FabSwingers.com forum: Age limits.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A conundrum has leapt to my mind.

I like many people have the broad brush 18-99 age range listed. Now this could be classed as lazy but actually means I find people as I take them.

For the record I understand that people have their own choices to make, and in reality I don't think I would be interested in an 18 yr old and possibly not someone as young as 97.

My conundrum is, do people ever consider upping they're age range by a year, as they personally age a year?

Conversely if someone has found the elixir to eternal youth, have you lowered your age limits.

Apologies for being long winded, I'm just wondering.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I've asked this question before. Don't recall anyone saying they did - but as we all get older so do those we've met before, might want to meet and even those we've never noticed yet.

I guess if we're still here in 20 years time we'll up our limits. But as there's a few years between us anyway we've plenty of scope to be flexible.

Like everything - it's just another preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here I have stated preferences that are lower than the age of my husband purely because I was getting messages from men in their '40s' that looked older than my Dad

Out in the real world I never ask peoples ages and just chat to who I find attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm waiting to hit 30. Seems to be the magical age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm waiting to hit 30. Seems to be the magical age.

Make the most of the 5 year window

35 and you'll be deemed as past it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do though not every year and only if I remember

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When you get to my age though, you can take advantage of SAGA holidays, Stenna stairlifts and get a free pen with your life insurance quote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as my friend thought it'd be funny to alter it for me, my age is 96 and now I can't change it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well as my friend thought it'd be funny to alter it for me, my age is 96 and now I can't change it!

Excellent you're still under my 97 limit

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Through the day I work with women all ages but I prefer ladies over 40 upwards, saying this I go to clubs with my wife & we chat to people all ages.

It depends on the person, the time & how mature they are for whatever age lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well as my friend thought it'd be funny to alter it for me, my age is 96 and now I can't change it!

You look fabulous for your age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The big problem that I have is that I don't want to meet men under 40 - but I love women of any age...

So if I drop my profile age limits to welcome younger women, I get bombarded with "Wot u up 2" messages from immature boys....

Aaaaaargggghhhh!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The big problem that I have is that I don't want to meet men under 40 - but I love women of any age...

So if I drop my profile age limits to welcome younger women, I get bombarded with "Wot u up 2" messages from immature boys....

Aaaaaargggghhhh!!!!

Wot u up 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've set our age range to 19-59. This doesn't mean we'd automatically jump in bed with either hi or lo... it just means we don't want to filter them out

We would've left it at 18-99 but, to be honest, it just sounds a bit desperate lol

As for the whole aging thing. I saw a sexy erotica book in a shop ages ago which I thought was really interesting but way over priced. Just a few weeks ago I finally spotted it for a good price and ordered it (women note... yes I'm a persistent bugger when I set my mind to it

). It arrived yesterday... opened it up... hmmm... all the girls seem just a little toooo young lol

... Just a little story about how tastes age as you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I constantly change my age ranges. Makes life more interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number it doesn't bother me i just luv meeting and making new friends can talk to any age group its all a number

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I constantly change my age ranges. Makes life more interesting "

You'd make my life more interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am 37 but look younger,

I don't get Women my age or older trying to chat me up,

And I don't approach Women in their 20s as I feel I have to tell them my age straight away as I don't want them to think am a dirty old man

Not sure if that's a conundrum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our age limits aren't set in stone upper limits, we have just set them because we were getting messages from people in there 50's and 60's which is old enough to be Mrs l's parent, our lower limit is set we wouldn't go younger than 21

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