FabSwingers.com forum: profanity

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

...do you think there is any need for it in a pm?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

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Sometimes, yes.

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

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"...do you think there is any need for it in a pm?"

surely it depends totally on context ? Whether or not it's someone you know , is is a speculative "wanna fuck " , is it unsolicited,aggressive and abusive etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it depends on a very exact definition.

Perhaps "I want to f*** you" is fine but "F*** me it's hot isnt it" may not be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi,

It depends on the nature of the PM.

It has many definitions:

Profanity - harsh and vulgar language not accepted by society

Indecency - morally offensive; not proper

Obscenity - Something that is offensive or repulsive to the senses such as sight or hearing.

Explain your question and to which category it falls into.

Paddy x

"...do you think there is any need for it in a pm?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I mean when it is the equivalent of written tourette's....not in context of what is being said nor for the purpose of being sexually explicit (though I actually would disagree that a "wanna fuck" pm is also acceptable).

i know folk that just talk this way and use profanity to try add weight to an argument or comment, but they don't send mail out that way.

just wonder why folk send pm's out that are littered with the 'f' word as a passive, active, noun, adjective or adverb....just wonder what the writer hopes to achieve by this?

I personally find it can make the writer seem quite agressive.

am i alone?!

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

"...do you think there is any need for it in a pm?"

essential when I tell em to fuck off......just doesnt work without the fuck really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always found profanity in casual use to be a good sign of lack of intelligence.

Maybe it's good they use it when they PM you, makes it's easier to decide

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...do you think there is any need for it in a pm?

essential when I tell em to fuck off......just doesnt work without the fuck really."

i'm usually hitting the block button way before then! I guess i'm specifically talking about the pm's that are sent as way as introduction.

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

Not alone at all .. I don't think wanna fuck is acceptable as a message either on a number of levels but I'd not be offended by it , just ignore it ... But I would possibly be offended by a personal insult and definitely turned off by someone who littered an email with swear words as part of their general vocabulary .

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"I mean when it is the equivalent of written tourette's....not in context of what is being said nor for the purpose of being sexually explicit (though I actually would disagree that a "wanna fuck" pm is also acceptable).

i know folk that just talk this way and use profanity to try add weight to an argument or comment, but they don't send mail out that way.

just wonder why folk send pm's out that are littered with the 'f' word as a passive, active, noun, adjective or adverb....just wonder what the writer hopes to achieve by this?

I personally find it can make the writer seem quite agressive.

am i alone?! "

Unless it was in context in a few mails that are being exhanged or in a sexual context, then no, I don't think there is any need for it.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

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"I've always found profanity in casual use to be a good sign of lack of intelligence.

That’s only when profanities are used as nouns… for anything else it’s fucking fine and has no bollocky arse-wipe reflection on intelligence what so sodding ever.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

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"The sort of twee person who thinks swearing is in any way a sign of a lack of education or of a lack of verbal interest is just fucking lunatic,"

"Or they say, 'It's not necessary.' As if that should stop one doing it. Things not being necessary is what makes life interesting."

Stephen Fry

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By *uton_coupleCouple
over a year ago

luton

"I've always found profanity in casual use to be a good sign of lack of intelligence.

That’s only when profanities are used as nouns… for anything else it’s fucking fine and has no bollocky arse-wipe reflection on intelligence what so sodding ever."

i wonder what they think Albert Einstein

would say if he shut his finger in the door

perhaps a string of words that youve never heard before like on that old music hall programme THE GOOD OLD DAYS

or more likely WHO LEFT THAT FUCKING DOOR OPEN !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've always found profanity in casual use to be a good sign of lack of intelligence.

That’s only when profanities are used as nouns… for anything else it’s fucking fine and has no bollocky arse-wipe reflection on intelligence what so sodding ever.

i wonder what they think Albert Einstein

would say if he shut his finger in the door

perhaps a string of words that youve never heard before like on that old music hall programme THE GOOD OLD DAYS

or more likely WHO LEFT THAT FUCKING DOOR OPEN !"

can i just say, i never said there was no room for profanity.

but by means of introduction, do you think it's necessary or over familiar?

like, some guy you dont know coming up and saying "alright bitch". now. you're not gonna be impressed if you don't know him, but his closest friends might know him well enough to know for him, it's a term of endearment.

i didnt at any stage slate people using profanity, i use it myself.

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By *uton_coupleCouple
over a year ago

luton

"I've always found profanity in casual use to be a good sign of lack of intelligence.

That’s only when profanities are used as nouns… for anything else it’s fucking fine and has no bollocky arse-wipe reflection on intelligence what so sodding ever.

i wonder what they think Albert Einstein

would say if he shut his finger in the door

perhaps a string of words that youve never heard before like on that old music hall programme THE GOOD OLD DAYS

or more likely WHO LEFT THAT FUCKING DOOR OPEN !

can i just say, i never said there was no room for profanity.

but by means of introduction, do you think it's necessary or over familiar?

i didnt at any stage slate people using profanity, i use it myself.

i was just commenting on the link you made between swearing and intelligence

pointing out that it is very likely that extreemly inteligent scientists do in fact swear , in fact i have heard peter hawkins swear

therefore there is no link x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always found profanity in casual use to be a good sign of lack of intelligence.

That’s only when profanities are used as nouns… for anything else it’s fucking fine and has no bollocky arse-wipe reflection on intelligence what so sodding ever.

i wonder what they think Albert Einstein

would say if he shut his finger in the door

perhaps a string of words that youve never heard before like on that old music hall programme THE GOOD OLD DAYS

or more likely WHO LEFT THAT FUCKING DOOR OPEN !

can i just say, i never said there was no room for profanity.

but by means of introduction, do you think it's necessary or over familiar?

i didnt at any stage slate people using profanity, i use it myself.

i was just commenting on the link you made between swearing and intelligence

pointing out that it is very likely that extreemly inteligent scientists do in fact swear , in fact i have heard peter hawkins swear

therefore there is no link x"

I think there's a marked difference between say someone saying "oh for fucks sake" after being irrated by someone/thing to "yeah, went down the fucking pub, said to the fucking bloke behind the beer, fuck mate the ales off. Fucking thirsty I was, throat dry as a fucking nun's cunt..."

Someone who speaks like that is unintelligent in my view!!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Someone who speaks like that is unintelligent in my view!! "

I was only trying to fucking tell you how my fucking day went!

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By *uton_coupleCouple
over a year ago

luton

"I've always found profanity in casual use to be a good sign of lack of intelligence.

That’s only when profanities are used as nouns… for anything else it’s fucking fine and has no bollocky arse-wipe reflection on intelligence what so sodding ever.

i wonder what they think Albert Einstein

would say if he shut his finger in the door

perhaps a string of words that youve never heard before like on that old music hall programme THE GOOD OLD DAYS

or more likely WHO LEFT THAT FUCKING DOOR OPEN !

can i just say, i never said there was no room for profanity.

but by means of introduction, do you think it's necessary or over familiar?

i didnt at any stage slate people using profanity, i use it myself.

i was just commenting on the link you made between swearing and intelligence

pointing out that it is very likely that extreemly inteligent scientists do in fact swear , in fact i have heard peter hawkins swear

therefore there is no link x

Someone who speaks like that is unintelligent in my view!! "

i think the fact that you felt it necassary to use so many swear words in your reply speaks volumes

( by your standards of course )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chatted to a lady here and on MSN for a while last year, then spoke on the phone and everything was fine.

Then spoke on the phone again and every 2nd word was f*** and it's extensions. Haven't spoken to her since!! Last time I checked her verifications were growing almost by the day, but she wasn't for me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've always found profanity in casual use to be a good sign of lack of intelligence.

That’s only when profanities are used as nouns… for anything else it’s fucking fine and has no bollocky arse-wipe reflection on intelligence what so sodding ever.

i wonder what they think Albert Einstein

would say if he shut his finger in the door

perhaps a string of words that youve never heard before like on that old music hall programme THE GOOD OLD DAYS

or more likely WHO LEFT THAT FUCKING DOOR OPEN !

can i just say, i never said there was no room for profanity.

but by means of introduction, do you think it's necessary or over familiar?

i didnt at any stage slate people using profanity, i use it myself.

i was just commenting on the link you made between swearing and intelligence

pointing out that it is very likely that extreemly inteligent scientists do in fact swear , in fact i have heard peter hawkins swear

therefore there is no link x"

erm, i didnt make any link!

and do you mean stephen hawkins (just clicked why i was called a pedant recently)

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By *uton_coupleCouple
over a year ago

luton

i dont really think there is such a thing as swearing in all honesty

the word profane is latin and means outside the temple , so i guess profanity is either a word or an act you might not be advised to do inside one

it would be very unremarkable 2000 years ago for a pregnant woman to go to the doctor and ask them to have a look at her cunt , because it was simply a word to describe that part of the body

that word in modern times is considered by some to be a swear word

if fashion trends had been different you might nowdays be called a stupid labia

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By *uton_coupleCouple
over a year ago

luton

"I've always found profanity in casual use to be a good sign of lack of intelligence.

That’s only when profanities are used as nouns… for anything else it’s fucking fine and has no bollocky arse-wipe reflection on intelligence what so sodding ever.

i wonder what they think Albert Einstein

would say if he shut his finger in the door

perhaps a string of words that youve never heard before like on that old music hall programme THE GOOD OLD DAYS

or more likely WHO LEFT THAT FUCKING DOOR OPEN !

can i just say, i never said there was no room for profanity.

but by means of introduction, do you think it's necessary or over familiar?

i didnt at any stage slate people using profanity, i use it myself.

i was just commenting on the link you made between swearing and intelligence

pointing out that it is very likely that extreemly inteligent scientists do in fact swear , in fact i have heard peter hawkins swear

therefore there is no link x

erm, i didnt make any link!

and do you mean stephen hawkins (just clicked why i was called a pedant recently)

my most humble appologies it was the OP that made the link

peter hawkins is stephens older brother , and taught him all he knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends a lot on the context it is used in. For example if someone in general life explains an anecdote by slapping expletives it prior to every noun, such as "I was walking down the fucking road and guess who I saw leaving the fucking shop"....then I'd make a mental note;- Thick as pigshit.

In terms of sexual talk though, as an opening gambit swearing like a trooper may not work, but once aroused, blue language can be just the ticket, as it shows your inhibitions are completely down and your wanton filthy side is about to rear it's deliciously ugly head...

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

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What if... my inhibitions are always completely fucking down.

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Oh god! How I wish that our own queen of the spoken/typed profanity was here!

In the imortal words of that little darling, Kitty:

"Fuck off ya bunch of cunts!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if... my inhibitions are always completely fucking down.

Then, my dear, you are like a red rag to a bull.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...do you think there is any need for it in a pm?"

I always find it makes no difference whether you use it pm or am

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

What if... my inhibitions are always completely fucking down.

Inhibitions, dear, not knickers.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

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What if... my inhibitions are always completely fucking down.

Inhibitions, dear, not knickers.

Bollox!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Thats my favourite word that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think all swearing is bloody terrible if ya ask me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a choice thing for someone i guess. If someone uses language or grammar you don't like they will be less attractive to you. If someone doesn't take that into account when mailing it is a little small minded. However we are supposed to be open minded here with profanities used all the time.

I think you need to be open minded with messages and not take offence however if the content isn't to your taste block them at worst or tell them your dislikes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who speaks like that is unintelligent in my view!!

I was only trying to fucking tell you how my fucking day went!"

Of for fucks sake!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it's all about context - as it takes more typing to put in the expletifs then the person writing it must really want to say it. Is it their form of accurate say it as it is conversation. Personally there is a time & a place - by swearing you want to provoke an emotion - were all adults so if some idiot hurts your emotions handle it or block them - hurt their emotions without sinking!

As I always say maners cost nothing & if swearing is used in role play usually 'other' things have been agreed on first before the insults fly!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe the over use of swearing in conversation clearly indicates a wanting to be heard.

It never indicates the lack of intelligence! as previous Op's have highlighted.

Paddy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

my most humble appologies it was the OP that made the link

peter hawkins is stephens older brother , and taught him all he knows "

I am the op, and i never made the link!

to the other posters, i didnt want to refer to any particular pm on here,a i'm not going to condemn any one person.

Iuse profanity myself and i use it in bed and i'm not ffended by profanity.

i am asking how others feel about receiveing a pm that is of the nature of "hello, my name is [insert name] how the fuck are ya, what you make of the fucking site ten and all the cock thats on it..." that kind of thing.

do you think it's necessary and would it turn you off? my qestion was idrected to you...i know what i'd do if anyone offended me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i swear like a trooper, no lack of intelligence or unaware of more suitable words its just i like to swear! times of stress its more apparent, or in times when someone is really bugging me!

i swear appropriately, i never swear at work unless im in the toilet and no one can hear me! i dont swear in polite company, and i dont do it in the aggresive way i just like a good old curse!!

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By *uton_coupleCouple
over a year ago

luton

my most humble appologies it was the OP that made the link

peter hawkins is stephens older brother , and taught him all he knows

I am the op, and i never made the link!

to the other posters, i didnt want to refer to any particular pm on here,a i'm not going to condemn any one person.

Iuse profanity myself and i use it in bed and i'm not ffended by profanity.

do you think it's necessary and would it turn you off? my qestion was idrected to you...i know what i'd do if anyone offended me!"

sorry lol ........ it was the person who said

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I've always found profanity in casual use to be a good sign of lack of intelligence.

Maybe it's good they use it when they PM you, makes it's easier to decide

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its very hot here today and not easy to concentrate

i know what its like to have quotes etc attributed to you when you have not said them ...

i will go have a lie down in a cool room to gather my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i swear like a trooper, no lack of intelligence or unaware of more suitable words its just i like to swear! times of stress its more apparent, or in times when someone is really bugging me!

i swear appropriately, i never swear at work unless im in the toilet and no one can hear me! i dont swear in polite company, and i dont do it in the aggresive way i just like a good old curse!!

same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my most humble appologies it was the OP that made the link

peter hawkins is stephens older brother , and taught him all he knows

I am the op, and i never made the link!

to the other posters, i didnt want to refer to any particular pm on here,a i'm not going to condemn any one person.

Iuse profanity myself and i use it in bed and i'm not ffended by profanity.

do you think it's necessary and would it turn you off? my qestion was idrected to you...i know what i'd do if anyone offended me!"

If I received a message like that: block and delete!

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