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By *ewexperience83 OP Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

Does it bother you when you meet some one at a club/social ?

I'm abit shy initially but after chatting for a little bit I relax.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Does it bother you when you meet some one at a club/social ?

I'm abit shy initially but after chatting for a little bit I relax."

No, it doesn't bother either of us but we are both so used to meeting new people in our jobs. I can understand how someone would feel a bit shy though

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I fake it until it's real.

I have to be very out there in my work life and I don't get shy in those situations. Socially I always think most of us are feeling a little apprehensive with new people so I take the initiative and start talking to people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it's better to just get on with it I think. Nerves are a bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shy to start with. I'm chatty when I get going though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dastardly is genuinely shy, which some read as social awkwardness.

Once he is comfy with you tho, he's a proper little livewire

Thing is, I really like that about him. Sooner have a quiet guy than one who has to be in with the party.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By *ewexperience83 OP Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

Yeah I'm chatty once I get going it's just those pesky nerves somtimes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I.am very shy in new situations, I try to use humour as an ice breaker. Shame itcsometimes comes across the wrobg way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it bother you when you meet some one at a club/social ?

I'm abit shy initially but after chatting for a little bit I relax."

same here it takes me an hour or so to stop stuttering and looking like an ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not shy, but i am a natural introvert with mild social anxiety so i have to work hard at it, not easy when there are outgoing people with big personalities around.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I'm not shy in my day to day life as I am used to presenting to large groups etc. I do find it proper weird when everyone is semi naked and acting normal at a club though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm better if I meet people at clubs and socials because they aren't there to meet me, I'm just chatting to someone who's already there, I get more nervous on private meets as they have come to see me so I feel under more pressure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very shy to begin with babble away like a crazy woman to cover my nerves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shyness is nice, and

Shyness can stop you

From doing all the things in life

You'd like to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it bother you when you meet some one at a club/social ?

I'm abit shy initially but after chatting for a little bit I relax."

I'm the same, I find it impossible when the other person is shy also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it bother you when you meet some one at a club/social ?

I'm abit shy initially but after chatting for a little bit I relax.

I'm the same, I find it impossible when the other person is shy also"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't I think I know what shyness is

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm not shy in my day to day life as I am used to presenting to large groups etc. I do find it proper weird when everyone is semi naked and acting normal at a club though. "

What is normal? I doubt you'd like it if everyone was acting like the last days of Caligula.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I'm not shy in my day to day life as I am used to presenting to large groups etc. I do find it proper weird when everyone is semi naked and acting normal at a club though. "

I am weird so it's only to be expected of me

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'm not remotely shy.

But I get very frustrated with the men at clubs who follow me around but never even try to make eye contact.

You know, the ones who appear everywhere you go and then nonchalantly look at the floor, the ceiling, everywhere but at the person they are interested in.

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By *ewexperience83 OP Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

"I'm better if I meet people at clubs and socials because they aren't there to meet me, I'm just chatting to someone who's already there, I get more nervous on private meets as they have come to see me so I feel under more pressure "

I'm exactly the same, I feel relaxed at clubs a little shy at first but not for long. Private meets I get very nervous.

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By *ewexperience83 OP Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

"I'm not remotely shy.

But I get very frustrated with the men at clubs who follow me around but never even try to make eye contact.

You know, the ones who appear everywhere you go and then nonchalantly look at the floor, the ceiling, everywhere but at the person they are interested in.

I know, we had some followers last time we went to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very shy but soon relax if the people I'm meeting are chatty and involve me in the chat but I do find it awkward if they talk to whoever I'm with and take no notice of me but thankfully that hasn't happened often

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

I am definitely shy to begin with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sooooo shy . It's ridiculous . However , I step into a club dressed up make up on heels on and I am miss confident I am chatty and people are drawn to me . Makes me feel amazing !!

Can't do one on one meets as too shy

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

I'm shy

It's done my no favours when going to a club cos I look unapproachable sat in a corner arms folded, possibly behind a cushion shield

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Does it bother you when you meet some one at a club/social ?

I'm abit shy initially but after chatting for a little bit I relax."

I've never been to an adult club so can imagine being hesitant rather than shy. I used to be shy. Not any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to be shy because I know other people are and no one would get anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shyness is nice, and

Shyness can stop you

From doing all the things in life

You'd like to

So ask me, ask me, ask me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a bit of a shy hi person - if i get a response i rarely shut up then

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've never been shy also there are different levels of shyness. I went to school with a girl that was so bad she used to go bright red and shake if someone spoke to her. She ended up being taken out of school, I often wonder what happened to her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my own I'm shy. Wine stops the shyness though. However Paul isn't shy in the slightest so I usually let him take the lead and then start babbling away x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm very shy to begin with babble away like a crazy woman to cover my nerves

Thank god, I thought I was the only one who did that. I'm always getting told I talk too much at a first meet lol. I'm normal after all (mrs) xx

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Do people get shy about exposing themselves (thoughts as well as bodies) on the internet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a shy person, probably the opposite! Luke can be shy at first but soon comes out of his shell.

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

I'm really shy!

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

I'm really shy at first with new people. My hubby is the opposite because of the job he does.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Shyness is nice, and

Shyness can stop you

From doing all the things in life

You'd like to

So; if there's something you'd like to try,

Ask me, I won't say no, how could I?

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"I'm really shy! "

Are you?!

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

"I'm really shy!

Are you?!"

You know I bloody am!

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"I'm really shy!

Are you?!

You know I bloody am!"

Can't say I'd noticed.

Except for around moths, You are definitely shy of those...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm really shy! "

Really

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Do people get shy about exposing themselves (thoughts as well as bodies) on the internet?

Not really. I'm not shy about getting my kit off in front of other swingers

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

"I'm really shy!

Are you?!

You know I bloody am!

Can't say I'd noticed.

Except for around moths, You are definitely shy of those..."

I've never seen so many of the feckin horrible critters in one place

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

"I'm really shy!

Really

Ok, not so much the night I met you

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not shy I'm scared.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"I'm really shy!

Are you?!

You know I bloody am!

Can't say I'd noticed.

Except for around moths, You are definitely shy of those...

I've never seen so many of the feckin horrible critters in one place

I'll have to cut those buddlias down....

Random flying things do seem to like my garden - I've seen the odd firefly where the apple trees are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not shy I'm scared.

What you scared off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not shy I'm scared.

What you scared off?

Swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not shy I'm scared.

What you scared off?

Swingers.

Sssshhh don't tell anyone but so am I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very shy, when 1st meeting, once I get chatting, nothing will stop me.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm really shy!

Really

Ok, not so much the night I met you

I didn't have you down as shy either.

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By *igsy8Man
over a year ago

Accrington

if its not love,then it's the bomb,that will bring us together

Shyness is nice, and

Shyness can stop you

From doing all the things in life

You'd like to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it bother you when you meet some one at a club/social ?

I'm abit shy initially but after chatting for a little bit I relax."

I'm the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging for last 7 years has made me less sshy.im alot more sociable now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once attended a gang bang event in a swinger club in west ham. I was abit nervous first, but as I walked up the stairs I got more comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not shy I'm scared.

What you scared off?

Swingers.

Don't blame you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not shy at all and have loads of confidence, as long as Im wearing my confidence belt.. Can and do control a room full of men.. Strip me naked and Im as shy as they come!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been to either but I would probably be shy yes. Talking too much is a indication of that with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been to a club or social, sometimes wonder if I'm missing out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No im ok with that I tend to get chatting not long after arrival, I wouldnt feel comfortable going alone otherwise

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I'm not shy on a 1-2-1 basis but can be very shy around large crowds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not shy, but i am a natural introvert with mild social anxiety so i have to work hard at it, not easy when there are outgoing people with big personalities around."

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm fairly outgoing and confident but many people get nerves in some situations even if normally confident. I like to get people relaxed, share a joke and chill. Often just some time is all that's needed without pressure or any rush.

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