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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My advice would be 'DON'T'
I've never got back together with an 'ex' for one very simple reason
There is a reason the relationship 'ended'
One relationship I had didn't really fall apart, but I think had just gone a bit 'every day'. 'normal', and we began to drift apart.
She then decided to go off to Australia for 6 months.
When she came back, she was all boyfriended up, but something gave me the incling that all was not well for her.
But we still got on OK.
She popped over once as she'd asked me to look at something on her car.
Afterwards, I was going out, and as we were headed in the same direction, I followed her for some of the way.
Not far down the road, she pulled over into a layby.
I thought there was a problem with her car, so pulled in behind to see what was up. When she got out of the car she was crying her eyes out.
Turned out, that she realised she'd made a mistake in leaving me.
But, and here's the nub, the question that kept rolling over, and over again in my mind was 'yes, but if we got back together, how can I be sure she won't get itchy feet again'
Even after my relationship that followed ended, I was still on good terms with this girl, and met up a few times socially.
She was single at the time, and dropped enough hints that she would be open to getting back together.
In fact, I even think she even said as much.
I trod carefully saying that I didn't think it would be fair on her as, since we broke up, I've had 2 children, and if we got back together I would always be thinking that it should have been her that I'd had children with, only I didn't want to have any more.
Just my humble opinion, although I suspect probably the complete opposite of what you were looking for. |
... We have a 2 year old son and our relationship changed when he was born. Anyone got any tips on how I can try get back with her without applying to much pressure 
