's point of _iew, your hungry and a guy says let's go for a meal , you look in the fridge and see its empty or you just can't be arsed to cook do you turn him down or go for a meal ????

A meal situation is a no no , you have to talk and by your nature as with all men the more we say the more we screw up it with women .

I also found that some women do not have respect for men that pay for everything , also they don't have respect if you say pay half before they offer or anything you do . So whichever way your onto a loser .

I would say it's highly unlikely any woman is going to let you in her bed without some form of interaction in a public place,

Be a man and offer first , offer something that you can afford to pay for eg bowling , pool most pubs offer free darts or board games

If you go for coffee, get there early and buy your own drink, also get. Glass of water . . When at a pub say your driving and you only drink tap water when your driving ,

It is also customary for drivers who drink soft drinks to not be part of the round .

Further dates offer to cook her food at yours most women would rather do that than go to a restaurant and has the advantage of having the bedroom nearby ( make sure the toilet and bed is clean)

Getting a kite and flying it , feeding ducks the list of free or cheap dates is endless. And you will stand out from the others who are trying to buy the affection.

Then you have the difficulty of financial differences , I personally like nice meals and hotels . I can think nothing of spending 150 on a meal is it fair that I should expect a woman to pay half , because I can afford that

Problem solved and you don't look like a tight loser and more like a lover

Is this a joke post?

If someone on here said they'd take me to feed the ducks or fly a kite I'd block them.

Talking of ducks, I'd be spitting feathers at £150 for a meal

I'd want a fortnight holiday abroad for that price!

I'm a cheap date. £1.50 kinda gal.

Quoting this every time is going to make this the longest thread every lol

Let's do it.

You think we can?"

Maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep the first social short then we can escape if we don't like each other. I always pay my way.

"

This for me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some like a free night out, it is the mugs that pay for them that drive the behaviour"

as usual View sums it up in a sentence or two.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see how people eat. Sloppy eater = sloppy kisser

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm seeing more and more female profiles saying that they want to be taken out and treated well and if thus won't happen then they don't want to hear from you.

Thought this was a singers site not escorts site?

I think this is wrong, am I wrong?

I expect or take enough money to pay for drinks or meal but I don't expect to pay for everything or I may as well just go pay for a working girl?

I bet that goes down well .

Let's look at attraction between women and men .

Women like to know if the man they take into their bed is not likely to murder, beat or stalk them . It's not always easy for them to know your not a murderer without a social first . Some women can tell straight away that a guy is weepy weirdo murdering stalker or some need a bit more time to be convinced , hence why your invited for a meal etc etc . Why a meal or other such activity, it's simple they feel safe in that situation .

Women like lovers or providers, what they want depends on what time of the day week month year or their life they are in . There is no set time for this and they do not offer you clues .

Let's be honest if you get a date and she suggests a meal say no , go bowling or to a local pub and play pool . I would say I never take a woman for a meal until we have had sex at least 3 times.

Then look at this from a woman's point of _iew, your hungry and a guy says let's go for a meal , you look in the fridge and see its empty or you just can't be arsed to cook do you turn him down or go for a meal ????

A meal situation is a no no , you have to talk and by your nature as with all men the more we say the more we screw up it with women .

I also found that some women do not have respect for men that pay for everything , also they don't have respect if you say pay half before they offer or anything you do . So whichever way your onto a loser .

I would say it's highly unlikely any woman is going to let you in her bed without some form of interaction in a public place,

Be a man and offer first , offer something that you can afford to pay for eg bowling , pool most pubs offer free darts or board games

If you go for coffee, get there early and buy your own drink, also get. Glass of water . . When at a pub say your driving and you only drink tap water when your driving ,

It is also customary for drivers who drink soft drinks to not be part of the round .

Further dates offer to cook her food at yours most women would rather do that than go to a restaurant and has the advantage of having the bedroom nearby ( make sure the toilet and bed is clean)

Getting a kite and flying it , feeding ducks the list of free or cheap dates is endless. And you will stand out from the others who are trying to buy the affection.

Then you have the difficulty of financial differences , I personally like nice meals and hotels . I can think nothing of spending 150 on a meal is it fair that I should expect a woman to pay half , because I can afford that

Problem solved and you don't look like a tight loser and more like a lover

Is this a joke post?

If someone on here said they'd take me to feed the ducks or fly a kite I'd block them.

Talking of ducks, I'd be spitting feathers at £150 for a meal

I'd want a fortnight holiday abroad for that price!

I'm a cheap date. £1.50 kinda gal.

Quoting this every time is going to make this the longest thread every lol

Let's do it.

You think we can?

Maybe. "

I dont know we may need some................................help

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"I don't ask anything from my meets, I have been happy to pay for a hotel room or if visiting them at home a coffee or a cold drink is sufficient, I am not interested in being wined and dined and I certainly don't want anyone's money as I have my own "

same here have had the opposite where I dated a bloke and I paid for everything!!! even to park his car

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I always insist on a social meet. The first coffee/drink is on them, I get the next. Nine times out of ten they'll suggest a meal. If I'm enjoying their company: why not.

I've never paid for a meal: that's unlikely to change, but I certainly wouldn't put it on my profile I was expecting to be wined and dined!

It's not just single women: I've seen couples profiles where the single man is expected to bring lingerie for the wife and booze for the hubby, book and pay for the hotel, fuck and go, leaving the couple to enjoy the room for the night.

Their verifications were as long as my arm: go figure!

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

I would always be happy to pay my way. I am independent and I don't want the expectation of playing just because a man has paid for something on a social.

I play when I find someone attractive not because of a free meal!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let us look at this from another aspect. I'm frequently asked to dress up for men. Look nice,wear makeup,going out clothes,jewellery etc. If men can make demands why can't women? If men want a woman to spend hours getting ready,just for sex,why shouldn't a woman want to be treated to a date? I personally don't ask to be taken for meals or drinks but then I don't dress up when asked to. Unless of course we're having dinner

If someone asks you then you ask them,this is totally different from writing it on your profile.

"

isn't it better to be up front about it rather than getting to the part in the conversation where the man says will you wear etc etc? For the woman to say why? Are we going out somewhere before we have sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to see how people eat. Sloppy eater = sloppy kisser "

That is so true!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am not looking for instant meet so I would happily pay for a night out with a Woman I like as I would of been chatting to her for a few months by then

Happily paying for it us totally different to expecting it"

but even if the women expect it your still only going to do it if your happy to

I've had guys offer to take me out shopping, for meals, pay for hotel etc it's just what some like, some like to make friends, spend time socially with others, spoil and be spoilt, some just want a drink and a shag, you decide which you want and meet them

for every women who makes these demands there are 10 guys on here looking for the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm seeing more and more female profiles saying that they want to be taken out and treated well and if thus won't happen then they don't want to hear from you.

Thought this was a singers site not escorts site?

I think this is wrong, am I wrong?

I expect or take enough money to pay for drinks or meal but I don't expect to pay for everything or I may as well just go pay for a working girl?

I bet that goes down well .

Let's look at attraction between women u men .

Women like to know if the man they take into their bed is not likely to murder, beat or stalk them . It's not always easy for them to know your not a murderer without a social first . Some women can tell straight away that a guy is weepy weirdo murdering stalker or some need a bit more time to be convinced , hence why your invited for a meal etc etc . Why a meal or other such activity, it's simple they feel safe in that situation .

Women like lovers or providers, what they want depends on what time of the day week month year or their life they are in . There is no set time for this and they do not offer you clues .

Let's be honest if you get a date and she suggests a meal say no , go bowling or to a local pub and play pool . I would say I never take a woman for a meal until we have had sex at least 3 times.

Then look at this from a woman's point of _iew, your hungry and a guy says let's go for a meal , you look in the fridge and see its empty or you just can't be arsed to cook do you turn him down or go for a meal ????

A meal situation is a no no , you have to talk and by your nature as with all men the more we say the more we screw up it with women .

I also found that some women do not have respect for men that pay for everything , also they don't have respect if you say pay half before they offer or anything you do . So whichever way your onto a loser .

I would say it's highly unlikely any woman is going to let you in her bed without some form of interaction in a public place,

Be a man and offer first , offer something that you can afford to pay for eg bowling , pool most pubs offer free darts or board games

If you go for coffee, get there early and buy your own drink, also get. Glass of water . . When at a pub say your driving and you only drink tap water when your driving ,

It is also customary for drivers who drink soft drinks to not be part of the round .

Further dates offer to cook her food at yours most women would rather do that than go to a restaurant and has the advantage of having the bedroom nearby ( make sure the toilet and bed is clean)

Getting a kite and flying it , feeding ducks the list of free or cheap dates is endless. And you will stand out from the others who are trying to buy the affection.

Then you have the difficulty of financial differences , I personally like nice meals and hotels . I can think nothing of spending 150 on a meal is it fair that I should expect a woman to pay half , because I can afford that

Problem solved and you don't look like a tight loser and more like a lover

Is this a joke post?

If someone on here said they'd take me to feed the ducks or fly a kite I'd block them."
Go for a picnic with heartshape sandwhich's before flying the kite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep the first social short then we can escape if we don't like each other. I always pay my way.

"

I thought my last social was going to be short. 3 hours flew by and neither of us realised. That's what I call a good social

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always insist on a social meet. The first coffee/drink is on them, I get the next. Nine times out of ten they'll suggest a meal. If I'm enjoying their company: why not.

I've never paid for a meal: that's unlikely to change, but I certainly wouldn't put it on my profile I was expecting to be wined and dined!

It's not just single women: I've seen couples profiles where the single man is expected to bring lingerie for the wife and booze for the hubby, book and pay for the hotel, fuck and go, leaving the couple to enjoy the room for the night.

Their verifications were as long as my arm: go figure! "

I have seen profiles promoting gang bangs and then the bloke saying it's 20 quid per man and say it's for the price of the hotel room.

Day after you see atleast 10 verifications saying they went,I know the hotel and it cost less then 80 for the room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if thats what they want and get well so be it - a while back we looked at a lady and she was very well verified - so much so she was taken out for a social drink and meal 4 or 5 times a week - and these were her veris - each to their own - we happy to make a brew whilst we chat before playing "
I would love a brew before we have a play

Jack x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

there are also men who make it clear in their profile and messages that they are happy to "treat" a lady, buy lingerie, pay for shopping trips etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im.a 50/50 type of girl

I would never want a meal drinks paid for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there are also men who make it clear in their profile and messages that they are happy to "treat" a lady, buy lingerie, pay for shopping trips etc. "

Very good point!

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks


"I'm seeing more and more female profiles saying that they want to be taken out and treated well and if thus won't happen then they don't want to hear from you.

Thought this was a singers site not escorts site?

I think this is wrong, am I wrong?

I expect or take enough money to pay for drinks or meal but I don't expect to pay for everything or I may as well just go pay for a working girl?

I bet that goes down well .

Let's look at attraction between women and men .

Women like to know if the man they take into their bed is not likely to murder, beat or stalk them . It's not always easy for them to know your not a murderer without a social first . Some women can tell straight away that a guy is weepy weirdo murdering stalker or some need a bit more time to be convinced , hence why your invited for a meal etc etc . Why a meal or other such activity, it's simple they feel safe in that situation .

Women like lovers or providers, what they want depends on what time of the day week month year or their life they are in . There is no set time for this and they do not offer you clues .

Let's be honest if you get a date and she suggests a meal say no , go bowling or to a local pub and play pool . I would say I never take a woman for a meal until we have had sex at least 3 times.

Then look at this from a woman's point of _iew, your hungry and a guy says let's go for a meal , you look in the fridge and see its empty or you just can't be arsed to cook do you turn him down or go for a meal ????

A meal situation is a no no , you have to talk and by your nature as with all men the more we say the more we screw up it with women .

I also found that some women do not have respect for men that pay for everything , also they don't have respect if you say pay half before they offer or anything you do . So whichever way your onto a loser .

I would say it's highly unlikely any woman is going to let you in her bed without some form of interaction in a public place,

Be a man and offer first , offer something that you can afford to pay for eg bowling , pool most pubs offer free darts or board games

If you go for coffee, get there early and buy your own drink, also get. Glass of water . . When at a pub say your driving and you only drink tap water when your driving ,

It is also customary for drivers who drink soft drinks to not be part of the round .

Further dates offer to cook her food at yours most women would rather do that than go to a restaurant and has the advantage of having the bedroom nearby ( make sure the toilet and bed is clean)

Getting a kite and flying it , feeding ducks the list of free or cheap dates is endless. And you will stand out from the others who are trying to buy the affection.

Then you have the difficulty of financial differences , I personally like nice meals and hotels . I can think nothing of spending 150 on a meal is it fair that I should expect a woman to pay half , because I can afford that

Problem solved and you don't look like a tight loser and more like a lover "
Im a sucker for a game of darts lol

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I pay my way at a social. Even when it's an evening in the pub and I'm driving, I've paid turn about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm seeing more and more female profiles saying that they want to be taken out and treated well and if thus won't happen then they don't want to hear from you.

Thought this was a singers site not escorts site?

I think this is wrong, am I wrong?

I expect or take enough money to pay for drinks or meal but I don't expect to pay for everything or I may as well just go pay for a working girl?

I bet that goes down well .

Let's look at attraction between women and men .

Women like to know if the man they take into their bed is not likely to murder, beat or stalk them . It's not always easy for them to know your not a murderer without a social first . Some women can tell straight away that a guy is weepy weirdo murdering stalker or some need a bit more time to be convinced , "

Lol what?

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