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I'm always 1 year away from saying Hello

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By *ala.mala OP   Man
over a year ago

poole

Why would you not want to have contact with a 51 year old when your preferences are for 30-50.

does 1 day really matter?

grrrrrrr

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well yes cause that's there cut of point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone has a preference, it is their preference.

Some people lie about their age, some people look older or younger than their age. It might not be significant to you if you fit outside someones preference, but for them it is significant...

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they want 30-50 then that means 50 is really upper end.

I say 30-60 on my profile but ideal would be around 40-50 if I'm honest, with leeway and flexibility around the edges.

There has to be a cutoff point somewhere so I'd suggest that most 'upper limits' are already pushing the boundary a bit and they'd probably prefer a little younger anyway

Of course I can't speak for everyone but that's my take on it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why would you not want to have contact with a 51 year old when your preferences are for 30-50.

does 1 day really matter?

grrrrrrr"

no one day doesn't really matter but a cut off has to come somewhere.

It really is a more pleasant experience here if you concentrate on those whose criteria you do fit rather than those you don't.

Welcome and good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if 60 year olds stopped pretending to be 50 then people may not be so strict about it

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

If it were raised to 51, then the 52 year olds would say, surely a year doesn't make any odds.

Plus you always get a message from someone saying they are well preserved, have a young outlook, etc

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Of course it matters!

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

SEA


"I think if 60 year olds stopped pretending to be 50 then people may not be so strict about it "

OMG - I'm saving I'm 50 - should I be saying 40

Then again probably not with my hairline

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My age range is set in stone.....chalk....easily eroded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you not want to have contact with a 51 year old when your preferences are for 30-50.

does 1 day really matter?

grrrrrrr"

We say 20 to 50, we prefer 30 to 45 but we stretch the boundaries to allow for people who are a bit older/younger than we like but seem interesting. 50 is the absaloute end of the stretch so 51 may only seem 1 year over but in actual fact its 6 years over what we actually want. I expect a lot of people are the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is 45 to 55 ish therefore my filters are off so anyone 56 etc can contact me

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By *iceduoCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester


"I think if 60 year olds stopped pretending to be 50 then people may not be so strict about it "

ironically im more interested in 60 year olds xxjen

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