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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To let out a maniacal laugh when I see people who declined/ignored me, complaining that there are no genuine profiles or that they've had their time wasted?

I almost felt like Dr Evil this morning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To let out a maniacal laugh when I see people who declined/ignored me, complaining that there are no genuine profiles or that they've had their time wasted?

I almost felt like Dr Evil this morning!"

Whether you are genuine or not is irrelevant when you are not for them.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It is a bit wrong, because the other side of the coin is that they'd rather go without meets and complain about it than meet you

Glass half empty, view there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To let out a maniacal laugh when I see people who declined/ignored me, complaining that there are no genuine profiles or that they've had their time wasted?

I almost felt like Dr Evil this morning!"

Seems bitter, you just weren't for them

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"It is a bit wrong, because the other side of the coin is that they'd rather go without meets and complain about it than meet you

Glass half empty, view there "

Bullseye!

The word 'Genuine' is severely overused on here!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's even funnier when you get a messages from some one asking you to meet (that previously turned you down) and they get in a huff when you say no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol I'm far from bitter,they have that right of course... But it did feel nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try and reply a polite no but women and couples sometimes get so inundated with mail we delete all and start again

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Lol I'm far from bitter,they have that right of course... But it did feel nice"

So you feel 'nice' knowing others can't find someone suitable to meet?

Why?

A

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't check local updates and tend not to follow people who have turned me down, so I wouldn't know if they were complaining or not.

However, I am always a fan of a little schadenfreude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't check local updates and tend not to follow people who have turned me down, so I wouldn't know if they were complaining or not.

However, I am always a fan of a little schadenfreude "

Schadenfreude is one of my top ten favourite words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's even funnier when you get a messages from some one asking you to meet (that previously turned you down) and they get in a huff when you say no. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't check local updates and tend not to follow people who have turned me down, so I wouldn't know if they were complaining or not.

However, I am always a fan of a little schadenfreude

Schadenfreude is one of my top ten favourite words. "

I had to Google it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a bit wrong, because the other side of the coin is that they'd rather go without meets and complain about it than meet you

Glass half empty, view there "

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I don't check local updates and tend not to follow people who have turned me down, so I wouldn't know if they were complaining or not.

However, I am always a fan of a little schadenfreude

Schadenfreude is one of my top ten favourite words. "

I had to go look that up!!

It's a great word but it's really mean to do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a bit wrong, because the other side of the coin is that they'd rather go without meets and complain about it than meet you

Glass half empty, view there "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes me laugh how people put up a moaning status about nobody being genuine because they can't get a meet like it is everybody else's fault & not their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More fakes on here than in del boys van

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lol I'm far from bitter,they have that right of course... But it did feel nice

So you feel 'nice' knowing others can't find someone suitable to meet?

Why?

It's like standing in an orchard and complaining there's nothing to eat. Look, I know folk have tastes and preferences, like I said, it's totally and rightly their prerogative.

But..As my original post said, it's those who ignored/declined that I found complaining about 2 specific things I know I'm not, that made me feel a tad smug...

A"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just forget them and move on, patient is a virtue here lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a bit wrong, because the other side of the coin is that they'd rather go without meets and complain about it than meet you

Glass half empty, view there

Bullseye!

The word 'Genuine' is severely overused on here!

A"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is a bit wrong, because the other side of the coin is that they'd rather go without meets and complain about it than meet you

Glass half empty, view there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Karma, be negative, get negative. Be positive and positive things happen! In the wise words of the The beautiful South "Every penny don't fit the slot"

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Lol I'm far from bitter,they have that right of course... But it did feel nice

So you feel 'nice' knowing others can't find someone suitable to meet?

Why?

A

It's like standing in an orchard and complaining there's nothing to eat. Look, I know folk have tastes and preferences, like I said, it's totally and rightly their prerogative.

But..As my original post said, it's those who ignored/declined that I found complaining about 2 specific things I know I'm not, that made me feel a tad smug...

"

Smug eh?

I bet they're kicking themselves they said no know!

A

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Now - no know!

Friggin autocarrot!

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hmm..I may have given the wrong impression to some.

I'm not bothered I haven't met them, that's their choice and I respect/accept that totally.

I'm not bitter at all, I have no right to be.

But it felt a bit like watching someone peacocking about how ace they are, tripping over.

I'll get mi coat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you expect them to meet someone they were clearly not interested in just because they seemingly can't get a meet? I'd rather go without a meet than meet someone I wasn't into just because they claimed they were genuine. Not really nice to have a laugh at them. I've had people message me asking for a meet, agreed then they sopped messaging and ignored me, later putting status updates on like this site is shit, no one wants to meet, can't get a meet, etc etc. Let them get on with it and ignore, its what they did to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok I'll reiterate what I said previously

I do not expect anyone to do anything.

What they do is totally their right.

I accept and respect that right.

Don't think I don't.

But still...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't take any pleasure in seeing someone who'd turned me down, struggling with another meet, of their choice.

But I once did have good cause to take a great deal of pleasure from a couples failed meet.

I had arranged to meet them, chatted over a couple of days, spoke to both on the phone, arranged time and place, and all looking forward to it.

When I texted, just to say I was on schedule and would be with them in half an hour, they told me they were very sorry, but the female had been taken ill, and had been being sick.

I of course wished her well, told them not to worry, and headed home.

After getting back, I looked on Fab, and saw they'd added a meet, about 5 mins before they told me she was ill.

They also had blocked me, but they maybe forgot I could still see their advertised meet.

I sent them a quick text (not abusive) just to let them know, I knew what they'd done, and didn't appreciate being lied to.

Their response amazed me, they continued to lie, saying that they hadn't blocked me, and she was ill.

Thing is, if they'd changed their minds, and just told me so, I wouldn't have a problem at all.

Anyway, apparently their replacement meet, never came off, so I did have to have a chuckle.

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