FabSwingers.com forum: why don't women like bi men?

By *assii OP Woman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

i've noticed the majority of women don't seem to like bi men and i was curious as to why..

any that i've asked have always had rather silly reasons imo, like "cos its greedy"

so any thoughts on enlightening me?

tale from any relationship point of view, casual or serious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choice,just as you have the choice to meet smokers,or not as in your case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a homophobic thing, or just personal choice. Who knows, probably differs on case by case basis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a homophobic thing, or just personal choice. Who knows, probably differs on case by case basis

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We have met bi and straight men / couples, doesn't bother us at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I favour them

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

All the women I have sex with like bi men.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I favour them "

Me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love them. Some of my best meets have been with bi men

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"All the women I have sex with like bi men.

I think it can add a little bit of extra excitement to a meet.....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Never cared about sexual preference really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love em.. nothin like seein a man suck another off mmm

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By *assii OP Woman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

most people have a reason for preference, like i gave up smoking 7 years ago, so i prefer to not meet smokers now, especially as i don't let people smoke in my home.

i just wondered if anyone had a more explanatory reason than "its euw" or "its greedy"

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

They don't really do it for me personally. But it probably doesn't help that my husband is 100% straight. I have had fun bi men in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love them

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By *oody39Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells

I like marmite

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Each to there own! I'm bi and love it lol

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Each to there own! I'm bi and love it lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

All very encouraging....

and you sexy ladies are certainly doing it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really depends on the fella really. Pure and simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer bi men, I only do 3sums with bi men, if I meet 1 on 1 I still tend to go for bi guys as they are more sexually open to my likes

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I can't say I've noticed lasses not being interested to be honest. I find a lot are, but then I'm pretty oblivious to most things in life

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By *assii OP Woman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

i haven't had a mmf yet...still hoping to tho

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

"I favour them "

Me too.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

just offering my own point of view..

before I joined fab, I would have never knowingly slept with a bi bloke because of the higher risk of STI's. (agree or disgaree, but that was my thoughts on it.) I have always loved to watch MM porn tho.

a few months on here reading forums etc, and i warmed to the idea, and came to the conclusion that, as long as i am as safe as I can be, what the hell... go for it!!

so my first sexual meet on here was with a bi guy, and now I am a total convert

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By *ozzy87Man
over a year ago

Crawley

I've noticed that it seems to be more couples with straight males that don't want bi guys.Mao I guess the straight male half is uncomfortable with that situation.

Once or twice I've come across it on a single femmes profile that's when it makes no sense to me. It makes no difference to a 1on1 meet.

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

Bi men... Mmmmmm

that is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met bi guys but prefer not to.. I don't want to see guys together in anyway... So that is why for me they are not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bi men... Mmmmmm

that is all "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed that it seems to be more couples with straight males that don't want bi guys.Mao I guess the straight male half is uncomfortable with that situation.

Once or twice I've come across it on a single femmes profile that's when it makes no sense to me. It makes no difference to a 1on1 meet."

Some women just do not like the idea of playing with guys who play with other guys, I have heard comments such as I like real men, I guess some just don't see bi men as the alpha male they desire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi please! Form an orderly que! Oh and black only...where are you all going? Lol. Doh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't give a scooby my ex was bi.

Paul however would prefer us not to meet bi guys- even in a couple situation.

He's not homophobic in the slightest has gay and bi friends however he just finds it makes him feel uncomfortable in a playing situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bi please! Form an orderly que! Oh and black only...where are you all going? Lol. Doh!

Ive never met a bi black guy, don't know if that's cause there aren't many or if they just avoid me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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"Bi please! Form an orderly que! Oh and black only...where are you all going? Lol. Doh!

Ive never met a bi black guy, don't know if that's cause there aren't many or if they just avoid me

We have! Such fun lol!

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By *assii OP Woman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

black guys are even less likely to come out as bi, due to the whole alpha thing lol

but i have met a couple

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I adore bi men...nowt better than sharing a cock in an MMF...there's even a certain bi guy in the Brighton area whose name rhymes with leave that I find pretty tasty and may even one day persuade me to travel to uncharted territories (I'm talking possibly even Hove!)

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Ive never met a bi black guy, don't know if that's cause there aren't many or if they just avoid me

There are a few hundred

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never met a bi black guy, don't know if that's cause there aren't many or if they just avoid me

There are a few hundred

I'm getting the feeling its just me

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By *assii OP Woman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"I'm getting the feeling its just me

put it in your status

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By *ozzy87Man
over a year ago

Crawley

"I've noticed that it seems to be more couples with straight males that don't want bi guys.Mao I guess the straight male half is uncomfortable with that situation.

Once or twice I've come across it on a single femmes profile that's when it makes no sense to me. It makes no difference to a 1on1 meet.

Some women just do not like the idea of playing with guys who play with other guys, I have heard comments such as I like real men, I guess some just don't see bi men as the alpha male they desire "

The whole alpha male thing normal just means I end up being top!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't really have a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are ok but a lot are really bitchy and it has put me off to some extent. There is always the promiscuity thing as well and the Oh well we will do safe sex next time attitude.

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By *lare-smith2014Couple
over a year ago

Southend

I noticed that most women on here prefer bi men...that's the whole point of being on here, trying new and exciting things,be adventurous, you only get one life and you are a long time dead..

Clare xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i've noticed the majority of women don't seem to like bi men and i was curious as to why..

Because parting is such sweet sorrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I favour them "

Me too, especially one in particular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi or straight, doesn't bother me as long as we both get what we want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bi men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to knowingly meet bi men because men with men doesn't float my boat sexually. That doesn't mean that I'm homophobic and I do get pissed off with having this accusation thrown at me.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I'm bi, got ginger hair, a few extra pounds, a few teeth missing and I wear glasses....

I don't care who doesn't want to meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do some don't like most things here its what's right for you. And some think bi men will go with who ever to get their rocks off and its a bigger risk if no condoms and little care taken ... Woman can sleep around just as much and don't care who or what sex so its a risky business swinging you cant get away from that .

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By *creaming69Couple
over a year ago

London/Yorshire/Home Counties

"Choice,just as you have the choice to meet smokers,or not as in your case"

obviously it's choice, derr the asker is asking what the reason behind the choice is.

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By *creaming69Couple
over a year ago

London/Yorshire/Home Counties

Lots of straight profiles contact me saying they are bi! !!!! So ladies you would have played with them without knowing. Straight guys are certainly very promiscuous as well. Comments like wanting a real man are sexist and play into patriarchy and the domination of women by men. Much more variety if the guys can play together in a bi 3some.

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

There choice ,

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I'm bi, got ginger hair, a few extra pounds, a few teeth missing and I wear glasses....

I don't care who doesn't want to meet me

Get ya coat, you've pulled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind meeting bi guys, i just ask that they play straight when playing with me because watching two men play doesn't arouse me.

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