FabSwingers.com forum: improve my chances

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been on here on and off you years but I get very little response from those I message. Suggestions please fir improving my chances or is it time to hang up my boxers for good . Semi serious but all suggestions gratefully received

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Paul

To be fair, I don't see much wrong with your profile really, and you seem to be getting meets, so obviously something's working.

There's so many things going against us single guys that it really is just a case of being patient and not getting down about any lack of activity.

There's just too many of us compared to the ladies - and so, they can afford to be fussy.

Without wishing to seem at all ageist, I would wonder if your age bay be playing a small factor. Of course there's absolutely nothing wrong with having a good time in your 60's, 70's or even 80's, but with that said, a lot of younger guys are also finding difficulty because many see them as too young.

Of course, there are plenty of Women who prefer the more senior gentleman - even some that are still in their 20's, so it really is a mixed bag.

I had an e-mail from a 66 year old woman the other day

My advice. Keep doing what you're doing, because, from the number of veri's you have, it's obviously working.

Above all. Enjoy and have fun!!!

By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"I have been on here on and off you years but I get very little response from those I message. Suggestions please fir improving my chances or is it time to hang up my boxers for good . Semi serious but all suggestions gratefully received

In the time i've been on here i've seen quite a few young womens profiles (early 20's) that specifically have stated they are looking for older guys aged 50 plus. If you keep an eye out for those women then try your luck with them, you never know?