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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

So it seems that only 1 in 10 who have done the ice bucket challenge have actually donated. Now, I know that many on here have before the outrage begins. I'm not talking about the forums. But as I've suspected for lots of people it's been simply a means to show off on social media.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it seems that only 1 in 10 who have done the ice bucket challenge have actually donated. Now, I know that many on here have before the outrage begins. I'm not talking about the forums. But as I've suspected for lots of people it's been simply a means to show off on social media. "

that is exactly the reason I didn't do it when nominated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One guy I know that did it didn't even know it was for a charity. He just thought it was the latest "fad"

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"One guy I know that did it didn't even know it was for a charity. He just thought it was the latest "fad""

Exactly. They just didn't get the message.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Just the sheep mentality and look at me culture.

Then the oneupmanship took over.

Never been nominated because my friends know me and know I would tell em to fuck off...on vid on FB.

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One guy I know that did it didn't even know it was for a charity. He just thought it was the latest "fad""

So did my step kids when school friends nominated them on facebook. I told them unless they were prepared to donate their pocket money they were not doing it. They didnt..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Agree yes

I did it and donated fiver to Macmillan which I also posted on Facebook too

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By *im1978Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

We refused to partake because a bucket of water is more than some people in parts of the world get in a week!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really annoying isn't it. I'm not a fan of celebrity culture either, but in the paper not so long ago it was showing that there were a few who didn't even realise it was for charity, which was frustrating - might explain some of the copycat behaviour.

I know it raised a good amount of money for a variety of charities, so I suppose it's something to be appreciative of. Just annoying because it could be so much more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God forbid that some folk should get caught up in a "craze" for a bit of fun,without knowing why the craze started in the first place.ignorance is bliss,so they say.

Perhaps all you great folk could show them the error of their ways,and spread the word.

Not everyone is as perfect as fab members

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby


"God forbid that some folk should get caught up in a "craze" for a bit of fun,without knowing why the craze started in the first place.ignorance is bliss,so they say.

Perhaps all you great folk could show them the error of their ways,and spread the word.

Not everyone is as perfect as fab members "

I was thinking the same thing. So what if some people are not awear pits a charity event who made you lot the killjoy police! Now put your hands in your pockets and make a donation to comic relief, at least they like a laugh trying to raise cash.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The funniest thing was the people in California taking part when the state was in the worst drought it's ever seen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God forbid that some folk should get caught up in a "craze" for a bit of fun,without knowing why the craze started in the first place.ignorance is bliss,so they say.

Perhaps all you great folk could show them the error of their ways,and spread the word.

Not everyone is as perfect as fab members

I was thinking the same thing. So what if some people are not awear pits a charity event who made you lot the killjoy police! Now put your hands in your pockets and make a donation to comic relief, at least they like a laugh trying to raise cash. "

No killjoy police here

Just know how important it is for charities, both the awareness and donations - I agree that 10% giving and learning is better than 0%, I think it's just a shame there's not more out there.

Comic relief always get money from me too, but thanks for the encouragement

Anyway, we've all got good intentions and hopes I'm sure...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just the sheep mentality and look at me culture.

Then the oneupmanship took over.

Never been nominated because my friends know me and know I would tell em to fuck off...on vid on FB.

Just saying "

This for me too

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"God forbid that some folk should get caught up in a "craze" for a bit of fun,without knowing why the craze started in the first place.ignorance is bliss,so they say.

Perhaps all you great folk could show them the error of their ways,and spread the word.

Not everyone is as perfect as fab members

I was thinking the same thing. So what if some people are not awear pits a charity event who made you lot the killjoy police! Now put your hands in your pockets and make a donation to comic relief, at least they like a laugh trying to raise cash. "

Sorry but as far as I'm concerned if they didn't know why they felt the sudden urge to tip a bucket of iced water over their heads then what's the point?

Because all their 'friends' we're doing it.

Although I doubt the 'throw yourself of a cliff but not for charity' challenge wouldn't be quite so successful - but I could be wrong.

I've donated. Not because I've done it. Not because I refused a challenge. (It would have to have been made in person as I don't do bookface!). But because I understand the cause behind it.

The 9/10 have just for it because they didn't want to feel left out. No other reason.

But at least it's raised awareness with some and boosted the charity coffers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did it for both charities and posted both my donations on facebook. But i know a lot of people that did the challenge as a mere look at me. My daughter refused to do ger challenge and donated the £10 forfiet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm particularly fond of all the people that mention the frivolous use of water and how some people in the world don't have access to water.

There are plenty of ways on a daily basis that the average person uses more water than they should for some tasks, or use it for means that someone without water may consider frivolous. There's also other forms of wastage such as food, luxury items that use resources that can be used for other things. Are we really to believe that they're above all of that?!

To the people that did donate, it was a fantastic campaign that raised money for charities that wouldn't have received donations had it not been for this, and being just water and ice, meant a lot of people could take part.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"One guy I know that did it didn't even know it was for a charity. He just thought it was the latest "fad"

Exactly. They just didn't get the message. "

But others did get the message. It was also to raise awareness of MND/ALS. Most people didn't even know what the condition was or how people suffered.

Even things like race for life struggle to get people's sponsorship back from them. I got so many emails about it when I did mine even though all my fundraising was done online!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I Agree yes

I did it and donated fiver to Macmillan which I also posted on Facebook too"

Why did you donate to macmillan when it was for motor neuron disease?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the statistics are out. A lot of people donated to other organisations. I work for a hospice a lot of people donated to us. We care for people with MND as well as lots of other debilitating diseases

At the end of the day it got a lot of awareness out there about the disease and people will notice the MND charity in future and support it where as in the past they wouldn't of had a clue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I Agree yes

I did it and donated fiver to Macmillan which I also posted on Facebook too

Why did you donate to macmillan when it was for motor neuron disease? "

There was another ice bucket challenge fot macmillan. I did this one too. And it was on their official website too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the statistics are out. A lot of people donated to other organisations. I work for a hospice a lot of people donated to us. We care for people with MND as well as lots of other debilitating diseases

At the end of the day it got a lot of awareness out there about the disease and people will notice the MND charity in future and support it where as in the past they wouldn't of had a clue "

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I did and posted the screen shot on my phone just to show I had donated but agree that the 1 in 10 could well be right as you don't see the proof very often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nevermind.

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By *xpresMan
over a year ago

Elland


"So it seems that only 1 in 10 who have done the ice bucket challenge have actually donated. Now, I know that many on here have before the outrage begins. I'm not talking about the forums. But as I've suspected for lots of people it's been simply a means to show off on social media.

that is exactly the reason I didn't do it when nominated"

me neither

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


". But as I've suspected for lots of people it's been simply a means to show off on social media. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my mates did it and raised £50 for a local disabled centre for kids

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

It was always going to be like that ...but if even a fraction of those who participated in the challenge donated then it was worth it ...quite a few charities benefited considerably so its was all good in my book ....what saddens me is the people that pick holes in these things only looking for the bad in folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I donate to charity monthly,each month different charities are chosen to receive donations or equipment. I'm not chucking a bucket of iced water over my head for any reason although some I saw were quite funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People also happily watch children in need, sport relief etc etc and dont donate and thats life as sad as it is.

Just look at it from another adpect that a lot of people have donated and charities have benefited which they would not have if it was started.

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"God forbid that some folk should get caught up in a "craze" for a bit of fun,without knowing why the craze started in the first place.ignorance is bliss,so they say.

Perhaps all you great folk could show them the error of their ways,and spread the word.

Not everyone is as perfect as fab members

I was thinking the same thing. So what if some people are not awear pits a charity event who made you lot the killjoy police! Now put your hands in your pockets and make a donation to comic relief, at least they like a laugh trying to raise cash. "

I already donate to 2 charities every month. I just don't need to make a song and dance about it.

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By *heOwlMan
over a year ago

Altrincham


"God forbid that some folk should get caught up in a "craze" for a bit of fun,without knowing why the craze started in the first place.ignorance is bliss,so they say.

Perhaps all you great folk could show them the error of their ways,and spread the word.

Not everyone is as perfect as fab members

I was thinking the same thing. So what if some people are not awear pits a charity event who made you lot the killjoy police! Now put your hands in your pockets and make a donation to comic relief, at least they like a laugh trying to raise cash.

I already donate to 2 charities every month. I just don't need to make a song and dance about it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though my lovely sister nominated me I didn't do it. But I did donate

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"People also happily watch children in need, sport relief etc etc and dont donate and thats life as sad as it is.

Just look at it from another adpect that a lot of people have donated and charities have benefited which they would not have if it was started."

The thing is that I am not against giving neglected causes a higher profile. That is highly commendable.

It's the 'sheep' mentality and the 'look at me' attitude which was mentioned above which is rather off-putting. And lives lived through social media. Or the attitude of 'look how caring I am, I 'liked' this picture/threw a bucket of ice water over myself. Therefore, I am a worthy person'.

There are so many out there who simply do - they work tirelessly with charities and never ask for anything, including kudos, as any reward. For example, the volunteers at the hospice my mother was in - one of whom was the wife of the antique expert who's name I cannot remember - Dickinson I think. They give of their time and no one knows anything about them.

Though I am not religious, I like what it says in the Bible: "So when you give to the needy, do not announce it with trumpets ... to be honored by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full."

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm still due to do an ice cube challenge on Friday.

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