FabSwingers.com forum: First True Love

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

His name was Christian. He was 16 and I was 18 when we started "going out" but we had known each other for years. We were in love for 3 years. I still get butterflies when I think of our time together.

Who was yours?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Not had one yet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found mine at the age of 42

The others I thought were right at the time were apparently just pretenders to the throne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband. Met him 21 years ago when I was 20.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

John. I was 15 and he was 19 and we were together for 3 years too - never been loved better. Awww!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only had one,met when I was 13. Left him 4 years and 6 months ago

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By *or Fox SakeCouple
over a year ago

Thornaby

Mrs Fox. Met her when she was 13 I was 15. Took us three years and countless tears but we did it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe true love lasts forever ....So I havnt found it yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smoochy, my black rickenbacker 4001 bass guitar. She was a beauty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My land rover. She leaks oil, is full of rust, looks like a banger but I'd never part with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The hubby we met when I was 15 he was 19 and been together since 25 years this year 4 kids later and still very much in love

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Andrew, both 16, together 3 years fate conspired against us then but strangely throws us back in touch at the weirdest times. Eg bumping into his sister a week before my wedding, me n her living 250 miles from where he and I are from. She told me she thought he still loved me. I ignored her yet awoke on my wedding day with these exact thoughts in my head 'what the hell am I doing? I should be with Andrew'

18 years later divorced and kicking myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met my true love 4 years ago but distance and circumstances have kept us apart. We both have new partners now but are still in contact. We both really love each other still but it can't be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Caryll - met at school and went out for two years from 6th form to working life. Was our first real romance for us both and ended with a fizzle out. . . She joined the police and I left the country!

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

spookily similar to frisky :O mine was John, I was 15 and he was 20, we were together for about 3 years.

When I moved back here about 3 years ago, we got back together and everyone thought it was really sweet that childhood sweethearts got it on again, but it didn't work out.. the good times should have been kept in the past

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By *ittykate84Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

Not had one yet.. Though i have been engaged once and also married I dont think I have ever truly been in love or been loved

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By *ust MonicaWoman
over a year ago

CAMBRIDGESHIRE

"I believe true love lasts forever ....So I havnt found it yet

Me too

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By *lintessential1Man
over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye

"I believe true love lasts forever ....So I havnt found it yet

Me too"

I've been in love before but have to agree..if it's true it will last forever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on your definition or understanding of 'true love'

Romantically, I was 22 and she was 21. We lasted just 8 months and I was devastated when we split.

My other 'first true love' was born in December 2005 - my daughter and I love my son, born two years and one month later equally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I believe true love lasts forever ....So I havnt found it yet

Me too

I've been in love before but have to agree..if it's true it will last forever "

Absolutely right, so my only true loves are my children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that would be my first child then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep when i was 18, we were together for 2 years before we split, still think about him and sometimes wish we were still together

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines

Elaine. I was 8. We were on the way back from Jack and the beanstalk and we kissed on the coach.... The way you think people should kiss because you saw it "at the pictures". My heart nearly exploded, I could feel it. Never been close to that feeling since!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was my ex hubby. I was 15 and he was 21 and so sexy with dark hair and blue eyes. We got married and had 4 Children together

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By *or Fox SakeCouple
over a year ago

Thornaby

Mrs Fox. Met her when she was 13 I was 15. Took us three years and countless tears but we did it.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Elaine. I was 8. We were on the way back from Jack and the beanstalk and we kissed on the coach.... The way you think people should kiss because you saw it "at the pictures". My heart nearly exploded, I could feel it. Never been close to that feeling since!

Aww bless! Lol!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How cute is that! I remember "running away" with a boy called Darren when I was 7 to the monkey trees. We had a kiss then decided we best go home for our tea!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I believe true love lasts forever ....So I havnt found it yet

Me too"

Sadly, I think love is a bit of a myth and wears thin over time. Just my experience

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

My wife. 2nd one and only met her 15 years ago. Never knew it could be this good. All those wasted years with the first wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only had that "firework" feeling once....20+ years ago and I still regret a decision I made at the time. I guess he was my 1st & most genuine love, but I walked away from it as I was scared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first wife. We met when we were 20 and spent 10 years together, married for 8 of those.

She changed my life in so many positive ways. A wonderful woman and I wish her very happiness in her life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She was 17 i was 18. lasted 3 years. she went to uni, we lasted a year of that and then her mother made her choose. me or continuing her degree. i lost out, she was distraught. i bump into her (never alone though) every year or so and we get dumbstruck. just the looks we give each other must speak volumes. i regret to this day, not fighting tooth and nail to stay together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Found mine at the age of 42

The others I thought were right at the time were apparently just pretenders to the throne"

I was 47! Well worth the wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 17. Called my dad and cunt, used me for sex and then broke up with me on fb.

I've never cried so much

Fab is much more fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your mum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 39 years old and I have never been in love, people keep telling me there's someone for everyone out there and I will find love one day but at this rate I'll find mine when I'm in my nursing home lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Never happened yet! I doubt it ever will...but I do always say you never know what is round the corner

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I believe true love is honest and kind so in that sense I haven't had it yet and 42 already.

My parents are my role models though. Their love for me and my kids knows no bounds x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Her name was Lola, she was a showgirl

With yellow feathers in her hair and a dress cut down to there

She would merengue and do the cha-cha

And while she tried to be a star

Tony always tended bar

Across the crowded floor, they worked from 8 til 4

They were young and they had each other

Who could ask for more?

[Chorus:]

At the copa (CO!) Copacabana (Copacabana)

The hottest spot north of Havana (here)

At the copa (CO!) Copacabana

Music and passion were always in fashion

At the copa.... they fell in love

His name was Rico

He wore a diamond

He was escorted to his chair, he saw Lola dancing there

And when she finished,he called her over

But Rico went a bit to far

Tony sailed across the bar

And then the punches flew and chairs were smashed in two

There was blood and a single gun shot

But just who shot who?

[Chorus]

At the copa... she lost her love

Her name is Lola, she was a showgirl,

But that was 30 years ago, when they used to have a show

Now it's a disco, but not for Lola,

Still in dress she used to wear,

Faded feathers in her hair

She sits there so refined,and drinks herself half-blind

She lost her youth and she lost her Tony

Now she's lost her mind

[Chorus]

At the copa... don't fall in love

Don't fall in love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depeche mode! Fell in love in the 80s and still head over heels.

Through the good and bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First love at 15.

For the rest of my life love at 49. Still in love and lust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First love(r)..... Julie. We were both 13. Was it love? Yes...lust too ... Did it last? No but we have spoken recently...we both remember it fondly.

Always remember your first time.

Don't ask about any of next ones tho....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both 14, holiday romance which turned into long distance teenage pining.

she introduced herself by kicking my shins while wearing hiking boots

which was nice !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nicki. I was 31. She was 34.

We didn't really realise until we split up two and a half years ago.

We married two years ago.

I didn't know what love felt like until I tried to live without her. Now I realise I've never been in love before now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 39 years old and I have never been in love, people keep telling me there's someone for everyone out there and I will find love one day but at this rate I'll find mine when I'm in my nursing home lol"

Long as you've still got those sexy feet....should be ok, get dinner made for you, so more time for sex, and if you can't undo the knots on the ropes because of arthritis or something, you'll have the panic button. Something to look forward to I say lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it's never changed after all these years.. my first love and my only real love is with a dear, dear man.

View you will always in my heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lucky ( mr ) to have had two true , real life loves ....

Met my first on my paper round 13 and had marriage, kids success in life and much love and happiness .. Sadly taken from us aged 31....

I marry for life and only once !!! Or that's what I thought lol ... This pretty little miss walked into my life 6 years ago and now married over 2 and madly in love and lust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm lucky ( mr ) to have had two true , real life loves ....

Met my first on my paper round 13 and had marriage, kids success in life and much love and happiness .. Sadly taken from us aged 31....

I marry for life and only once !!! Or that's what I thought lol ... This pretty little miss walked into my life 6 years ago and now married over 2 and madly in love and lust

How sad that your first was taken but how happy to hear that you have found love again, you are very lucky xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm lucky ( mr ) to have had two true , real life loves ....

Met my first on my paper round 13 and had marriage, kids success in life and much love and happiness .. Sadly taken from us aged 31....

I marry for life and only once !!! Or that's what I thought lol ... This pretty little miss walked into my life 6 years ago and now married over 2 and madly in love and lust

How sad that your first was taken but how happy to hear that you have found love again, you are very lucky xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

daz killer kilroy my hearts desire sadly taken from me in a bike crash n i will always wonder what our kids would have looked like coz he was my brad pitt always in my heart "batfink" your crazy "hellkat"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah... Ray - a sexy Irishman x I was besotted x the sex was ok too x a lifetime ago now x happy memories x

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