FabSwingers.com forum: what to do.....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So we have been on here as a couple over three years so this is by means a look at me thread.

I just wanted to get other peoples opinion. Ever since having our son 8 months ago we have managed to meet once. It was a great meet but I don't know when or if I can meet again due to babysitter etc...

Silk can and does meet alone with my blessing but recently I have found I'm really lacking confidence about the way I look. So many of our contacts are quite happy to meet him alone which is great but recently I have felt almost like a spare part. I hasten to add not by him he trys his best to reassure me.

I don't know if this is just a blip in the way I feel about myself or whether I'm just not as attractive as I was before my son having put on a little weight and have a big scar from my c-section.

Sorry for the long post.

MissD

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it is lovely to read that he is loving and supporting you, maybe just take your time as a couple to yourselves and then at some point in the future meet again.

Maybe him meeting on his own is niggling a little bit and as for the scar, hey it's the sign of a great addition to your life. Many will feel the same.

good luck to all 3 of you

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

From the pics, you look fine. You could try going to a club with another girl and having a good night whilst he looks after your young one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Most of the pics apart from from the new play ones are of me before having my son. I'm not a whole lot bigger but just lacking a bit of confidence at the moment. I don't really have any single fem friends in here to go with but I can work on that.

Thank you for taking the time to reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

it is lovely to read that he is loving and supporting you, maybe just take your time as a couple to yourselves and then at some point in the future meet again.

Maybe him meeting on his own is niggling a little bit and as for the scar, hey it's the sign of a great addition to your life. Many will feel the same.

good luck to all 3 of you

Thank you I was thinking of taking time out if I'm honest. As when we receive messages I do get frustrated as I am never sure when or if I can ever meet x

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