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By *awklord69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bridgnorth

Dear all fans of phone sex, after having no success with phone sex with women on fab whatsoever, in the last month I tried a website a couple of times and found a very sexy voice at the end of the line who helped bring me to a fabulous and satisfying orgasmic conclusion to the night :o) I know that the women on the websites are probably doing the housework or watching TV whilst they are talking and not masturbating themselves whilst I am but why is it so hard to find phone sex on a fabswinging site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your phone bill obviously has not landed on the doormat yet then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because people are here to swing not give you free cheap thrills. Also it means giving out there number to you.

I'm guessing the site you mention charges per minute and also sell sex and cams.... That's the big difference

Sites like that are to give you and only u pleasure..

Fab is to give each other pleasure

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By *awklord69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bridgnorth

I agree but phone sex is one of the swinging options/preferences. I've had some great phone sex in the past but not for years. I currently have a fuck buddy, which is great, and go to swinging clubs but still want to have phone sex as part of my varied lifestyle so why can't I find it on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because people are here to swing not give you free cheap thrills. Also it means giving out there number to you.

Fab is to give each other pleasure "

what she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dear all fans of phone sex, after having no success with phone sex with women on fab whatsoever, in the last month I tried a website a couple of times and found a very sexy voice at the end of the line who helped bring me to a fabulous and satisfying orgasmic conclusion to the night :o) I know that the women on the websites are probably doing the housework or watching TV whilst they are talking and not masturbating themselves whilst I am but why is it so hard to find phone sex on a fabswinging site?"

You should have watched Phone Sex Secrets last week. One woman was painting her kitchen wall while the guy paying for the call was wanking. She pretended to have a orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why phone sex is a "swinging" option. Swinging by my definition involves meeting people. Not being a sad winker listening to a con. At least you realise these women on the end of chat lines and big phone bills are probably doing housework at same time....

I knew a woman who did this. While she was cooking, helping kids with homework, shopping....just getting on with life.

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By *awklord69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bridgnorth

But not all people can, or want to, meet people on here, which is why phone sex is an option...

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"But not all people can, or want to, meet people on here, which is why phone sex is an option..."
Maybe there lies your problem, when this subject has popped up before I seem to recall quite a few ladies saying they wouldn't participate with strangers, only with someone they knew.

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By *awklord69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bridgnorth

Point taken but there is a difference between phone sex with a stranger and a friend. One one hand it can be more exciting with stranger (especially if you will never meet!) but on the other it can be very sexy having mutual masturbation with someone you know at the end of the line...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried phone sex once , didn't work cos vibrate wasn't fast enough... Sorry I will get my coat

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Point taken but there is a difference between phone sex with a stranger and a friend. One one hand it can be more exciting with stranger (especially if you will never meet!) but on the other it can be very sexy having mutual masturbation with someone you know at the end of the line..."
You list other things as your interests, maybe from those a phone friend will emerge?

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines


"I tried phone sex once , didn't work cos vibrate wasn't fast enough... Sorry I will get my coat "

Me too - didn't work for me either as she had too many hang ups

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By *awklord69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bridgnorth

LOL Moodymoo, I can see that wouldn't work but you can try your fav vibrator that does work oh so well for you whilst you are talking to the guy (or gal) on the other end of the phone be it a friend or an anonymous caller!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tried phone sex once , didn't work cos vibrate wasn't fast enough... Sorry I will get my coat

Me too - didn't work for me either as she had too many hang ups"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tried phone sex once , didn't work cos vibrate wasn't fast enough... Sorry I will get my coat

Me too - didn't work for me either as she had too many hang ups

"

Oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree but phone sex is one of the swinging options/preferences. I've had some great phone sex in the past but not for years. I currently have a fuck buddy, which is great, and go to swinging clubs but still want to have phone sex as part of my varied lifestyle so why can't I find it on here?"

Perhaps people prefer cam these days. Lots of people have different fetishes. Good luck.

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By *awklord69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bridgnorth

So should 'Cam Sex' be an option on Fab? I'd be up for that as well as fun on the phone.. part of the diversity of sexual life ;o)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So should 'Cam Sex' be an option on Fab? I'd be up for that as well as fun on the phone.. part of the diversity of sexual life ;o)"

it is, just go into chat, not of interest to me so don't know if it is popular or not, but its there

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Phone sex is just for iPhone lovers surely. Whilst some on here cam, remote sex isn't what most of us are looking for imo.

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By *awklord69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bridgnorth

iphone no... just standard BT landline please or mobile as a last resort if it has to irradiate our brains to unknown consequences!!!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I don't understand the commercial 'fonesex' numbers, tome they are not phone sex at all - that requires that you get into somebodys head, and whilst I have had quite a bit of it over the years, its not something you can just 'find'...it has to grow out of something....

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I don't need to talk to a stranger in order to masturbate and I find nothing thrilling about it.

In fact it can be an unwanted distraction talking to someone who doesn't know me, or what works for me, when I could be focusing on myself.

I get no pleasure from getting a stranger off that way, so there's nothing at all in it for me.

Cyber sex and watching strangers wank rate as equally dull.

I'm here for real-life touchy feely stuff. If I want to masturbate, my imagination is plenty stimulating for me.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I don't need to talk to a stranger in order to masturbate and I find nothing thrilling about it.

In fact it can be an unwanted distraction talking to someone who doesn't know me, or what works for me, when I could be focusing on myself.

I get no pleasure from getting a stranger off that way, so there's nothing at all in it for me.

Cyber sex and watching strangers wank rate as equally dull.

I'm here for real-life touchy feely stuff. If I want to masturbate, my imagination is plenty stimulating for me."

I'm not here for cybersex, although I have indulged for years (both voice and text) - there are other places for that.

Its entirely different to physical sex, although phonesex does have similar aspects, I can't compare one to the other in my head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phone sex is boring lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Texting and 'phone sex with someone I have that sort of connection with is different to wank chat with a total stranger.

The former can be fun; the latter just does nothing for me at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have great phone sex with a woman off here, then she went off and got engaged

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By *awklord69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bridgnorth

remember fab folk, we are all different, unique and valid as individuals and what works for each of us isn't the same as everyone else... phone sex, cam sex, cyber sex, real sex happens whether we like it or participate in it or not but not everyone has a choice in the sex that they would like to share for various reasons such as age, beauty (or not),disability, illness, religion, shyness etc... each to their own as long as its between consenting adults :o) enjoy the orgasm however it comes to pass :o) x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"remember fab folk, we are all different, unique and valid as individuals and what works for each of us isn't the same as everyone else... phone sex, cam sex, cyber sex, real sex happens whether we like it or participate in it or not but not everyone has a choice in the sex that they would like to share for various reasons such as age, beauty (or not),disability, illness, religion, shyness etc... each to their own as long as its between consenting adults :o) enjoy the orgasm however it comes to pass :o) x"

You asked why it's difficult for you to find 'phone sex here. People are answering you, not being judgemental about what you're looking for. You're free to look for whatever you like here, the same as the rest of us.

You had to expect, surely, that if you find it hard to get here, there would be some people saying it's not their thing for whatever reason?

However, just as it's fine to be into 'phone sex or other sorts of consensual sex, it's also ok not to be into it. There's nothing at all wrong with saying, "that does nothing for me".

It seems to be something few women here enjoy with strangers. Perhaps if you're struggling, you should work on cultivating some friendships first, or seek somewhere where more women are looking for the same as you?

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"remember fab folk, we are all different, unique and valid as individuals and what works for each of us isn't the same as everyone else... phone sex, cam sex, cyber sex, real sex happens whether we like it or participate in it or not but not everyone has a choice in the sex that they would like to share for various reasons such as age, beauty (or not),disability, illness, religion, shyness etc... each to their own as long as its between consenting adults :o) enjoy the orgasm however it comes to pass :o) x"

This is totally not the place to find phonesex. I could suggest places, but I think you and I have different ideas of what phonesex entails.

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By *ateshead dudeMan
over a year ago

durham

I wouldn't mind trying phonesex with a stranger , could say anything , let yourself go & say things you maybe might feel uncomfortable with saying to someone u know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They want real meets and a good time, not a bloke wanking on the end of the phone.

Her

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've tried it with an ex and found it really hard not to go off on all sorts of tangents and describe various imaginary events occurring

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