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Holiday abroad on your own

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well iv booked my holiday. Going to Morrocco for 5days next summer on my own. Friends and family think im silly for doing this, asking wont i be lonely. I dont think so. 5days of peace and quiet and lots of sunshine. What is your _iew of single people going away on their own?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have pre booked accommodation you should be fine my mum has been all over on her own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you have pre booked accommodation you should be fine my mum has been all over on her own. "

Yes iv booked hotel through a friend who always uses it. Just got my flights to sort out

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By *iuliettaWoman
over a year ago

DEVIZES

I used to take a couple of trips alone each year anyway but since I have been widowed I have been to Hawaii and to Alaska on my own and had a great time pottering about looking at the sights!

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By *iuliettaWoman
over a year ago

DEVIZES


"If you have pre booked accommodation you should be fine my mum has been all over on her own.

Yes iv booked hotel through a friend who always uses it. Just got my flights to sort out"

BA sale on now!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanku will have a look

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

New Cross

God, I would love to have a holiday by myself somewhere nice and hot. Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it's a good thing....get out there and enjoy it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it and enjoyed it also met some lovely people to x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"God, I would love to have a holiday by myself somewhere nice and hot. Have fun. "

Thanku. My first holiday in 13yrs. I think iv earned it. Need a break from caring for my mum. What better break than a few days away in the sun. Albeit next year

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Great idea. Do exactly what YOU want to do WHEN you want to do it or just do nothing. Canny whack it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've done it and enjoyed it also met some lovely people to x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go 5 or 6 times a year on my own but just for a few days at a time, love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go 5 or 6 times a year on my own but just for a few days at a time, love it"

I think i will hopefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes a day or so to unwind and realise you don't have to be anywhere or do anything if you don't want to. Just be careful how much you drink if you do, I tend to drink faster on my own without realising it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Til I stand up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like going to a restaurant alone or going to the cinema alone... some people seem to think it's weird. I think a holiday alone (did one myself many moons ago) can be a truly amazing experience. People are too quick to shelter behind friends or loved ones... when life is out there to be explored by yourself if you can pluck up the courage to go solo.

Have fun... and if you make it to Marrakesh you'll love the bazaar there... totally bonkers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's like going to a restaurant alone or going to the cinema alone... some people seem to think it's weird. I think a holiday alone (did one myself many moons ago) can be a truly amazing experience. People are too quick to shelter behind friends or loved ones... when life is out there to be explored by yourself if you can pluck up the courage to go solo.

Have fun... and if you make it to Marrakesh you'll love the bazaar there... totally bonkers "

Took a while to decide if i wanted to do it or not. Friends have asked me to go to spain with them but dont fancy a stroppy teenager and a naughty nine year old. Been there done that with my own daughter. I shall be visiting the bazzar looking forward to haggling

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

done it twice lorret de mar and lake como both with shearings as they include trips in the price so you have plenty to do met some really nice people both times but as ive now got a camper for me and my pals im gadding off out and about all the time .

go where i want do what i want cant beat it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Takes a day or so to unwind and realise you don't have to be anywhere or do anything if you don't want to. Just be careful how much you drink if you do, I tend to drink faster on my own without realising it "

Right i shall bear that in mind although it doesnt take me long to finish a bottle of red on my own on an evening

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"done it twice lorret de mar and lake como both with shearings as they include trips in the price so you have plenty to do met some really nice people both times but as ive now got a camper for me and my pals im gadding off out and about all the time .

go where i want do what i want cant beat it "

Best way to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went backpacking alone, was great. You're not subject to anyone else's whims and you can easily meet people if you're feeling sociable. I met hundreds of people while I was away (for a year admittedly) - loads more than if I'd gone with a friend or partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well iv booked my holiday. Going to Morrocco for 5days next summer on my own. Friends and family think im silly for doing this, asking wont i be lonely. I dont think so. 5days of peace and quiet and lots of sunshine. What is your _iew of single people going away on their own?"

Let me know Pussy as I want to go as well. Life will pass you by if you don't go. Will be very liberating xxx

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

SEA

I went on my own for the first time this year and found it strangely nice - got time to myself and did whatever I wanted.

Also - believe me you will get company if you want it

I went with no expectations and a few books and had a great time - have fun you do deserve it

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

the only objection i have to going on holiday alone is the extra price you have to pay for single room supp can be £100 upwards and thats put me off going on hols abroad now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well iv booked my holiday. Going to Morrocco for 5days next summer on my own. Friends and family think im silly for doing this, asking wont i be lonely. I dont think so. 5days of peace and quiet and lots of sunshine. What is your _iew of single people going away on their own?

Let me know Pussy as I want to go as well. Life will pass you by if you don't go. Will be very liberating xxx "

I will do. Im a little nervous but im looking forward to it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"the only objection i have to going on holiday alone is the extra price you have to pay for single room supp can be £100 upwards and thats put me off going on hols abroad now "

I have a friend who has booked the hotel for me direct so cutting iut the surcharges so thats better for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I went on my own for the first time this year and found it strangely nice - got time to myself and did whatever I wanted.

Also - believe me you will get company if you want it

I went with no expectations and a few books and had a great time - have fun you do deserve it

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Hehe thats why iv picked morrocco. No only joking. But have been told i wont be short of attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to France and Italy on my own, I was nervous the first time , once I got there I was fine. People talk to you more if you're alone and I think the hotels look after you too. The best thing is doing what you want, when you want, eating where you choose and no one to answer to! Ah bliss ! Now you've got me thinking of booking something ! Morocco is on my "to do" list. Can we have a full trip advisor report when you've been please?

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

as a female some of these big cities can be overwhelming i visited Barcelona last year and Milan this year but saw plenty of local police around inc 2 in Milan who were dressed very very smartly

2 dark tall Italian men dressed in uniform what more can a girl wish for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been to France and Italy on my own, I was nervous the first time , once I got there I was fine. People talk to you more if you're alone and I think the hotels look after you too. The best thing is doing what you want, when you want, eating where you choose and no one to answer to! Ah bliss ! Now you've got me thinking of booking something ! Morocco is on my "to do" list. Can we have a full trip advisor report when you've been please? "

Of course. Its always been on my to do list to. Iv done australia and the caribbean. So thought righ now morrocco

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

Went to Ibiza on my own a couple years ago, had a great time, visited some nudist beaches during the daytime, (all over tan) then of out clubbing or down to the swingers club on the evening/night time. Had such a good time, would really love to go again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Went to Ibiza on my own a couple years ago, had a great time, visited some nudist beaches during the daytime, (all over tan) then of out clubbing or down to the swingers club on the evening/night time. Had such a good time, would really love to go again. "

Sounds like you had perfect holiday. I doubt i shall find a swungers club. Maybe if i lose a bit more fat and find a secluded nudist beach i may be brave and get an all over tan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always far more adventures to be had

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always far more adventures to be had"

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By *uggarbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I've done alot of travel all over the world by myself. Never had any problems.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive been going on holiday alone for donkeys years now and I prefer it to going away with other people.

I find that always meet loads more people when Im on my own - sometimes the problem is convincing other people that Im absolutely fine and dont really want to join them for dinner/sit with them on the beach/spend a day sightseeing with them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to Switzerland on my own as a 24 year old. I wanted do something different than going on the usual mates holidays. All my friends thought I was mad but I loved it. I then went to Singapore and Oz on my own the following year.

You can please yourself, its bliss!

I will holiday alone again when my son is older too.

Enjoy, you will have a fantastic time x

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I'm going to Iceland (the country, not the freezer shop) on my own in December. To be fair, it's an escorted tour so I won't be totally solo but it'll be a bunch of strangers...did the same a few years back with Peru - made friends then, hopefully I'll do the same in December

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm abroad alone atm on my way to Sydney - life is tough for us students but a couple weeks till term starts so great to relax. Thinking of buying a lovely new dildo before my flight tonight, as it's over twelve hours so need to be entertained. Traveling alone is a great chance to unwind and find local like minded souls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not been abroad alone but I can imagine it's fine. Sure it's easy to meet people if you're the right kind of person, and you have the benefit of going to the places and doing exactly what you want to do.

Have fun!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think 5 days is a perfect length of time, I have done that and it's great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How excieding I would love some time out just me and hope you have a great time sun sand myself and I sounds amazing x

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Have a lovely time,but watch out for the local blokes they all seem to think English women are easy meat,just keep an eye on them,but if that's what you want you won't be lonely for long,have fun,don't forget you will need transport from and to the airport when you get there,have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy it.

I used to love my little 'me' retreats.

Always a long weekend with nothing to worry about, nobody to worry about, just days of walking, sleeping, eating, drinking, reading & generally doing what I want, when I want.

I was always surprised at just how comfortable I was with my own company and just how much I needed the time to be me, not the son, the partner, the boss ... just me !

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I've travelled alone for years. Last trip was a solo drive to Krakow. Love it. You can have a good time and please yourself. Go where you want and do what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a great week in Turkey alone .... and I would do it again ... go and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been abroad on my own numerous times, always had a great time, enjoy yourself and have fun, you have no one else to consider but yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I had the balls to holiday alone. When I'm away with work, I always dread eating breakfast/dinner alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to do a Shirley valentine

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I'd love to do a Shirley valentine "

Ticked that one off my bucket list a while ago - in Corfu. Yes it was a Greek bar owner. No, he didn't have his own boat, but his friend did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had a week in gran canaria on my own after i lost a partner - went to the same place we stayed at when he was taken ill - went to the beach every day alone and baked the body - made some friends around the complex and read a lot of books - cooked pasta and sauce for tea and drank bottles of the local supermarket wine - was a week to come to terms with stuff and get away from it all - scattered some ashes and was totally at peace with myself -

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

Go for it have gone on hols alone a few times,after first day is fun

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