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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a young one on this site (18 years old) I've found it hard to get messages or even a wink off anyone that I'm looking for, when I started the site it seemed to be just gay guys who wanted to meet but I changed my preferences and still no luck, so this left me wondering, why are women in my area not looking for someone my age? Because there seem to be plenty of women on here from where I live!! :-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because young guys are usually too inexperienced. Girls my age (20) are more likely to want slightly older guys. Women in their 40s are likely to have kids your age. So you need to find the middle ground. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont know about your area but for the most part Id guess its about expected levels of maturity with somebody your age. Ive got a daughter only 3 years younger than you and Im only mid 30's which I would say is an average age on here. So if they, like me have teenage kids its doubtfull they are going to want to meet a teenager. I might be completely wrong but Id bet thats gonna go against you sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a young one on this site (18 years old) I've found it hard to get messages or even a wink off anyone that I'm looking for, when I started the site it seemed to be just gay guys who wanted to meet but I changed my preferences and still no luck, so this left me wondering, why are women in my area not looking for someone my age? Because there seem to be plenty of women on here from where I live!! :- "

Better to be too young (you can grow older) than too old (when you can't get younger)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"As a young one on this site (18 years old) I've found it hard to get messages or even a wink off anyone that I'm looking for, when I started the site it seemed to be just gay guys who wanted to meet but I changed my preferences and still no luck, so this left me wondering, why are women in my area not looking for someone my age? Because there seem to be plenty of women on here from where I live!! :- "

It is going to be your age I think and there is nothing you can do about that. Maybe stick around, make a few friends through the forum, attend a social.

Good luck

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Maybe if you put more information on your profile, potential meets might then have enough information to decide whether or not to meet you. As it is, they're deciding not to. You might think it's your age that is preventing you from meeting, but what if it's your profile?

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings


"As a young one on this site (18 years old) I've found it hard to get messages or even a wink off anyone that I'm looking for, when I started the site it seemed to be just gay guys who wanted to meet but I changed my preferences and still no luck, so this left me wondering, why are women in my area not looking for someone my age? Because there seem to be plenty of women on here from where I live!! :- "

Why are you on here at 18 the world is your oyster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a young one on this site (18 years old) I've found it hard to get messages or even a wink off anyone that I'm looking for, when I started the site it seemed to be just gay guys who wanted to meet but I changed my preferences and still no luck, so this left me wondering, why are women in my area not looking for someone my age? Because there seem to be plenty of women on here from where I live!! :-

Better to be too young (you can grow older) than too old (when you can't get younger) "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Where's doc brown in his delorean! Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes you think it is your age that is the problem? Are you maximising everything else you could do to get a meet? Or just blaming something that you can't influence?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Because I enjoy sex and I don't like oysters!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I recently got chatting with a 20 yo man and offered to help him out by meeting him for a social....just coffee. Just a social and a way for him to get his first verify. We chatted for a while and he seemed to be a cut above the rest of the young guys on here. I had hopes this young man would be mature and act like an adult. Sadly he turned out to be a young pup with no manners.

I am not impressed....

Good luck OP. This 51 year old woman will never try and help a 20+yo man ever again.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"As a young one on this site (18 years old) I've found it hard to get messages or even a wink off anyone that I'm looking for, when I started the site it seemed to be just gay guys who wanted to meet but I changed my preferences and still no luck, so this left me wondering, why are women in my area not looking for someone my age? Because there seem to be plenty of women on here from where I live!! :-

Why are you on here at 18 the world is your oyster "

But he's chosen this part of the oyster

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Ask Cliff Richard. He wrote a song about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually you have only one pics..and your profile is avarage.

Do some effort. .tell more about you..better profile can give you more chance to meet someone .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Actually you have only one pics..and your profile is avarage.

Do some effort. .tell more about you..better profile can give you more chance to meet someone . "

Give me a mo! The pics will have to wait for another time tho!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask Cliff Richard. He wrote a song about it. "

So did Rolf Harris - and we all know that didn't end well. There may have been room on the horse for two but it was just wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would surprise me if Bruce Forsyth was next!!

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"As a young one on this site (18 years old) I've found it hard to get messages or even a wink off anyone that I'm looking for, when I started the site it seemed to be just gay guys who wanted to meet but I changed my preferences and still no luck, so this left me wondering, why are women in my area not looking for someone my age? Because there seem to be plenty of women on here from where I live!! :-

Why are you on here at 18 the world is your oyster "

Because possibly he is interested in swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a young one on this site (18 years old) I've found it hard to get messages or even a wink off anyone that I'm looking for, when I started the site it seemed to be just gay guys who wanted to meet but I changed my preferences and still no luck, so this left me wondering, why are women in my area not looking for someone my age? Because there seem to be plenty of women on here from where I live!! :-

Better to be too young (you can grow older) than too old (when you can't get younger) "

Ouch!

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By *amthompson999Man
over a year ago

barking

I have the same problem mate

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I have a granddaughter only 7 years younger than you and although I'm often heard saying that age is just a number, I know that when I look at someone your age, I would see a child.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

May I suggest that those men who think it is their age that is stopping them getting meets, also take a few brief moments into their future time to think that it might not be necessarily so.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I have the same problem mate "

Obviously, if it's the sole fact that you and the OP are 18 is the barrier to meets then you can't do anything about it except wait. So why not leave and come back when you think your age won't be a barrier?

Answer: because your ages might NOT be the barrier!

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings


"I have the same problem mate "

its getting like a kindergarten on here and they are complaining

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

I'm afraid for us it will be your age - I have a son 3 years older than you!

Try to make your profile appear more mature and appealing. We met a guy slightly younger than our lowest age limit and he turned out to be very mature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a young one on this site (18 years old) I've found it hard to get messages or even a wink off anyone that I'm looking for, when I started the site it seemed to be just gay guys who wanted to meet but I changed my preferences and still no luck, so this left me wondering, why are women in my area not looking for someone my age? Because there seem to be plenty of women on here from where I live!! :-

Better to be too young (you can grow older) than too old (when you can't get younger) "

i like this

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