FabSwingers.com forum: difference in sex drive

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

what do you do when your partner sex drive is sooooo different to your own?

mine is off the scale theres not am inute when i'm not thinking mmmmmmm i could just ...........

where as the new partner 'flippin ek' can do with once a week!

it makes me want it even more i'm sure! i feel like a right nymph lol

don't suggest porn or toys he aint into them either lol where did i find him? lol

apart from that he's 1 amazing guy who is everything i could wish for ;0)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL no idea, ive always dated sex maniacs

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

He does'nt have to be involved when you're playing with your toys or watching porn lol

Just because hes not into toys,im sure he won't mind you playing with them

Its nice to have a bit of me time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what do you do when your partner sex drive is sooooo different to your own?

mine is off the scale theres not am inute when i'm not thinking mmmmmmm i could just ...........

where as the new partner 'flippin ek' can do with once a week!

become a swinger????? lol

it makes me want it even more i'm sure! i feel like a right nymph lol

don't suggest porn or toys he aint into them either lol where did i find him? lol

apart from that he's 1 amazing guy who is everything i could wish for ;0)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have no iodea what I did there!

I only meant to say become a swinger!!!

finger trouble lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

he not into swinging!

he dnt like me playing with toys wether he there or not

and i musut be gay to watch porn lol so he says lmao

call himold fashioned or just off a different planet lol

awww i got 2 luv him ;0)

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"he not into swinging!

he dnt like me playing with toys wether he there or not

and i musut be gay to watch porn lol so he says lmao

call himold fashioned or just off a different planet lol

awww i got 2 luv him ;0)"

Blimey I don't think I could love him!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"he not into swinging!

he dnt like me playing with toys wether he there or not

and i musut be gay to watch porn lol so he says lmao

call himold fashioned or just off a different planet lol

awww i got 2 luv him ;0)"

Match made in Heaven that....

Where did you find him... Maybe best not to say!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

lol told you it was a low sex drive lol

got vibrating cock ring 4 2night ;0)

just got to work my magic sexy voice now n talk him in2 it lmao

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

GOOD LUCK!!!!

I think i would have shagged have of the village by now...oh hold on....i have anyway!!!!

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"he not into swinging!

he dnt like me playing with toys wether he there or not

and i musut be gay to watch porn lol so he says lmao

call himold fashioned or just off a different planet lol

awww i got 2 luv him ;0)"

you sure we not got same partners??? My hub says the same thing!

2 and half years sincew we last did anything remotely resembling sex.....and believe me lol, have tried EVERYTHING!!

In all other respects the perfect man...he even irons ffs but sex? not now if his life depended on it.

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over a year ago

"he not into swinging!

he dnt like me playing with toys wether he there or not

and i musut be gay to watch porn lol so he says lmao

call himold fashioned or just off a different planet lol

awww i got 2 luv him ;0)

you sure we not got same partners??? My hub says the same thing!

2 and half years sincew we last did anything remotely resembling sex.....and believe me lol, have tried EVERYTHING!!

In all other respects the perfect man...he even irons ffs but sex? not now if his life depended on it. "

That is soooo sad

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

omg newbs i can sigh a breath of relief! i am not the only one! but 2 years????? wow!!!!! i couldn't do it!

well i've had me bath, washed me hair, shaved me bits, brushed me teeth freshened me breath and put me best gear on so head aches are not an option tonight lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"he not into swinging!

he dnt like me playing with toys wether he there or not

and i musut be gay to watch porn lol so he says lmao

call himold fashioned or just off a different planet lol

awww i got 2 luv him ;0)

you sure we not got same partners??? My hub says the same thing!

2 and half years sincew we last did anything remotely resembling sex.....and believe me lol, have tried EVERYTHING!!

In all other respects the perfect man...he even irons ffs but sex? not now if his life depended on it. "
i applaud ur staying power darling.......i was in same situation.........but ended up leaving.............hugz n kissez xxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i done that for best part of 10 years don't know how i concieved when i did! lol

are you allowed to play then newbs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been married nearly 10 years, 3 children, but no sex or anything resembling it since we found out we were having a girl (the excuse was now we have both flavours we dont have to do it anymore.

He doesnt know i play.....and would kill me, but i know everyone will say just leave, but in all other respects hes great; just made up his mind and no way of changing it.

I have seen other posts on here about married ppl playing away and im expecting the backlash but the way i look at it, im getting what i need and hes not having me moan at him all the time. im sure he has an inking but he chooses not to say anything and im certainly not going to rub his nose in it......hang on, praps i should try that!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

feel 4 you newbs i was like that 4 a long time 2 and i think its sad that they don't recognise our needs.

It takes some guts 2 play away i could never do it not even in this early relationship i'm in but i do understand where you're coming from because i often thought about it myself!!!

Don't wanna rub nothing in either but last night was one of my few. Amazing in fact for him! I'd say he's been a fly on the wall all day yesterday lol

Anyway chic got to go he wants his breakfast. Unless i get mine hes getting cereal lol ;0)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell... Gonna keep Mrs Notts OFF this thread... Men, cooking, cleaning Ironing... Get a grip fellas!

I'll happily give her all the sex she needs and some.. but IRON... ff's what is this world coming to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

says a lot for me lol.....he prefers ironing to me!!!!

still saves me doing it xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"says a lot for me lol.....he prefers ironing to me!!!!

still saves me doing it xxx"

I think he might be gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would explain it!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After I got married to my first wife, she went from 7 days a week to once a month!

Mind you she had never tried anal and then in one of the sessions we did and she came round again for a few months but then back to the same old routine.

Tried everything and in the end she said go get it elsewhere so I did. Then one day we decided to end the marriage as it served no function.

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