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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Has anyone ever invited a friend/ colleague/ couple / first date?? /Random stranger...

To a party/ club not telling them what type of club / party it was??

Cruel....... More importantly what was the reaction??

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

No. That would be horrific and if someone did that to me I'd kick their arse into touch. Communication, honesty and respect are key in this scene.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

No.

And wouldn't.

Apart from being disrespectful it would hardly be likely to end well.

A

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Why would anyone do that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do people sit and dream up these horror scenarios for shits & giggles?

I'd be pissed if someone dragged me to a club if I knew what it was, I'd be bloody furious if it were a surprise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy i work with told me about his good friend having a party, he headed round with a mate and used the back door being a close friend no knocking just walked in. To his supprize a group of guys hammering his friends wife in the liveingroom lol what i was wondering did he stay or did he go lol ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I recall a colleague telling me her ex had taken her to a house party and it wasn't until she saw most couples had wandered off and she saw 4 shagging in a bedroom she realised it was an adult sex party. She said she was horrified and left. Not a nice situation to be put in.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"A guy i work with told me about his good friend having a party, he headed round with a mate and used the back door being a close friend no knocking just walked in. To his supprize a group of guys hammering his friends wife in the liveingroom lol what i was wondering did he stay or did he go lol ?"

Had he been invited?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goodness me no

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I recall a colleague telling me her ex had taken her to a house party and it wasn't until she saw most couples had wandered off and she saw 4 shagging in a bedroom she realised it was an adult sex party. She said she was horrified and left. Not a nice situation to be put in. "

One of the things about here and this stuff is a (small) expectation of discretion and that we don't divulge the details of others we meet. I am open about what I do but I don't want anyone else talking about it without my knowledge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy i work with told me about his good friend having a party, he headed round with a mate and used the back door being a close friend no knocking just walked in. To his supprize a group of guys hammering his friends wife in the liveingroom lol what i was wondering did he stay or did he go lol ?"

Urban myth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no - not even been had on the fancy dress party joke that some folk seem to find funny

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

David Niven wrote about how someone pestered people for an invite to a 'Hollywood Party' during the 30's. Eventually he received an invite to a party and what he thought was a night of debauchery with the stars of the silver screen. Upon arrival he was sent to the undressing room and then entered the room, starkers. To the total bemusement of everyone in dinner jackets and dresses.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I recall a colleague telling me her ex had taken her to a house party and it wasn't until she saw most couples had wandered off and she saw 4 shagging in a bedroom she realised it was an adult sex party. She said she was horrified and left. Not a nice situation to be put in.

One of the things about here and this

stuff is a (small) expectation of

discretion and that we don't divulge the

details of others we meet. I am open

about what I do but I don't want anyone

else talking about it without my

knowledge.

I thought it was a little bit discreet!

"

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Reassuring that majority would,nt be that cruel....

How about if you suspect, have suspicions that friend, colleagues would be open to suggestion or are even active...

How would you go about approaching them. With out offending or worst still completely missreading their vibes and your judgement...

Hhhhhhmmm tricky..

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