FabSwingers.com forum: In great need...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

...of a cuddle! *note: not for squeamish people*

Back story: had the coil fitted yesterday morning. I thought I was pregnant but test and nurse both said I wasn't even though I've had negative pregnancy tests in the past and actually been pregnant. Today I got to work and almost collapsed from the pain. Was sent to A&E from work. Was there for 5 hours and was then told they couldn't remove the coil and I had to make an appointment at the place that put it in. No appointments til next week but they squeezed me in between appointments today because I was in so much pain. They took it out there and then... Took 2 minutes! Dunno why they wouldnt do it at the hospital!! I told the nurse about my suspected pregnancy and that the doctor at the hospital mentioned something about my ovaries (i don't remember exactly what because I was squirming in pain at the time) and she said its actually possible that the reason I was in so much pain and I was bleeding so much is that I was pregnant and the coil had caused a miscarriage (only would have been 2 weeks pregnant and the nurse that fitted the coil knew this).

Still in agony.. and a bit upset about the possible pregnancy and worried about my ovaries!!!

Virtual cuddles greatly appreciated!!

Also any knowledge on all this would be appreciated too!!!

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By *ittykate84Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

Awww cuddles babe im sorry

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By *ol73Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Sending loads of hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh lovely that's bloody awful!!!! If you need to chat pm me. Hope you feel better.soon.

Hugs xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everyone. Feel as though I need to cry but I've got no tears left! I'm a wuss when it comes to pain x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw, big hugs! I'm sure it'll all be good in a short while

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Please accept a virtual hug from me and a blackjack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big warm cuddle from us two

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By *ncorMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

Sending hugs. Need to talk with the department who fitted coil. Law suit pending. Tell them. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hugs for you, tissues un chocolate included. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sending hugs. Need to talk with the department who fitted coil. Law suit pending. Tell them. ??"

They did nothing wrong. Pregnancy test was negative, and coil was fitted perfectly. They couldn't be expected to do anything else :/

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for cuddles and hugs. Definitely need that chocolate to be real though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending hugs x must have been horrible x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you everyone. Feel as though I need to cry but I've got no tears left! I'm a wuss when it comes to pain x "

Really feel for you,never had it myself but I remember my old boss had a coil fitted and she was in agony..never found out what caused it but I know she was very poorly,you're not a wuss xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For now forget about legal stuff and just take care of yourself, as you can see there's plenty of us thinking of you and sending you hugs - it might not make things go away but hopefully it will help a litter

Big big hugs sweetheart x

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By *ckleticklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of big hugs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big cuddles Hun xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If I could send lovehearts to you all, I would! 3 x

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

New Cross

Aww thats awful. Get an early night and take it easy x.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

warrants a group hug I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hot bath and bed. Bit sore. Need rest before work tomorrow!

I'm all for group hugs!x

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Aw have a hug from me.

Claire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im really shocked that a nurse would tell you she thought you might have been pregnant and miscarried as a result of the coil

thats shocking

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I had a merina (sp) coil fitted a few years ago. It was September. I was in pain every day. I bled every day. They told me to persevere. I did. Until February.

I'll never do that ever again. Hideous contraption. Apparently it's very successful for some women. Not for me.

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

aww not good hope your cuddled up in bed safe and warm BIG BIG CUDDLE for you !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was closer. I would cuddle you op

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

lots of cuddles coming your way ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask for a blood test which would show if pregnant even if tests won't .

Can't understand why they wouldn't do that anyway before telling you that you may have miscarried and also why they would have fitted if you thought you was pregnant , or why you let them

Hope you find out what happened . Bleeding can happen anyway with a coil fitting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask for a blood test which would show if pregnant even if tests won't .

Can't understand why they wouldn't do that anyway before telling you that you may have miscarried and also why they would have fitted if you thought you was pregnant , or why you let them

Hope you find out what happened . Bleeding can happen anyway with a coil fitting x "

Also if it helps they don't class as miscarriage that early on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hugs ..I had an awful time with a coil was in hosp for a week and in so much pain ended up on antibiotics for a month cos they wouldnt take it our..but they had to in the end n it was pretty traumatic so feelin your pain x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hot bath and bed. Bit sore. Need rest before work tomorrow!

I'm all for group hugs!x "

I sent you a message hope that was alright. Hot water bottles help.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Now I know why I will never have the coil fitted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be the coil just doesn't suite you I was told it has the same hormones as the implant and when I had that in I had horrible pain for a few days and bleed constantly for 6 months until the nurse agreed I needed it removed

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

One of the doctors at my previous surgery had a real thing about the coil. She pushed me so hard to have one fitted. I don't want one! No, no, no, no, no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mahoosive hugs from Malvern.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

H U G S !!!!!!

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By *a-ra-ra-boom-de-ayCouple
over a year ago

Wish it was the Algarve! Aberdeenshire

What a horrible day you have had, big hugs and hope your feeling better soon and get down to the bottom of it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a merina (sp) coil fitted a few years ago. It was September. I was in pain every day. I bled every day. They told me to persevere. I did. Until February.

I'll never do that ever again. Hideous contraption. Apparently it's very successful for some women. Not for me. "

Exactly the same happened to me but I put up with it for 2 years because as I had to have it inserted under general anaesthetic (due to not having a vaginal birth), I was worried about the pain having it removed. It took about 30 seconds to take out and I didnt feel a thing!

My libido also returned once it had been removed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you get well soon x

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By *hris n AnnaCouple
over a year ago

edinburghish

Hope your feeling better soon have a virtual hug x Anna

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