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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ello

Never posted a thread before so here goes and please don't laugh lol

Any advice on how to prepare oneself for Anal sex, how can you make sure your as clean as you can be??

I had anal sex years ago, he was 'tiny' and i mean 'tiny' and didn't last a minute, so i've not experienced it properly.

So the next question is just to use plenty of lube yes?

Ok you can all stop laughing now

Jen x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

A bit of wood to chomp down on.

Seriously though, I find anal sex a lot easier after I've had a vaginal orgasm or two. More relaxed and lubed up, although extra lube always needed.

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Lots of lube, relax and enjoy, mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just take it nice and slowly,plenty of lube,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know this sounds a bit obvious, but do it with someone you trust! It can be uncomfortable at best if you're tense and he'll need to go slow at first till you get used to it. The other posters are spot on about it being easier if you're properly turned on. Good luck and enjoy!

(Her)

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Don't forget to douche, douche & douche again, at least an hour before. Lovehoney do so decent ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello and welcome

No one will laugh, we have all been there the first time

My advice is although a lot of people agree on lube, I can fully understand, but it stings me and delays the good time.

I use my own cum, and prefer to start on a semi cock.

My preferred position is on my hands and knees ( more control)

Gently let him insert his cock, taking the thrusts very gentle to start.

When you feel confident, and trust is paramount who you do it with, then go faster if you wish, pushing back if you wish.

It is learning a comfortable speed, to be enjoyed.

And boy can it be enjoyed.

Try rimming too before hand too, this is one of my favourites

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh that made me laugh!

And thank you for the advice

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By *rixieswTV/TS
over a year ago

S.Westerly

It's a really good idea to douche properly as well. You don't want to spoil the moment by having a mess! This is simply done by lots of soap and fingers and a power shower. Enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh it will be with someone i trust

Thank you for the advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you Trixiesw x

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

My advice is buy a douche, they are pretty cheap.

I Douche, then fit a butt plug to prepare myself as I'm only little.

After a while (about an hour usually) I will remove the plug and douche well again.

I will then either reapply the plug if I'm feeling kinky, or just lightly lube myself before going to the club etc.

Have fun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you to everyone that has replied. Haven taken onboard your advice, much appreciated x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not a silly question actually sensible to ask as one painful attempt could put you off what can be an enjoyable experience.

Id say have plenty of foreplay normally first and vaginal sex to get very aroused ask partner to gently probe ass with finger while fucking pussy. If pussy really wet thsts great but use lub as well. Lots of slow gentle fingering ass no rough stuff. Get him to push finger in slow a bit at a time then maybe another need to relax sphincter muscle.

When you feel ready get into a position where entry is easier we find lady on side with leg up to stomach bedt or laying over pillow flat on stomach to list asd into air.

Missionery can be difficult for first anal and if too many attempts with cock it can become sore so slow gentle entry with cock is best. Ssk guy to enter bit at a time patience is best for anal.

Hope you enjoy and im available if you esnt experienced guy lol im a good teacher x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will need..

1. A large marrow, courgette or butternut squash

2. A friend

3. A croquet mallet

4. Somewhere with enough room for a run-up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You will need..

1. A large marrow, courgette or butternut squash

2. A friend

3. A croquet mallet

4. Somewhere with enough room for a run-up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been shopping justJ0die

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You will need..

1. A large marrow, courgette or butternut squash

2. A friend

3. A croquet mallet

4. Somewhere with enough room for a run-up.

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you forgot the hard of hearing neighbours

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