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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Two part question ;

To the experienced swingers here.(And the ones that do reply to messages) If you get a message from a new person, man, woman or couple, you check out the profile but both seem to lack something , would you offer advice, Without being asked for it ?

To the newbies; would you be offended, if someone did?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on my mood when i read the message,, might think 'yeah i agree with that, make the change and be glad of the tip'

or if im in a rotten mood id think 'cheeky fucker, keep your opinions to yourself'

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

No o wouldn't do give advice when it's not asked for. I would just say thanks but no thanks.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

No I wouldn't give advice unless asked for, I think what might not appeal to me might appeal to others so I wouldn't meddle

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No I wouldn't give advice and if anyone tried to give me it I'd tell them to mind their own business and not mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't give advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

My opinion counts for nothing on here, all because I didn't like something that does not mean others who read their profile wont like it

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By *etentMan
over a year ago

maidstone

I would appreciate someone giving advice...its up to me whether i take it or not but wouldn't be offended by it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah if someone gave me constructive advice, in a constructive manner, I would most definitely welcome it.

I'm here to enjoy the scene and if someone is prepared to offer me pointers that would be genuinely useful in having more success then I would take the advice on board of I felt it was appropriate.

Unsolicited abuse (e.g. "Here's some advice, go fuck yourself") would clearly be less welcomed.

So fill your boots, constructive advice positively welcomed

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By *sThunderThighsWoman
over a year ago

Toy Land

I have done b4 ! And to be honest its been welcomed ! Or they just pretend its welcomed !! In the hope they may get into my pants !!!! Ooh so cynical !!! But hard not to be on here !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really depends.

I may be inclined to do so if it really was the way their profile that was letting them down.

I suppose it really depends on the vibe you get from their message.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No I wouldn't give unsolicited advice. Sometimes newer members have contacted us and during the course of conversation they mention that they're unsure about something, we then ask if they mind us making a few suggestions otherwise we keep quiet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friendly message with advice would be welcome. We're quite new and I know our profile could be better. Will be updated soon anyway but any advice welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done with a single guy who's profile was cringe worthy he wasn't my type - far too young but a few changes and he's now a established member on here getting meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes sometimes I give advice without being asked for. Mostly ive been thanked x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No only if its asked for in a forum.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It depends on the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A new couple said they can't show face pics due to being very careful because of their jobs. They had about 4 face pics on show so I mailed to ask if they realised. They hadn't realised the different gallery types and said thanks.

I wouldn't give advice willy nilly. That was a one off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks but no thanks then run for me, it's a good point that we all like different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I wouldn't give advice and if anyone tried to give me it I'd tell them to mind their own business and not mine"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"A new couple said they can't show face pics due to being very careful because of their jobs. They had about 4 face pics on show so I mailed to ask if they realised. They hadn't realised the different gallery types and said thanks.

I wouldn't give advice willy nilly. That was a one off."

That's completely different. I would always advise someone not to walk off the edge of a cliff for instance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would welcome advice or tips, or a simple no ta.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All advice is welcome we say. Us newbies tend to over look things which may or may not be the deciding factor when people are looking at our profile etc. So if someone was to offer advice we will certainly take it on board whether we agree or not. we certainly wouldn't take offence and spit our dummies out because in our eyes they are only trying to help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they ask why I've said no thank you I will tell them

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