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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any idea why young guys like myself can't get enough of the older women? Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Freud

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The psychologist?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I think it has something to do with sex myself...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You might be onto something there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mother fixation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The psychologist?"

Freud's theory that we have a fixation on our parents.... males for mother and females of father.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The psychologist?

Freud's theory that we have a fixation on our parents.... males for mother and females of father. "

Personally, I think that's a load of bollocks. Freud's theory, not your post about it, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Experience, know what they want and know themselves not pretending to be something they're not to impress others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The psychologist?

Freud's theory that we have a fixation on our parents.... males for mother and females of father.

Personally, I think that's a load of bollocks. Freud's theory, not your post about it, lol"

Agreed. I got bored of A - level psychology due to Freud. .. but the theory is still there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older women are by far sexier in every way possible.

I've been with younger women and women my age and it just isn't the same at all.

I have 3 sisters and 4 aunties and spent my whole life around women. I find it a lot easier to talk to women older than me as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any idea why young guys like myself can't get enough of the older women? Thoughts?"

Needy-baby-greedy-baby syndrome.

Saw a documentary on it.

This guy lived with his room mate. They were both these total genius physicists but all he wanted was for his mother to acknowledge him. Show him some love. He explained at one point about being a boy and building himself a 'hugging robot' just so he knew what it felt like.

He ended up being treat like a doormat by the girl across the landing in the block of flats they both lived in.

A lesson to us all, I think.

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings

"Any idea why young guys like myself can't get enough of the older women? Thoughts?"

All stems from the film the Graduate

and Mrs Robinson

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any idea why young guys like myself can't get enough of the older women? Thoughts?

Needy-baby-greedy-baby syndrome.

Saw a documentary on it.

He ended up being treat like a doormat by the girl across the landing in the block of flats they both lived in.

A lesson to us all, I think."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Any idea why young guys like myself can't get enough of the older women? Thoughts?

Needy-baby-greedy-baby syndrome.

Saw a documentary on it.

He ended up being treat like a doormat by the girl across the landing in the block of flats they both lived in.

A lesson to us all, I think."

I swear this is a big bang theory episode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not body conscious like I was as a teenager. I'm happy to undress in front of any man now.

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings

"Any idea why young guys like myself can't get enough of the older women? Thoughts?"

How is it when your young you are a toy boy

then when you are old you are a dirty old man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Any idea why young guys like myself can't get enough of the older women? Thoughts?

How is it when your young you are a toy boy

then when you are old you are a dirty old man

Bullies mate! Don't listen to them! We're all filth on this site lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Experience, know what they want and know themselves not pretending to be something they're not to impress others. "

Agree with this and is what attracts me to older women. Inner confidence with who they are.

The Freud things a no for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you class as 'older women'?

Obviously men in their 20's and women in their 30's are well matched. Outside that I don't know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What do you class as 'older women'?

Obviously men in their 20's and women in their 30's are well matched. Outside that I don't know

I like the 10 year + gap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm....i feel old now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hmm....i feel old now

Why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Older women are by far sexier in every way possible.

I've been with younger women and women my age and it just isn't the same at all.

I have 3 sisters and 4 aunties and spent my whole life around women. I find it a lot easier to talk to women older than me as well. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any idea why young guys like myself can't get enough of the older women? Thoughts?

All stems from the film the Graduate

and Mrs Robinson

Love that film...!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmm....i feel old now

Why

10 years is a pretty big gap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends, do you find it harder to talk to girls your own age?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are many confident young women around that know exactly what they want!

Surely this is an individual thing rather than an age thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember seeing images of semi naked women on tv, in movies and catalogues when I was a kid, and not knowing why they excited me so much, and I reckon many guys had similar experiences. Obviously these women were considerably older than ourselves at the time, and I believe this gives us a natural attraction to these older women that carries through to adulthood.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hmm....i feel old now

Why

10 years is a pretty big gap!"

Na only as old as you feel plus look how many young lads would love to have a night with you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends, do you find it harder to talk to girls your own age?"

Never found it hard to talk to women any age. Just find older women way more attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends, do you find it harder to talk to girls your own age?

Never found it hard to talk to women any age. Just find older women way more attractive "

Same for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The theory you won't like although as valid as any other is competition. Imagine a pride of lions. The alpha male has his selection of "prime" breeding stock. The Alpha male is neither old or young but also in his prime, possessed of both strength and experience. ...

The young males, if not driven from the pride, will either have to confront the alpha with the possibility of death or content himself with less "prime" breeding stock.

To break analogy and convert, young men go for older women as they fear competition amongst others in prime breeding range, so they gain experience and ability by "training" on less desirable women.......

Okay, you do know this whole post is a piss take is, right?

It's because they don't look weird in stocking. ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mother fixation?"

Bingo.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Don't like the expression " Toy boys" cos people aint toys and boys seems wrong!! ..... Wonder also when the 'toyboy' label finishes? Ie is this just used when the man is younger than the woman , or is there ages when this is more applicable to the onlooker?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any idea why young guys like myself can't get enough of the older women? Thoughts?"

Mummy issues.

Like the girls with daddy issues chasing father figure types (om that note I really need to get a suit :p)

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

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"Any idea why young guys like myself can't get enough of the older women? Thoughts?

Mummy issues.

Not overtly, huge turnoff for me and I avoid any whiff of that. I think it's more about fancying their Mum's friends.

Mind you, I showed some girlfriends a pic of one rather hot young man I met and one remarked 'Hell, I'd breast feed that!'

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By *iz78Woman
over a year ago

wirral

"Any idea why young guys like myself can't get enough of the older women? Thoughts?"

Don't know.... but nice arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any idea why young guys like myself can't get enough of the older women? Thoughts?

All stems from the film the Graduate

and Mrs Robinson

A lot of my male friends had a thing for Stifler's mother too.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Any idea why young guys like myself can't get enough of the older women? Thoughts?

Don't know.... but nice arse

Thank you

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By *iz78Woman
over a year ago

wirral

"Any idea why young guys like myself can't get enough of the older women? Thoughts?

Don't know.... but nice arse

Thank you

More than welcome...cheeky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The theory you won't like although as valid as any other is competition. Imagine a pride of lions. The alpha male has his selection of "prime" breeding stock. The Alpha male is neither old or young but also in his prime, possessed of both strength and experience. ...

The young males, if not driven from the pride, will either have to confront the alpha with the possibility of death or content himself with less "prime" breeding stock.

Okay, you do know this whole post is a piss take is, right?

It's because they don't look weird in stocking. ....

Lol this is amusing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmm....i feel old now

Why

10 years is a pretty big gap!

Na only as old as you feel plus look how many young lads would love to have a night with you"

Lol maybe, doesn't really interest me though.

I'd like to say age doesn't matter too much but I do prefer guys in my age range or a little teeny bit older.

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over a year ago

The young males, if not driven from the pride, will either have to confront the alpha with the possibility of death or content himself with less "prime" breeding stock.

Okay, you do know this whole post is a piss take is, right?

It's because they don't look weird in stocking. ....

Lol this is amusing!"

It was tongue in cheek..... kinda.... nah, I meant the bit about stockings. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmm....i feel old now

Why

10 years is a pretty big gap!"

Is it ?!?!??!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The young males, if not driven from the pride, will either have to confront the alpha with the possibility of death or content himself with less "prime" breeding stock.

Okay, you do know this whole post is a piss take is, right?

It's because they don't look weird in stocking. ....

Lol this is amusing!

It was tongue in cheek..... kinda.... nah, I meant the bit about stockings. ..

Good! That was the best bit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmm....i feel old now

Why

10 years is a pretty big gap!

Is it ?!?!??!!!!!!!"

I think so?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

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Freud didn't have any good research behind his theories so I'd look at other reasons. The older we get the better our experience and needs levels. Young guys have a good place in satisfying our demands. Keep em coming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we are more experienced, more confident and we don't take your shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The phenomen is merely a reciprocal ego trip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The phenomen is merely a reciprocal ego trip."

I beg to differ!! When I make the decision to meet a guy it is because we have chatted and have developed a great rapport, this is usually evident within the first few messages. If the rapport is good the likelihood is that the chemistry will be too. I have had fun with men in their mid 20s, 30s, 40s and 50s and not once has their age been a deciding factor so where does ego come into the equation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to be honest i do prefer a younger guy, more stamina, trendier and fun.........

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