FabSwingers.com forum: Recognised by a dad at the school. CRINGE

By *angtidy10 OP Couple
over a year ago

Broseley

So im picking my kids up from primary school yesterday and one of the dads who I always say hi too stops me and says "iv'e been trying to think for ages where I know your face from"

So I say "where is it then"?

And he says "Fab"

Didnt know what to say just stood there kinda flustered and said "oh....right"

He then says "anyway say no more" with a cheeky look in his eye

Arggghhhh cringing so much at the thought of seeing him again! Need to remove my face from my pics I think!

Has this ever happened to anyone else?!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nope....if you're not happy being recognized, move your face pic to private. He's on here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Odd place to bring it up... What if someone overheard him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a story like this the other day. The interview one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the more reason to have face pics in private or friends only.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow thats just plain bad manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good name thou. You are very bang tidy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope I haven't but I do have my face pic in private for that reason lol . but I would like to find someone I know to see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is funny though................sorry!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was chatting to this local guy on fab, he gave me his picture then I realised I knew him from school. But didn't give him my pic, lucky escape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ittykate84Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

I have face pics on and if someone recognises me thats fine with me as they are on here too.. I just say sorry if you were my type something would have happened already!

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By *angtidy10 OP Couple
over a year ago

Broseley

Yeh definitely take full responsibility for the situation not his fault.

Just didnt ever expect a dad at the school to recognise me. Guess I was a bit naive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you are where you are with him, might as well see it as an opportunity rather than a threat!

He's on here too, so you're both in the same boat! Might as well treat it as a naughty secret with each other!

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By *angtidy10 OP Couple
over a year ago

Broseley

"Wow thats just plain bad manners"

Whats bad manners hun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit rude to approach u when ur with ur kids tho?

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By *angtidy10 OP Couple
over a year ago

Broseley

"Bit rude to approach u when ur with ur kids tho?"

It was when I was on way in to pick them up. They werent with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We choose not too show because we don't want to hurt children by our choices but it's a personal choice, I would say it's a bit late now the cat is out of the bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can imagine that blindsiding you slightly. I'm dreading the day that happens to me. Lol

Probably not the most productive of additions to my post, but I, as a curious soul, subsequently enquired as to your profile and might I say you are an aesthetically uplifting person

If the school is big enough, maybe Sod's law will not apply and you'll not see him for a long time

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By *angtidy10 OP Couple
over a year ago

Broseley

"Bit rude to approach u when ur with ur kids tho?"

Would of preferred if he had of messaged me on here though than saying it to me as it made me feel quite awkward

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By *angtidy10 OP Couple
over a year ago

Broseley

"I can imagine that blindsiding you slightly. I'm dreading the day that happens to me. Lol

Probably not the most productive of additions to my post, but I, as a curious soul, subsequently enquired as to your profile and might I say you are an aesthetically uplifting person

If the school is big enough, maybe Sod's law will not apply and you'll not see him for a long time

Luckily we have just moved and children moving schools in 3 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have face pics on and if someone recognises me thats fine with me as they are on here too.. I just say sorry if you were my type something would have happened already! "

Wow. Think that one can be filed under 'Put-In-Their-Place'

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

London

I have now hidden my face pics after reading this. Something that I totally dread happening is that scenario. Good luck with it.

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By *angtidy10 OP Couple
over a year ago

Broseley

"Good name thou. You are very bang tidy

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can imagine that blindsiding you slightly. I'm dreading the day that happens to me. Lol

Probably not the most productive of additions to my post, but I, as a curious soul, subsequently enquired as to your profile and might I say you are an aesthetically uplifting person

If the school is big enough, maybe Sod's law will not apply and you'll not see him for a long time

Luckily we have just moved and children moving schools in 3 weeks

Result

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By *angtidy10 OP Couple
over a year ago

Broseley

"I have now hidden my face pics after reading this. Something that I totally dread happening is that scenario. Good luck with it.

Thanks hun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow thats just plain bad manners

Whats bad manners hun?"

The only possible outcome of saying what he did was to embarass you, which is bad manners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw someone i recognised in town the other week but messaged them instead of blurting it out in a public place. More low key then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block him in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow thats just plain bad manners

Whats bad manners hun?

The only possible outcome of saying what he did was to embarass you, which is bad manners.

He may have been trying to gauge a reaction to send a message.

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By *angtidy10 OP Couple
over a year ago

Broseley

"Wow thats just plain bad manners

Whats bad manners hun?

The only possible outcome of saying what he did was to embarass you, which is bad manners.

If I saw someone I recognised off here I wouldnt say anything because I would think it would be awkward for them

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

Omg I would die if one of the dad's at school approached me and said he recognised me from here. I'd be so embarrassed going to pick by children up everyday. Thank god your moving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you don't do it at the school just message . Some people don't have a clue .

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By *angtidy10 OP Couple
over a year ago

Broseley

"Omg I would die if one of the dad's at school approached me and said he recognised me from here. I'd be so embarrassed going to pick by children up everyday. Thank god your moving. "

I knowwww

Thats exactly how I feel. My own fault for showing my face. Some of my pics arent exactly modest either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, if he recognised you off Fab, errrrrrrrm, doesn't that mean that he could be right here, reading this thread?!

........hope he pipes up & says hello, - well, it would be rude not to!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion seems to be lost on some people on here. I'd never go up to someone in the street and announce I know them from fab.

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By *angtidy10 OP Couple
over a year ago

Broseley

"So, if he recognised you off Fab, errrrrrrrm, doesn't that mean that he could be right here, reading this thread?!

........hope he pipes up & says hello, - well, it would be rude not to!!

Im not bothered I told him I was embarrassed in a message lol

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

"Omg I would die if one of the dad's at school approached me and said he recognised me from here. I'd be so embarrassed going to pick by children up everyday. Thank god your moving.

I knowwww

Thats exactly how I feel. My own fault for showing my face. Some of my pics arent exactly modest either

I had a quick look at your pics, very sexy. I hope you've found him and blocked him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discretion seems to be lost on some people on here. I'd never go up to someone in the street and announce I know them from fab. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Omg I would die if one of the dad's at school approached me and said he recognised me from here. I'd be so embarrassed going to pick by children up everyday. Thank god your moving.

I knowwww

Thats exactly how I feel. My own fault for showing my face. Some of my pics arent

exactly modest either

very hot though xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit rude to approach u when ur with ur kids tho?

It was when I was on way in to pick them up. They werent with me"

Hold on did you recognise him lol and is he on with his mrs .... Kiss and tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, you're very sexy, he probably thought he could get some by saying hi in person! So I don't blame him, although i've recognised people on here and haven't said anything.

At least he didn't announce it near others by the sounds of it.

how would you feel if he sent a message to you saying he saw you at school the other day compared to saying hi?

Great pics!

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By *angtidy10 OP Couple
over a year ago

Broseley

"Bit rude to approach u when ur with ur kids tho?

It was when I was on way in to pick them up. They werent with me

Hold on did you recognise him lol and is he on with his mrs .... Kiss and tell

No I didnt recognise him from here. Hes a single male

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By *angtidy10 OP Couple
over a year ago

Broseley

"To be fair, you're very sexy, he probably thought he could get some by saying hi in person! So I don't blame him, although i've recognised people on here and haven't said anything.

At least he didn't announce it near others by the sounds of it.

how would you feel if he sent a message to you saying he saw you at school the other day compared to saying hi?

Great pics!

He did say it quietly when no one else was there. Would of much preferred a mail!

And thanks

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By *illyDudeMan
over a year ago

norh east

i got recognized at work once, unfortunately it was a single bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All part if the fun if fab I think !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow what a lucky guy seeing you every morning and evening! No wonder he always does school run

nice pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

isn't it what goes on on Fab stays on Fab...!

I'd have been extremely pissed off if someone did that to me at school, of all places....which is the main reason I don't converse with anyone local.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I ever see someone I'll just give them a knowing nod if they mske eye contact

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"All the more reason to have face pics in private or friends only.

Her"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've been messaging a lass on here when I sent her my pic she said I know you. She's married to 1 of my distant relatives but on here as single. Help what should I do ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work for a primary school and I saw a dad that I recognised from here. He had looked at my profile.

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By *angtidy10 OP Couple
over a year ago

Broseley

"Well I've been messaging a lass on here when I sent her my pic she said I know you. She's married to 1 of my distant relatives but on here as single. Help what should I do ???

Stay out of it would be my advice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you have over 25 face pics showing as clear as day in your public gallery then it's very likely to happen again and again and again.!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I met my parents postman at the first social I went to. He knew my parents and my dog. I very nearly shat myself.

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By *angtidy10 OP Couple
over a year ago

Broseley

"As you have over 25 face pics showing as clear as day in your public gallery then it's very likely to happen again and again and again.!

Fair comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I've been messaging a lass on here when I sent her my pic she said I know you. She's married to 1 of my distant relatives but on here as single. Help what should I do ???

Say thanks but no thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh don't worry I don't shit on my doorstep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened about 5 times being recognised on here without the face lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met my parents postman at the first social I went to. He knew my parents and my dog. I very nearly shat myself.

& your dog? Don't worry, it'll probably exercise discretion, - they're a loyal bunch, you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not surprising really. clear face pics all over ur profile

ur gonna have to shag him to keep him quiet now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

such a gorgeous face too it wud be a pity to hide it

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

London

"I met my parents postman at the first social I went to. He knew my parents and my dog. I very nearly shat myself.

Err, bet you never rushed for the post again!

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By *emon tart Double creamCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

He possibly thought that he may get some fun with you and solely you if he mentioned it face to face. If he messaged, your partner may have picked up the message, so may just have been testing the waters and hoping you were gonna say 'you're the first person to recognise me, so therefore I must shag you now'

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By *taryscorpCouple
over a year ago

boston

"Wow thats just plain bad manners

Whats bad manners hun?

The only possible outcome of saying what he did was to embarass you, which is bad manners.

If I saw someone I recognised off here I wouldnt say anything because I would think it would be awkward for them"
I wouldn't tell you where I knew you from I would just say that I will pm you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think that's the risk in having face pics on...if you dont want this to happen don't have them as I'd think it only being a matter of time before this would happen if you have face pics showing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow thats just plain bad manners

Whats bad manners hun?

The only possible outcome of saying what he did was to embarass you, which is bad manners.

Really?

It's not like he shouted it to everyone or told others he privately spoke with a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow thats just plain bad manners

Whats bad manners hun?

The only possible outcome of saying what he did was to embarass you, which is bad manners.

I would disagree with that to some extent. Most on here do not have a clear face picture on their profile never mind more than one when you do its natural for people to assume one you are not shy and two you are not trying to protect your anonymity. to me it sounds as though he was saying I know you now. If he had not said anything there but gone on line and mailed from hiding that would have been worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow thats just plain bad manners

Whats bad manners hun?

The only possible outcome of saying what he did was to embarass you, which is bad manners.

..... fair point .

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By *angtidy10 OP Couple
over a year ago

Broseley

"Wow thats just plain bad manners

Whats bad manners hun?

The only possible outcome of saying what he did was to embarass you, which is bad manners.

I personally would not of found it worse if he had of just messaged me instead. I know what your saying about my profile and to some extent you are right im not shy and I always thought if someone I know recognises me on here then they are obviously on here themselves for the same thing so they cant judge me so it doesn't matter. Just didnt expect to be asked about it face to face at the school of all places lol. Deffo going to be taking face pics off now x

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I met my parents postman at the first social I went to. He knew my parents and my dog. I very nearly shat myself.

& your dog? Don't worry, it'll probably exercise discretion, - they're a loyal bunch, you know!

It's really just as well he couldn't talk. I'd be in a LOT of trouble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me a few weeks ago. Was at the pub and saw a guy I knew when i was quite young (he used to work at the pub that my mum drank at) and he said 'i recognise you from somewhere!'... I thought he just recognised me from a few years ago... But then he sent me a message on here!! I'm just glad he didn't mention it in the pub lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But the way to look at it is that he's on here too!

It really shows no social skills to bring it up like that!

He needs to be blocked and if you see him again reminded that it's inappropriate to approach you like that!

Otherwise don't sweat it - who cares you look hot own it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But the way to look at it is that he's on here too!

It really shows no social skills to bring it up like that!

He needs to be blocked and if you see him again reminded that it's inappropriate to approach you like that!

Otherwise don't sweat it - who cares you look hot own it

How is it bad manners to approach someone in real life?

Is talking about swinging only acceptable in the forums? Must all sex be arranged on the internet?

Sounds like he brought it up discreetly and in a light hearted manner.

I'd say it shows more of a lack of social skills not to feel able to talk to someone in real life.

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By *eno_2004Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

There are two local couples at my school on this site, one definitely knows I'm here because we once met in the local and she asked how I liked the site which broke the ice and though we haven't played has given school runs a little edge. The other was a couple were we exchanged pics but never really met, the mum always smes at me in the play ground but we've never spoken

I guess the cat's out the bag for all of us

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By *hoe_nixCouple
over a year ago

leeds

I have never posted my face pic .... but have been recognised while selling at a car boot sale -- the guy said I had a distinctive hair style ... and there was me thinking it was my tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have now hidden my face pics after reading this. Something that I totally dread happening is that scenario. Good luck with it.

We to have our face pics hidden but were approached by a guy very local to us (who we previous had turned down for living to close). He messaged saying he'd say Hi next time he saw me taking our grandson to school, thinking he was bluffing we asked more questions and sure enough he knew what school and whereabouts I stood.

When asked how he knew us, he said he'd had a group meet and the guy hosting had left his profile open and quess who was a friend of his!!

I freaked at first and wanted to come off here, but the guy said he wouldn't said anything and besides he had more to lose as he was playing away. But it's horrid knowing someone knows us and we haven't got a clue who they are though!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow thats just plain bad manners

Whats bad manners hun?

The only possible outcome of saying what he did was to embarass you, which is bad manners.

I hate to say this but you still have face pics up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good name thou. You are very bang tidy

Have to agree, you are very sexy! The guy sounds a creep, you dont bring things Like that up at a school Near kids! Put face pics private, safer for you. No Its not happened to me.Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not the right place or time sorry its their school . I would have said very little and he would have got the message. Yes may have seen you but you can get some weird people on sites like this.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I don't think she's that worried, she still has 11 face pics in public lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good name thou. You are very bang tidy

Have to agree, you are very sexy! The guy sounds a creep, you dont bring things Like that up at a school Near kids! Put face pics private, safer for you. No Its not happened to me.Good luck."

She wasn't at the school and had no kids with her .......mountains and molehills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a guy in my area spot me in the doctors. .. but he messaged me later

And told me.....I was in a middle of a shift.... we were in talks at one point to meet .... but he was to young for me .. so

Now blocked. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good name thou. You are very bang tidy

Have to agree, you are very sexy! The guy sounds a creep, you dont bring things Like that up at a school Near kids! Put face pics private, safer for you. No Its not happened to me.Good luck.

She wasn't at the school and had no kids with her .......mountains and molehills.

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well her mail is saying at school here and he asked? schools and things are no no in our book too as you have to take care with family around some strange people out there and safety comes first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont even see the big issue here, if a person has face pics up then its silly to get wound up over stuff like this..

providing the gent in question wasnt loud and shouting it from the rooftops 'i saw your gash on a swingers website' infront of everyone else i can see how its embarrassing. Your on here showing strangers your body accept that may be a consequence

also because they gents on here too, is it even fair to discuss this in a public forum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good name thou. You are very bang tidy

Have to agree, you are very sexy! The guy sounds a creep, you dont bring things Like that up at a school Near kids! Put face pics private, safer for you. No Its not happened to me.Good luck.

She wasn't at the school and had no kids with her .......mountains and molehills.

Try reading previous posts properly, she was at the school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont even see the big issue here, if a person has face pics up then its silly to get wound up over stuff like this..

also because they gents on here too, is it even fair to discuss this in a public forum? "
so you would be ok if your child there standing with you him chatting about this ?....... as if he did it once may feel he can again and again and may not be alone all the time at school he maybe ok but would you risk it with family around?.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"So im picking my kids up from primary school yesterday and one of the dads who I always say hi too stops me and says "iv'e been trying to think for ages where I know your face from"

So I say "where is it then"?

And he says "Fab"

Didnt know what to say just stood there kinda flustered and said "oh....right"

He then says "anyway say no more" with a cheeky look in his eye

Arggghhhh cringing so much at the thought of seeing him again! Need to remove my face from my pics I think!

Has this ever happened to anyone else?! "

Its a small world, maybe next time you see him before the kids come out the school gates say you looked at your viewed me list and now you've seen his profile aswel, see if it makes him feel awkward? Sometimes people don't like a dose of their own medicine.

Takes a swinger to know a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not the right place or time sorry its their school . I would have said very little and he would have got the message. Yes may have seen you but you can get some weird people on sites like this."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But the way to look at it is that he's on here too!

It really shows no social skills to bring it up like that!

He needs to be blocked and if you see him again reminded that it's inappropriate to approach you like that!

Otherwise don't sweat it - who cares you look hot own it

How is it bad manners to approach someone in real life?

Is talking about swinging only acceptable in the forums? Must all sex be arranged on the internet?

Sounds like he brought it up discreetly and in a light hearted manner.

I'd say it shows more of a lack of social skills not to feel able to talk to someone in real life."

As someone just said - he approached her at her kids school!

Personally I don't think it was the right place to do it and I wouldn't have liked it!

Adults can talk about what they like but surely not when there is kids around it feels a bit wrong!

Just my opinion x

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Yeah, very awkward........

Perhaps a bit tactless... But is,nt that so often the case with us guys...

Personally I think he thought he was just being friendly..

I feel you should,nt be made to feel ashamed of a perfectly natural need.

Had you of recognised him... And he had said nothing would that not of been creepier?? Or insulting??

Wonder would it of been better for him just to of discreetly handed you a note??

Strange thing with me, colleagues from work have recognsd me..

Tried to tease me about it, witout me rising to it.

Oddly, the few ladies seem more open to chat to us( not about fab)

Where as b4 they seemed indifferent.

Weird..

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By *ames blackMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"Bit rude to approach u when ur with ur kids tho?

It was when I was on way in to pick them up. They werent with me"

She wasn't at the school, she was on the way there. No kids nearby.

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over a year ago

"So im picking my kids up from primary school yesterday and one of the dads who I always say hi too stops me and says "iv'e been trying to think for ages where I know your face from"

So I say "where is it then"?

And he says "Fab"

Didnt know what to say just stood there kinda flustered and said "oh....right"

He then says "anyway say no more" with a cheeky look in his eye

Arggghhhh cringing so much at the thought of seeing him again! Need to remove my face from my pics I think!

Has this ever happened to anyone else?! "

Does it sound like like she is upset, or feeling intimidated and harassed.

Does it sound like she feels he's pressuring her to meet or chat to him?

The man in question is one of the fathers she always says hi to, this shows they already have a friendly relationship, he isn't a totally random person.

She does say she is picking her kids up from school but as she says she just stands there afterwards it suggests they haven't come out yet.

I like the way it is written. It is an amusing tale of caution.

She isn't upset, just a bit embarrassed at being recognised.

Stop saying the guy is a dick when clearly that isn't what she is trying to say. All you are doing is possibly damaging the friendly relationship that she has with this man. Just think what would happen if he saw her innocent thread and then realised how people were responding!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she is at her kids school and he say hi and he had seen her face now know where from.............. Well how do she know this man is not making friends just to get to kids? how do she know he is not some weird perv and going to stalk her and maybe been wishing to say this for weeks just picking the time ............ No its not the place and time and yes he maybe normal and nice but do you risk things and make friends with a stranger at the school Who chating to you about a sex site.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"she is at her kids school and he say hi and he had seen her face now know where from.............. Well how do she know this man is not making friends just to get to kids? how do she know he is not some weird perv and going to stalk her and maybe been wishing to say this for weeks just picking the time ............ No its not the place and time and yes he maybe normal and nice but do you risk things and make friends with a stranger at the school Who chating to you about a sex site.?"

O.o

Not all men are pedophiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And he says "Fab . He had see her face there . Ask yourself why did he not mail on fab ??? He could have and it would have been better . Maybe not having a lot of luck here mailing. I once had a stoker he founds out where I lived my phone number and even called my home and sent me flowers to the door. He new a lot about me at the time I did find it strange ... just some like the power it gives them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What stalking did this guy do???

He was picking his kids up same as her. It just occurred to him where he recognised her from and said it.

Why the fuck do you think this man, this father, is only after her to try to get to her kids because he happens to be on the same swingers site as her???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What stalking did this guy do???

He was picking his kids up same as her. It just occurred to him where he recognised her from and said it.

Why the fuck do you think this man, this father, is only after her to try to get to her kids because he happens to be on the same swingers site as her???

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Why could he just not mail her on fab ? But say this at the school picking her kids up saying he had seen her face.? Its not on in my book I would have found his profile here and gone mad at him and blocked after . school is not a play grown for picking up people for sex or chatting about sex sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously not to bothered. Face pics still up and often on Web cam

If it's put out there.....................

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on the train once, the local branch line, on my way back from Wolverhampton and a guy came and sat right next to me, I found it a bit odd as the carriage was totally empty, he kept looking at me, he did this for about 10 mins, I was really uncomfy by this point as I was alone with him, after about 10 mins he introduced himself to me as a guy who had mailed me on fab, apparently I had turned him down, when I got home he had mailed me asking if I would verify him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So im picking my kids up from primary school yesterday and one of the dads who I always say hi too stops me and says "iv'e been trying to think for ages where I know your face from"

So I say "where is it then"?

And he says "Fab"

Didnt know what to say just stood there kinda flustered and said "oh....right"

He then says "anyway say no more" with a cheeky look in his eye

Arggghhhh cringing so much at the thought of seeing him again! Need to remove my face from my pics I think!

Has this ever happened to anyone else?! "

Question is would you shag him. If yes then you might be in luck with a cheeky quickie whenever you pick up the kids

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

been recognised while out and nothing said, but recieved messages off people later saying where and when they saw us. this has heppened a couple of times with a few different people, we pretend it was not us but you cant kid a kidder lol. we try not to meet locals, too close to home

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"I was on the train once, the local branch line, on my way back from Wolverhampton and a guy came and sat right next to me, I found it a bit odd as the carriage was totally empty, he kept looking at me, he did this for about 10 mins, I was really uncomfy by this point as I was alone with him, after about 10 mins he introduced himself to me as a guy who had mailed me on fab, apparently I had turned him down, when I got home he had mailed me asking if I would verify him

....and did you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad, bad, bad. There is a girl from fab I recognise works in a local shop, but even though I match her requirements, (and she is hot), I would never approach or speak to her. I haven't even winked or fabbed her pics, because I wouldn't want to make her uncomfortable, or worse still, freak her out. Fab stalkers are bad enough without taking it into real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....and did you?

what would you put

this creepy guy came and sat by me on the train today eyeing me up and down for at least 10 mins before he said hi, genuine? no idea I think it was a coincidence we got the same train

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

....and did you?

what would you put

this creepy guy came and sat by me on the train today eyeing me up and down for at least 10 mins before he said hi, genuine? no idea I think it was a coincidence we got the same train

You could've wrote that, lol.

Wonder if he would've displayed it on his profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good name thou. You are very bang tidy

Have to agree, you are very sexy! The guy sounds a creep, you dont bring things Like that up at a school Near kids! Put face pics private, safer for you. No Its not happened to me.Good luck.

She wasn't at the school and had no kids with her .......mountains and molehills.

well her mail is saying at school here and he asked? schools and things are no no in our book too as you have to take care with family around some strange people out there and safety comes first."

If you read all, she said later she was on the way to school and no kids with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good name thou. You are very bang tidy

Have to agree, you are very sexy! The guy sounds a creep, you dont bring things Like that up at a school Near kids! Put face pics private, safer for you. No Its not happened to me.Good luck.

She wasn't at the school and had no kids with her .......mountains and molehills.

Try reading previous posts properly, she was at the school

"Bit rude to approach u when ur with ur kids tho?"

It was when I was on way in to pick them up. They werent with me

Take your own advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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he might have wanted some on board fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear lord, okay so the guy was maybe a tad out of order mentioning to her face to face but it hardly makes him a child molester!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so you would be ok if your child there standing with you him chatting about this ?....... as if he did it once may feel he can again and again and may not be alone all the time at school he maybe ok but would you risk it with family around?."

the OP already said the child wasn't with her. Im on here, ive placed information and pictures knowingly on the internet which means ive kinda released control of part of my private life,, so if its anyones fault it would be my own

from what i read the gent wasnt loud and rude was just a passing comment.. the word 'fab' unless you know about here is hardly offensive nor would indicate things of a sexual nature..

thank fuck im not half as paranoid as some on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

from what i read the gent wasnt loud and rude was just a passing comment.. the word 'fab' unless you know about here is hardly offensive nor would indicate things of a sexual nature..

thank fuck im not half as paranoid as some on here

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

from what i read the gent wasnt loud and rude was just a passing comment.. the word 'fab' unless you know about here is hardly offensive nor would indicate things of a sexual nature..

thank fuck im not half as paranoid as some on here

Exactly,and as the OP continues to have clear faces on her profile it seems shes not too concerned either

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"So im picking my kids up from primary school yesterday and one of the dads who I always say hi too stops me and says "iv'e been trying to think for ages where I know your face from"

So I say "where is it then"?

And he says "Fab"

Didnt know what to say just stood there kinda flustered and said "oh....right"

He then says "anyway say no more" with a cheeky look in his eye

Arggghhhh cringing so much at the thought of seeing him again! Need to remove my face from my pics I think!

Has this ever happened to anyone else?! "

Question is, would you fuck him?!!

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By *angtidy10 OP Couple
over a year ago

Broseley

"Bit rude to approach u when ur with ur kids tho?

It was when I was on way in to pick them up. They werent with me

She wasn't at the school, she was on the way there. No kids nearby."

It was right outside the school gate there were other children around (not mine) he did say it quietly but still don't think it was the time or the place. He could of just messaged me

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By *angtidy10 OP Couple
over a year ago

Broseley

"So im picking my kids up from primary school yesterday and one of the dads who I always say hi too stops me and says "iv'e been trying to think for ages where I know your face from"

So I say "where is it then"?

And he says "Fab"

Didnt know what to say just stood there kinda flustered and said "oh....right"

He then says "anyway say no more" with a cheeky look in his eye

Arggghhhh cringing so much at the thought of seeing him again! Need to remove my face from my pics I think!

Has this ever happened to anyone else?!

Does it sound like like she is upset, or feeling intimidated and harassed.

Does it sound like she feels he's pressuring her to meet or chat to him?

The man in question is one of the fathers she always says hi to, this shows they already have a friendly relationship, he isn't a totally random person.

She does say she is picking her kids up from school but as she says she just stands there afterwards it suggests they haven't come out yet.

I like the way it is written. It is an amusing tale of caution.

She isn't upset, just a bit embarrassed at being recognised.

This is true I wasnt saying he was a dick I was just a bit embarrassed and wondered If anyone else had been in a similar situation really. We moved house a few weeks later and kids moved school so haven't seen him since!

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By *angtidy10 OP Couple
over a year ago

Broseley

from what i read the gent wasnt loud and rude was just a passing comment.. the word 'fab' unless you know about here is hardly offensive nor would indicate things of a sexual nature..

thank fuck im not half as paranoid as some on here

Exactly,and as the OP continues to have clear faces on her profile it seems shes not too concerned either

Not anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened to me in a weirder way..

I was on the tram (on crutches) after a bad op and when I got home and checed fab I noticed a message.

The guy had written that he had seen me and spent the whole journey Looking at my ass....

It was a tag disconcerting. Plus he says he's seen me several times since and I have no idea who he is.

Strange but true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's happened to me in a weirder way..

I was on the tram (on crutches) after a bad op and when I got home and checed fab I noticed a message.

The guy had written that he had seen me and spent the whole journey Looking at my ass....

It was a tag disconcerting. Plus he says he's seen me several times since and I have no idea who he is.

Strange but true

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you have no face pic on your profile how would he know its you.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow thats just plain bad manners"

Indeed. Most indiscreet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think the only appropriate place to mention the fact recognise someone off Fab is either in a club or at a private party.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's happened to me in a weirder way..

I was on the tram (on crutches) after a bad op and when I got home and checed fab I noticed a message.

The guy had written that he had seen me and spent the whole journey Looking at my ass....

It was a tag disconcerting. Plus he says he's seen me several times since and I have no idea who he is.

Strange but true

you have no face pic on your profile how would he know its you.?"

That's the reason I don't have one anymore lol

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1st rule of fab club?

DONT TALK ABOUT FAB CLUB!

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By *angtidy10 OP Couple
over a year ago

Broseley

"Personally I think the only appropriate place to mention the fact recognise someone off Fab is either in a club or at a private party. "

I would agree with this! Iv seen a couple in the gym before off here no way would I go up to them and start discussing it!

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

was spotted by my son on facebook..itwas a bit awkward and its why ive taken my face p[ics of here

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By *angtidy10 OP Couple
over a year ago

Broseley

"was spotted by my son on facebook..itwas a bit awkward and its why ive taken my face p[ics of here "

Facebook?

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I was recently sacked from my job when my manager realised it was us he had a threesome with a few years ago.... He is 'happily married' and carries that pretense at work.

He obviously found a different reason to sack me. Idiot was scared, but what did he really think I was going to say!?

I also have a veri from a school friend I got in touch with on here lol

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By *angtidy10 OP Couple
over a year ago

Broseley

"I was recently sacked from my job when my manager realised it was us he had a threesome with a few years ago.... He is 'happily married' and carries that pretense at work.

He obviously found a different reason to sack me. Idiot was scared, but what did he really think I was going to say!?

I also have a veri from a school friend I got in touch with on here lol "

OMG thats awful about your job. Sorry to hear that!

If I seen someone who i went to school with on here who I liked id prob drop them a message. Nowt wrong with that!

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I actually fancied the arse off him at school lol

As for the job, just gotta find another now and not sure what to say as to why I left last job!?!? Lol. Wouldn't mind but his cum tasted of cheese

lmao

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

"I dont even see the big issue here, if a person has face pics up then its silly to get wound up over stuff like this..

also because they gents on here too, is it even fair to discuss this in a public forum? "

How it it ok to bring up swinging in an outside-of-swinging scenario appropriate, but discussing it in the swingers forum innapropriate? Having pictures = consequences, but talking about swinging in public = no consequences? Where is the logic in this reasoning?

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By *angtidy10 OP Couple
over a year ago

Broseley

"Wouldn't mind but his cum tasted of cheese

lmao "

Ewwwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont even see the big issue here, if a person has face pics up then its silly to get wound up over stuff like this..

also because they gents on here too, is it even fair to discuss this in a public forum?

Cath I have to agree with you! No logic in other guys reasoning at all. Fab and all other site and clubs operate on two rules and two rules only - Discretion and Respect. This guy and all others users like him who bring it to real like violate these two rules. What happens on fab or in meets or clubs stay there. Two rules - Discretion and Respect

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