FabSwingers.com forum: Facebook

By *ilandlarry OP Couple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

I have a facebook profile and have added some friends from here on to there with no problems at all. We play games etc and pass the time of day without any mention of being on here comes up however, just recently I have received invites from people who are friends of my "swinging" friends who seem to think that it's ok to add me.

My facebook is for keeping in touch with family and friends as we live away from them. Please have some repect for other people's privacy!

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By *nkednkinky_bbwWoman
over a year ago

cannock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think thats pretty shitty actually. Is there an option on Facebook to hide your friends list so that the vindictive people cant poke fun a your relatives? thats what would worry me.

We both have Facebook but dont have anyone from here,

oh, and Mafia Wars all the way baby

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"I have a facebook profile and have added some friends from here on to there with no problems at all. We play games etc and pass the time of day without any mention of being on here comes up however, just recently I have received invites from people who are friends of my "swinging" friends who seem to think that it's ok to add me.

My facebook is for keeping in touch with family and friends as we live away from them. Please have some repect for other people's privacy!

Once you make the cyber connections and cross over the links between people from one aspect of your life to another.... there is no need for people to respect your privacy as you gave it up.

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

i have a few friends from here on f/b

but if they are true friends they wont mix the two up

by the way farmville rules

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By *ilandlarry OP Couple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

My facebook is for keeping in touch with family and friends as we live away from them. Please have some repect for other people's privacy!

Once you make the cyber connections and cross over the links between people from one aspect of your life to another.... there is no need for people to respect your privacy as you gave it up."

I don't agree. If I wanted the whole world to know about my private life then I would be the one doing the broadcasting. I have made some pretty good friends on here and another site and don't see why I should have to compromise my privacy just because someone thinks it's ok to add me.

My FB account is set to almost the highest security settings. I'm pretty sure that even anyone looking for me doesn't see my profile picture just a bit of info on the info page but nothing gives anything away about me.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

My facebook is for keeping in touch with family and friends as we live away from them. Please have some repect for other people's privacy!

Once you make the cyber connections and cross over the links between people from one aspect of your life to another.... there is no need for people to respect your privacy as you gave it up.

Fair enough, you don't agree... but it's you who has the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could create two accounts on facebook, one for family and friends and one for friends in swinging.

You could ignore the friends invites.

personally as stated, if you cross the boundaries then you have to expect it a little.

facebook is facebook, anybody and everybody is 'friends' on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone tried to add me as a friend i didnt know him facebook is for family and friends so i declined it,he must have looked at my friends list and added my daughter,they were chatting on f/b chat and he said i know your mum,she asked how and he told her we were swingers!

We had never met him just exchanged a couple of emails on here,now everything is hidden on facebook even friends on their.

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By *nkednkinky_bbwWoman
over a year ago

cannock

i have a main facebook profile and have recently set up a play profile for my naughty friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have a main facebook profile and have recently set up a play profile for my naughty friends

I'm thinking of setting up a profile here just for family and friends away from the swinging scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi,

Think the lesson learned here is, only share your Social networking site ID with people that you trust and utulize the privacy options that are available.

Just like the privacy settings here.

Paddy x

My facebook is for keeping in touch with family and friends as we live away from them. Please have some repect for other people's privacy!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

If you use the same email account for msn/play mates as you did to register on facebook or any other such site... people can hunt down anyone they have spoken to on msn from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can hide your friends list so friends of friends can't see you on searches

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"i have a main facebook profile and have recently set up a play profile for my naughty friends

It is a sensible thing to do... you may trust a few close swinging friends... but can you trust all of their friends and friends of friends and so on?

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By *ilandlarry OP Couple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

"If you use the same email account for msn/play mates as you did to register on facebook or any other such site... people can hunt down anyone they have spoken to on msn from here."

we don't chat on msn to anyone from here

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"If you use the same email account for msn/play mates as you did to register on facebook or any other such site... people can hunt down anyone they have spoken to on msn from here.

we don't chat on msn to anyone from here"

No you just add them to your facebook

... sorry I couldn't resist.

I was just pointing it out generally for folks who may not think about the email addy connection. I know a few people who shit their pants after one-nighters started trying to add them on their very vanilla facebook.

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By *ilandlarry OP Couple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

What i'm trying to say is, I don't mind adding people who I have become friendly with on here to my FB. Initial contact usually consists of this is purely vanilla and I would appreciate it if no aspect of my other life is mentioned on here for privacy reasons and there has never been any problem.

The person who recently requested to add me has had no contact whatsoever with me in any shape or form on here.

I understand that lives cross over and as said previously I have made some very good friends, some of whom attended our wedding and met our families. However, this does not mean that it's ok for anyone to add me to FB without any initial contact either on here or there.

Ah well, off to up my security settings higher I spose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just click ignore

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By *nkednkinky_bbwWoman
over a year ago

cannock

"i have a main facebook profile and have recently set up a play profile for my naughty friends

It is a sensible thing to do... you may trust a few close swinging friends... but can you trust all of their friends and friends of friends and so on?"

I also thought that if i added horizontal friends to my vanilla profile and we fell out (things happen) they would have direct contact to my family and vanilla friends and it would make it very easy for them to cause me a fair amount of grief

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

FB makes me laugh. I started an account purely to get news from a swinger`s club. I used names only known to me and have never posted on it. I still get people wanting to add me as a friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why did you need to add FAB friends to facebook?

Both are for different reasons....

Bet the ones you have a problem with don't use their main account, but their play FB account...

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By *ilandlarry OP Couple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

Because the ones I added are friends, not play buddies. It can and does happen. I didn't realise it was taboo for that to happen. Now I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good idea to set up a separate profile for naughty friends. However, I shan't be able to look up the latest information while at work for sure!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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The person who recently requested to add me has had no contact whatsoever with me in any shape or form on here.

We don't have facebook but set one up so I could see some pics a person on here had on their facebook.......and before we could delete it again we had been added by 4 people who we had obviously never spoken to........when I asked who they were they said they were just collecting friends...........maybe this person was just doing the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont add anyone from here onto my facebook...as you say, my private and personal lives are seperate. I would suggest it was you that smudged the lines, not the friens of friends.

i also have invites from people who are friends of friends; i think anyone who uses facebook realise it happens.

do what you do on here and say no! it's not a big deal and certainly not an invasion of privacy. they cant post or write on your page until you accet their invie d if you have the highest privacy settings, they cant view your page.

if you dont ike it, remove the friends from here and keep it to just family and finds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure about anyone else on this site but we are looking for friendship as well as sex.... is that so strange?

Sometimes we get friendly enough to people on here that we trust THEM to be on our Facebook accounts. These are people that we would socialise with even if no sex was involved. Just happens we met them through Fabs.

Others we are friends with as above but have met and continue to meet sexually. We trust them enough to share our bed regularily and so trust them enough to be on Facebook and have a laugh on there too.

Thats all that Lil is doing....shes trusting those on her pals list on FB but NOT trusting pals of pals.

We dont add people through the email accounts we use for swinging (even though we have had invites from other people who have added that email address into facebook).

My ex wife, my daughter and my sister are on my FB too...but I trust those that are on my FB enough not to worry. They also have their family on theirs too, so wouldnt want to be posting daft things on my FB as it would drop them in it too!

Anyhoo, all Lil was asking, is for pals of her existing pals on FB not to automatically assume they can add her.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally agree with you lil , we have friends from here on FB as friends ....but ONLY those we have either met or cht to o a regular basis.

We have received friends invites on FB from friends on here as well as sent them and we woud totally understand if our invites were ignored for privacy reasons.

Can understand ure apprehention abou it , as you know we have been friends on FB for some times , can remember yor daughter putting a pic of me on a ball and seing how far she could boot it ....lol

so anyone we have as friends on both here and FB ....fear not ....discretion is assured !!!! xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

", can remember yor daughter putting a pic of me on a ball and seing how far she could boot it "

Similar thing to me having ur pic on a dartboard then grid?

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 2 separate Hotmail accounts and profiles, and use one for playing only.

I *suspect* the same can be done for Facebook, and I shall go and find out soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Correction, I shan't try on Facebook, as I suspect there may be something similar that is more appropriate, as seen on the adverts on RedTube!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

", can remember yor daughter putting a pic of me on a ball and seing how far she could boot it

Similar thing to me having ur pic on a dartboard then grid?

;-)"

PMSFL steve m8 ......... i take it you've given up on the voodoo doll then ...lol

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