FabSwingers.com forum: Control Freak?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been called one by three different people, so what exactly defines a control freak?

I am not bossy, dont think i am, i am opinionated i hold my hand up to that, i dont intend to force my rule on anyone, do i like things to go my way? Yeah i do, because my way is what i am comfortable with.

Do i hate not being able to control certain elements of life hell yes

Ok maybe i am one i really dont know hmm total mind fuck

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I have been called one by three different people, so what exactly defines a control freak?

Do i hate not being able to control certain elements of life hell yes

Ok maybe i am one i really dont know hmm total mind fuck "
You like to be in control at all times? Sounds like you are....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been called one by three different people, so what exactly defines a control freak?

Do i hate not being able to control certain elements of life hell yes

Ok maybe i am one i really dont know hmm total mind fuck "

The simple answer to that can be answered by a yes or no to a single question.

The question is:- Would you let a woman drive you and willingly sit in the front passenger seat while you are sober?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been called one by three different people, so what exactly defines a control freak?

Do i hate not being able to control certain elements of life hell yes

Ok maybe i am one i really dont know hmm total mind fuck

The simple answer to that can be answered by a yes or no to a single question.

The question is:- Would you let a woman drive you and willingly sit in the front passenger seat while you are sober?"

well i think if you said that to me you woudnt get the option mr - you can walk lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been called one by three different people, so what exactly defines a control freak?

Do i hate not being able to control certain elements of life hell yes

Ok maybe i am one i really dont know hmm total mind fuck

The simple answer to that can be answered by a yes or no to a single question.

The question is:- Would you let a woman drive you and willingly sit in the front passenger seat while you are sober?

well i think if you said that to me you woudnt get the option mr - you can walk lol "

Walking is good! I have seen women close up driving in Tescos

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I like to be in control of my life, but enforcing any sort of control on anyone else is totally out the equation.

In a sexual situation however, I can be freaky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been called one by three different people, so what exactly defines a control freak?

Do i hate not being able to control certain elements of life hell yes

Ok maybe i am one i really dont know hmm total mind fuck "

Seriously spend just 24hrs with me (Mr) you will realise your not that bad I'm unbearable!!!! I genuinely feel really bad for J and A LOT of admiration for her, her love for me must be completely unrivalled!!! I'm trying to control it but it's really hard being a control freak at this level makes you feel so bad!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If you expect others and systems to disproportionately change and adapt to your largely unflinching expectations and demands, then maybe you could question how much you manipulate the world to remain in control. People would usually expect others to apply give and take, be most willing to set aside their need to be in control, to display sensitivity and respect for how one's behavior is impacting on associates. You've asked about this so I'm assuming you already know the deal, and feel uncomfortable that you may have to relinquish some control in order to allow others to breathe and be comfortable with you. It's your call. What's most important - control or relationships and others comfort.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm a total control freak.

I'm totally cool with that.

As are the people in my life because they love me and my quirks.

I like who I am. I think that's half the battle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The question is:- Would you let a woman drive you and willingly sit in the front passenger seat while you are sober?

well i think if you said that to me you woudnt get the option mr - you can walk lol

Walking is good! I have seen women close up driving in Tescos

What you on about? Men are far worse at controlling their trollies !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think its more down to trust then control though

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I'm a very laid-back person normally.

Now give me a sensuous lady an a sexual situation and see the change......

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