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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm feeling really melancholy today (pmt doesn't help). I was wondering whether anyone else wonders if this is it? Is this all life has to offer? Getting up, going to work, struggling to pay bills ect. Constantly feel like I'm on a hamster wheel sometimes.

I know that I am luckier than a lot of other people, I have reasonable health, a son, family etc.

I think I feel unfulfilled.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I'm feeling really melancholy today (pmt doesn't help). I was wondering whether anyone else wonders if this is it? Is this all life has to offer? Getting up, going to work, struggling to pay bills ect. Constantly feel like I'm on a hamster wheel sometimes.

I know that I am luckier than a lot of other people, I have reasonable health, a son, family etc.

I think I feel unfulfilled."

And then there is the opportunity to do some thing different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone I know who doesn't have a life full of mundane issues, has too much time on their hands to think and they all have mental health problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things can get a bit shit, but there's always stuff to do or learn or see.

"The world you desire can be won. It exists.. it is real.. it is possible.. it's yours."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably. (big sigh)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm feeling really melancholy today (pmt doesn't help). I was wondering whether anyone else wonders if this is it? Is this all life has to offer? Getting up, going to work, struggling to pay bills ect. Constantly feel like I'm on a hamster wheel sometimes.

I know that I am luckier than a lot of other people, I have reasonable health, a son, family etc.

I think I feel unfulfilled.

And then there is the opportunity to do some thing different "

how do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only you can make change happen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't that life in general.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"only you can make change happen x "

I am sure when my son is old enough to be left at home, I will have more of a social life, freedom etc. I would love to do an open university course but it's not possible at the moment.

I'm feeling sorry for myself today! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have spectacular boobs too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't that life in general."

Yes, you are absolutely right. I think I need some fun in mine though

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I'm feeling really melancholy today (pmt doesn't help). I was wondering whether anyone else wonders if this is it? Is this all life has to offer? Getting up, going to work, struggling to pay bills ect. Constantly feel like I'm on a hamster wheel sometimes.

I know that I am luckier than a lot of other people, I have reasonable health, a son, family etc.

I think I feel unfulfilled."

yep....completely get where you are coming from

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Things can get a bit shit, but there's always stuff to do or learn or see.

"The world you desire can be won. It exists.. it is real.. it is possible.. it's yours.""

I like that quote

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm feeling really melancholy today (pmt doesn't help). I was wondering whether anyone else wonders if this is it? Is this all life has to offer? Getting up, going to work, struggling to pay bills ect. Constantly feel like I'm on a hamster wheel sometimes.

I know that I am luckier than a lot of other people, I have reasonable health, a son, family etc.

I think I feel unfulfilled.

yep....completely get where you are coming from "

Glad it's not just me then!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have spectacular boobs too! "

Thank you x. (Sssssh, don't tell anyone but I hate them!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww Laydees! Be happy x x

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines

I would guess most people feel that way now and then.

I guess the solution is to fill your non-work time with interesting things and people - try to plan nice stuff to look forward to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would guess most people feel that way now and then.

I guess the solution is to fill your non-work time with interesting things and people - try to plan nice stuff to look forward to.

But that is also part of the problem, being a single mom, there is no free time. I know that will change in a few years though.

I think I might have a look on groupon or wow her when I get paid and treat myself to a spa hotel or something x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm feeling really melancholy today (pmt doesn't help). I was wondering whether anyone else wonders if this is it? Is this all life has to offer? Getting up, going to work, struggling to pay bills ect. Constantly feel like I'm on a hamster wheel sometimes.

I know that I am luckier than a lot of other people, I have reasonable health, a son, family etc.

I think I feel unfulfilled."

Sounds to me like your feel unfulfilled in your life and your life is lacking meaning. The only way to change the way your thinking and feeling is to make some changes to your life in a way that makes it feel more purposeful. Take a moment alone in peace and quiet and have a good look at your life and try and imagine what would make you feel more content and fulfilled. Then take the steps forward to achieve these, every step in the right direction no matter how small will is a positive move and keep doing this until you find a place where your life has more meaning and contentment. Only you can change your life for the better as your the captain of your own ship.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I'm feeling really melancholy today (pmt doesn't help). I was wondering whether anyone else wonders if this is it? Is this all life has to offer? Getting up, going to work, struggling to pay bills ect. Constantly feel like I'm on a hamster wheel sometimes.

I know that I am luckier than a lot of other people, I have reasonable health, a son, family etc.

I think I feel unfulfilled.

And then there is the opportunity to do some thing different "

A lot of people don't even recognise there is a wheel.

What would happen if you did something completely different to your normal behaviour?

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