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By *riff9012 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gwynedd

I have a serious question for anyone/everyone.

Which do you find is most important in a potential meet/friend/partner etc.

Looks, or personality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks first followed by a good personality but must have both..spoke to a very good looking fella once after about 20 mins i was struggling to stay awake so he was a no no.

Just our way, sure everyone looks for different things. x

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By *riff9012 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gwynedd

I guess on sites ike this, looks tend to attract people first and then the profile might help catching that persons attention.

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I would be lying if I said looks don't play a part. I do not go for the conventional good looking guy, I like a bit of a quirk to him. Personality seals it for me tho. And if he can make me laugh even better.

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By *riff9012 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gwynedd

Out of curiosity, what kind of personality ina possible meet/partner/friend seals it for you most?

like fun and spontaneous, or serious yet adventurous etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks will be the instant attraction,personality will be the make or break of it

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By *ittykate84Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

Definitely looks first, our sight is our primary sense along with hearing so there has to be an instant attraction.. If my brain goes yuck i wont see what the personality is like

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By *riff9012 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gwynedd

Imagine if we all were like Shallow Hal, (movie) and what we saw with our eyes was the persons inner beauty and what not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality for me. If my hamster has a better more entertaining personality than someone I may meet then no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine if we all were like Shallow Hal, (movie) and what we saw with our eyes was the persons inner beauty and what not "

Or inner ugliness!

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By *riff9012 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gwynedd


"Imagine if we all were like Shallow Hal, (movie) and what we saw with our eyes was the persons inner beauty and what not

Or inner ugliness!"

That too, you could see what that person is actually like. Would make life a lot easier lol.

Of course then it would erase that 'mystery' of getting to know them yourself lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looks/profile obviously the initial attraction - thats what theyre for after all - your personal advert - but if you met a club personality will more than come into it - once you meet if you didnt connect with them it would go no further for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks will be the instant attraction,personality will be the make or break of it "

and a huge cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks at first. The first 5 seconds are the most crucial when meeting anyone for the first time. Ones first impression is usually the most right one. Then personality follows quite closely. The two are almost inseparable

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I have chatted to blokes in clubs that when I 1st saw them thought - nope, not gonna happen - but once he started talking the personality took over..... and I had a nice evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of curiosity, what kind of personality ina possible meet/partner/friend seals it for you most?

like fun and spontaneous, or serious yet adventurous etc."

What's wrong with fun and adventurous?


"Imagine if we all were like Shallow Hal, (movie) and what we saw with our eyes was the persons inner beauty and what not "

Now that's cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have chatted to blokes in clubs that when I 1st saw them thought - nope, not gonna happen - but once he started talking the personality took over..... and I had a nice evening "

have met and chatted to people in club that we wouldnt maybe have contacted off the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks will be the instant attraction,personality will be the make or break of it "

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