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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm a reserved, collected and deep sort of guy (though not the quiet and shy type) who's very rarely the kind to just cut loose and let my hair down (not that I have any) with those around me, yet do on occasion find myself fascinated by girls who do, party girls, the young kind who love nothing more than to dress up and hit the town with their friends for drinks and dancing, you often see them on here, girls in their late teens/early twenties taking selfies in the mirror sticking their tongues out.

I'd have pretty much nothing in common with girls like this, and would really struggle to interact with them on a social level, but part of me is drawn to the challenge of seeing if I could somehow manage to charm someone so very different from myself into the bedroom, to see if we're really so different in our sexual needs, and whether or not we could satisfy one another.

Does anyone else ever fantasise about things like this, or has actually managed it at some point - having sex with someone the total opposite of yourself, whom you otherwise have nothing in common with?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I thought this was another 'Scottish independence' thread!

Fantasise? Nope.

Done it? Yep.

And for what it was it was good fun, but was never going to be anything else. Didn't have to put any leg work in either as she approached me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frequently. I find the saying opposites attract to be very true. One of my regular partners is from a totally different world to me. An Oxford educated,upper-middle class gentleman who,until he met me,had never set foot on a council estate. He's well travelled and his social life consists of the ballet,private clubs and bars,Wimbledon every year,skiing with friends amongst other things. We have nothing in common except sexual compatibility

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Its strange how many young, fit, hung guys who wouldn't give me a second look around town will happily shag me at a party or club. I'm not complaining

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I avoid that completely.

I get messages from younger blokes and all I wonder is why the fuck would a twenty something want to have naughties with a forty something they have nothing in common with?

I understand the other way round. I'm sure there are many plus points in fucking a younger guy. I just never find myself fantasizing over it.

My body has too much life under it's belt. Why would a twenty something find that attractive? I know we all find different things attractive, I just don't really get it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Frequently. I find the saying opposites attract to be very true. One of my regular partners is from a totally different world to me. An Oxford educated,upper-middle class gentleman who,until he met me,had never set foot on a council estate. He's well travelled and his social life consists of the ballet,private clubs and bars,Wimbledon every year,skiing with friends amongst other things. We have nothing in common except sexual compatibility "

You do come across as intelligent and worldly though? I don't think yours is so much a case of opposites attracting personality wise, as simply coming from different backgrounds x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

'Isn't' I mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Frequently. I find the saying opposites attract to be very true. One of my regular partners is from a totally different world to me. An Oxford educated,upper-middle class gentleman who,until he met me,had never set foot on a council estate. He's well travelled and his social life consists of the ballet,private clubs and bars,Wimbledon every year,skiing with friends amongst other things. We have nothing in common except sexual compatibility

You do come across as intelligent and worldly though? I don't think yours is so much a case of opposites attracting personality wise, as simply coming from different backgrounds x"

Possibly,our interests are similar but he's much more outgoing and interesting than me. We are worlds apart x

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I don't cross the border as I have found the sort of man that works for me, although I do think about it when I see those sexy young male bodies in pics but I know I need more than just the sexual act from a meet, I enjoy the chatting and interaction that comes with meeting someone and for me it has never quite been there with someone a lot younger than myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I avoid that completely.

I get messages from younger blokes and all I wonder is why the fuck would a twenty something want to have naughties with a forty something they have nothing in common with?

I understand the other way round. I'm sure there are many plus points in fucking a younger guy. I just never find myself fantasizing over it.

My body has too much life under it's belt. Why would a twenty something find that attractive? I know we all find different things attractive, I just don't really get it.

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The simple answer is, it's like fucking your mates mum or one of your mums mates. It's "naughty". That's how I felt in my 20s. My "preference" is still older women now I've reached my 30s

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Rather typical that a few such girls I had my eye on have left the site already. Mind though, even without the fakes, it makes sense that people with particularly active social lives may not have the time for a swingers site.

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