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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

On my break at work... Sat outside having a cigarette... In the space of 5 minutes I had 2 random guys stop and say hello to me... What the fuck?! Completely random. Bit worried! Do I have something in my teeth?! A hole in my trousers?! Or is it just so interesting that I'm sat on my own? Argh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll often say hi and offer a smile to a pretty lady if she catches my eyeline. Mrs N thinks I'm a flirty tart but I'm just being nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the world can be a nice place sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't knock it. That's the real world you must have an appeal you didn't realise. Go back out and try some more. Enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It'd be much nicer if people smiled more and offered a simple pleasant greeting. I do it loads and brings a nice fuzzy feeling for the day.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

you must just look pretty

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its sad that you think there must be a reason for someone to say hello, I say hello and pass the time all the while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its sad that you think there must be a reason for someone to say hello, I say hello and pass the time all the while"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm in my work trousers and hoodie. Hair plastered to my face cos its so hot at work. No makeup. If this is the look that guys go for I may stick to it in the future!!! Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It just happened again. What the hell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It just happened again. What the hell! "

Smile back!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It just happened again. What the hell!

Smile back!

I do :P but it creeps me out a bit when they start having a conversation with me hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably just wanted a (draw) of your fag? lol.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"It just happened again. What the hell!

Smile back!

I do :P but it creeps me out a bit when they start having a conversation with me hahaha "
I really do find this sad and maybe why people do keep themselves to themselves more if being friendly creeps people out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It just happened again. What the hell!

Smile back!

I do :P but it creeps me out a bit when they start having a conversation with me hahaha I really do find this sad and maybe why people do keep themselves to themselves more if being friendly creeps people out

One guy asked me my name and where I work... It's kinda creepy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't people usually speak to you ?

I love conversing with other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always saying hello and smiling at people when I'm out and about! It just makes the world a nice place for a minute or two!

Can't understand why your so bothered by the fact that a few strangers have bid you a good day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be on cloud nine if it happened to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I smile and talk to anyone and everyone it's nice to be nice brightens your day up

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

God you'd hate me...I'll chat to anyone I was in Denmark and there was this d*unk man with a guitar who was homeless people ran from him I had a really pleasant conversation with him....his English was perfect it was nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It just happened again. What the hell! "

go check the mirror - might be a post it note saying smile and say hellooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It just happened again. What the hell!

Smile back!

One guy asked me my name and where I work... It's kinda creepy!"

I'd find that creepy too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A stranger smiled at me yesterday, she made my day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A stranger smiled at me yesterday, she made my day

Sure she didn't have wind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A stranger smiled at me yesterday, she made my day

Sure she didn't have wind

Ouch...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A stranger smiled at me yesterday, she made my day

Sure she didn't have wind

Ouch..."

Sorry the thread was getting to serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A stranger smiled at me yesterday, she made my day

Sure she didn't have wind

Ouch...

Sorry the thread was getting to serious "

TheTiG smiles at Violet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But yea, I like it when others smile at me too

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"I'm always saying hello and smiling at people when I'm out and about! It just makes the world a nice place for a minute or two!

Can't understand why your so bothered by the fact that a few strangers have bid you a good day! "

always smile and talk to people as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A stranger smiled at me yesterday, she made my day

Sure she didn't have wind

Ouch...

Sorry the thread was getting to serious

TheTiG smiles at Violet

I reply with giving u the V lol xxx

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"It just happened again. What the hell!

Smile back!

One guy asked me my name and where I work... It's kinda creepy!"

Did you ever think the guy was just interested in you? Regardless of how YOU feel you looked at the moment?

Come on now I'm sure you've been chatted up before really don't see the big deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's too late for that

You've thrown yourself to the wolves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this all escalated quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's too late for that

You've thrown yourself to the wolves "

Phah! I do love a good knees up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well this all escalated quickly."

Time to de-escalate.........

Who fancies a shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well this all escalated quickly.

Time to de-escalate.........

Who fancies a shag?

Me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well this all escalated quickly.

Time to de-escalate.........

Who fancies a shag?

Well, as you asked nicely....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who has the Hob-Nobs this time??!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A stranger smiled at me yesterday, she made my day

Sure she didn't have wind

Ouch...

Sorry the thread was getting to serious

TheTiG smiles at Violet

I reply with giving u the V lol xxx"

V...???

And I don't even work at McDonald's

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"Well this all escalated quickly.

Time to de-escalate.........

Who fancies a shag?

go on then just because you ask so nicely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But yea, I like it when others smile at me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well this all escalated quickly.

Time to de-escalate.........

Who fancies a shag?

Yeah why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well this all escalated quickly.

Time to de-escalate.........

Who fancies a shag?

Yeah why not

Sausage thumbs wrong smiley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well this all escalated quickly.

Time to de-escalate.........

Who fancies a shag?

Yeah why not

One day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it when girls smile at me, or when they give you the cheeky eye even with their bf on their side. Like my grandma used to say 'make an effort even if you go to the corner shop, you never know who you'll bump into'

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

There was a thread recently from a young chap. He posted about the woman smiling at him at the petrol station and it making his day.

I put up my smiling avatar because of that thread.

I regularly just start chatting to people. I even ended up with shoes (well, my FitFlops) as a result of a random conversation on the train back from Newcastle.

The four men on a blokes night out had me asking what they were eating when I was in a restaurant (much to the embarrassment of my friend) as their food looked good.

OP, if you don't want to chat to them then just smile and say that you are just having a quiet moment and would appreciate some time with your thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In response to pretty much everyone.. no I've never been chatted up before. I don't mind when people smile and say hi in passing but it was the fact that they started talking to me when there was no reason to. Fair enough if they asked for a lighter then sat on the bench for a fag.. or if they made a comment because we were both sitting alone... But the first one walked past me then turned around and randomly asked me if I was busy, where I work etc... The second guy walked straight up to me and said hi and asked how I was as if I knew him (i don't know any black guys well enough to randomly chat to, I'd know if i knew him) ... The third guy stopped walking, tipped his hat at me and said 'good day' which was strange but kinda sweet.

My point is, its never happened before then it happens 3 times in 1 hour...!

Do you not see how weird that is?

And to whoever asked... Yes I do fancy a shag! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often smile at people and say hi, it makes me feel good, though often makes them nervous.

The other thing I do is give away spare flowers, I frequently require a solitary rose , and it's often easier to buy a bunch take the one I want then give the rest to a random stranger... funny how women under about 50 seem very nervous about taking them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're a pretty girl....embrace it!

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By *ittykate84Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

I love when random people say hi... I used to walk home in the very early hours (like 5am) after nights out and where i lived if others passed you from nights out you would have a chuckle about it.. Old men walking dogs would usually say 'mornin young 'un' which was always sweet i thought

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